Ever cheated on a missus? Why'd you do it....
I pressume you would be ok if she never found out 
03 October 2015, 01:53 PM
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Mind you, I don't think Jesus ever had a GF or a wife, for what I know. Like the politicians and the prostitutes, he was probably married to the masses. I'm not disrespecting Jesus (or any other God/God like that is single) here at all with that. He's believed to be the Son of God, and I understand his position and responsibilities.
I'm not saying that this Jesus reincarnation is limited to men. I'm sure some wimmins think they're female Jesus, but remain in denial about being quite anti-Jesus in some areas.
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03 October 2015, 01:57 PM
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03 October 2015, 02:17 PM
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To be fair, you do say in your previous post that.......................
You two obviously weren't well-connected. She seemed to have fooled herself by being with you, and you also fooled her and yourself in that relationship. You two are better off without each other. You have committed a violent act, because you've emotionally hurt her. But something good has come out of it i.e. she doesn't have to put up with your dishonesty, and you don't have to put up with being with someone who you ought to keep secrets from.
You don't need to 'feel' bothered, just because others impose their moral high grounds on you. This 'not feeling' is a biggy here. It clearly shows that you were not good for her, so give the situation some credit for splitting you two. She can now find someone who's honest and trustworthy, and you can find someone who you can be open with.
I kept a lot from her, was never really honest. Feel like I was one person with her but my true self was a whole other thing. That made me not believe who she was so I'd go through her stuff n look on her online accounts. Took another girl on a date when she was I'll and she found bank ststement
You don't need to 'feel' bothered, just because others impose their moral high grounds on you. This 'not feeling' is a biggy here. It clearly shows that you were not good for her, so give the situation some credit for splitting you two. She can now find someone who's honest and trustworthy, and you can find someone who you can be open with.
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03 October 2015, 02:30 PM
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39 yrs of age...
Cheating on your long term girlfriend.
Hiding your true personality from her.
Hiding masses of debt.
No home.
You need to have a word with yourself,you sound like a bit of a fvck up all brought on by yourself..
Cheating on your long term girlfriend.
Hiding your true personality from her.
Hiding masses of debt.
No home.
You need to have a word with yourself,you sound like a bit of a fvck up all brought on by yourself..
03 October 2015, 02:31 PM
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03 October 2015, 02:46 PM
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She's a very attractive girl! She surely deserves honesty and decency, if she's an honest and a decent one herself.
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03 October 2015, 02:50 PM
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She wanted me to get counselling. Was going to go to relate for the things I said to her. Would get frustrated and call he names and generally be nasty.
03 October 2015, 02:53 PM
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Go for one-to-one counselling for yourself. Become more self-aware yourself before you look at yourself on the interpersonal and interactional level with your partner. Reading what you're posting here seems to indicate the need for one-to-one face-to-face counselling.
03 October 2015, 03:34 PM
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Did you two split up because one of you cheated?
And, yes, if 'friends with benefits' or 'sh@g buddy ship' works for you, then good for you. Nothing wrong with that, as long as both of you know what's what. Use contraceptive, though, if you aren't sure whether you two will be sharing your life together under the same roof or what. Say if the baby comes along, it will be a wrong reason to stay with someone for the sake of the baby. You may do, as long as you both know what's what.
She's a very pretty girl, DYK.
Does she know you've posted her pic here, and is she ok about it? It not, respect her a bit for staying as your sex buddy, and ask her if it's ok with her. She may not mind, which is cool.
A lot of people don't like being pasted on the internet by their 'sha@gged ones' or 'loved ones' without their consent, you see.
And, yes, if 'friends with benefits' or 'sh@g buddy ship' works for you, then good for you. Nothing wrong with that, as long as both of you know what's what. Use contraceptive, though, if you aren't sure whether you two will be sharing your life together under the same roof or what. Say if the baby comes along, it will be a wrong reason to stay with someone for the sake of the baby. You may do, as long as you both know what's what.
She's a very pretty girl, DYK.
Does she know you've posted her pic here, and is she ok about it? It not, respect her a bit for staying as your sex buddy, and ask her if it's ok with her. She may not mind, which is cool.
A lot of people don't like being pasted on the internet by their 'sha@gged ones' or 'loved ones' without their consent, you see.
03 October 2015, 03:43 PM
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03 October 2015, 04:11 PM
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I don't post pics of her on the net this first but scoobynet is relatively discreet.we love but she jacked in her job because of stress depression,so I carried us for two years which I didn't mind but if you ever been with anyone suffering depression it ain't easy,but I kept her strong seen her through it.but I felt exhausted at the end we decided to still see each other for going out and bed time fun.i'm cool with it ��
But that's my value, not yours, so all cool. She indeed is a lovely looking girl.
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03 October 2015, 04:24 PM
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Anyone here (including me) can start counselling you here on SN with half the knowledge about you. It's not difficult to churn the scripts with moral code and self-proclaimed 'niceness', as it's gratifying to the 'nice' healers of the soul as well. IMO your issues can be authentically explored in a professional setting, mate. Half the people here are taking the p!$$ (perhaps you, too), half are giving you their 'nice' advice as they're just so super compassionate and morally sound themselves. This is a forum full of virtual vankers or random forever faithfuls, so in all honesty, you will leave with hardly anything useful by discussing this issue here. Go and see a counsellor face to face in your local.
Good luck.
03 October 2015, 04:29 PM
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