imatrukahs

Sexy...i am a realest...i dont live in fantasy land.

sexy wrx69

you cant judge all people who cheat on the same level.
depends on why the person cheats in the first place.
there are those people who cheat because they can get away with it or to humuliate their partner.
then there are those who cheat as a mistake.
then there are those who cheat because they are VERY unhappy in a relationship that they are too weak to escape from.

anyone who catagorises all these types into one, is either unbelievably narrow minded or has a HUGE issue with being cheated on..probably resulting from being cheated on themselves for which they have never quite gotten over. That type of person will never be able to fully enjoy a relationship becuase they will NEVER fully trust anyone.

i feel sorry for those people.

MarkO

Stop being so arrogant, pious and self-righteous - and get a life. You sound like a bloody Jehova's witness. [img]images/smilies/mad.gif[/img]

Funny - with this attitude, you wonder why you precipitate threats from people on the BBS!!?!?

Stealth

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Short and Curlies of it peeps:

Everyone is capable of cheating it's just a matter of whether you want to or not. Personally I opt not to cheat but that's just me, the guilt would kill me!!!

But I do believe however that people can cheat and then not do it again.... you only go somewhere else to find something that is missing in the current relationship.

I however have everything I could ever have in a relationship andwould never consider cheating, and I believe that SWRX69 would NEVER cheat on me.

So unless you know everything about everyone you cannot tar them with any brush

MarkO

On you?!?!? I was just about to post that I believe that she'll never cheat on me!!!

sexy wrx69

LOL @ MarkO

imatrukahs

MarkO..go back to school FOOL!


Freedom of speech..ya cant beat it....the insults come flying when people dont agree.

Sexy..seems you know you done wrong....and the fact you are name calling me now..suggests you know you will do it again!

LG John

And the response was:

Its not weakness at all!! The pain when the person you love and want to spend the rest of your life with goes off with someone else cannot be described in words. It's a very hard thing to recover from and for me it was like I'd lost (in the death sense) the girl of my dreams. Its been a whole year now and my life is still reeling from it. NEVER underestimate the pain cheating can cause and be very supporting of friends or family that are going through it

sexy wrx69

name calling ima??


and no, i KNOW i wont do it again.
but in all honesty...i couldnt give a **** if you dont believe me. i dont know you. you dont know me. therefore you cant possibly comment on whether i will cheat again or not just as i cant say that you will never cheat on your girlfriend. you just have to accept someones word and if they **** up again...then you dont give them any more chances.

the only person i care about believing me, does. thats all that matters.

MarkO

Ima, you need to understand what freedom of speech means. Freedom of speech does not mean that you are free to preach in a pious and self-righteous way, belittling other people because their opinion doesn't necessarily fit with your point of view. You've been nothing but condescending towards those who believe that it's possible to cheat once and never do it again - you're hardly allowing them freedom of speech, are you?

(and yes, I'm fully aware of my own ability to be pious and self-righteous )

Stealth

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PMSL @ MarkO

It's only cheating if I don't know about it mate..... she's told me all about you.... why do you think she hasn't left me for you

MarkO

LOL. Presumably it doesn't count as cheating if we're all there at the same time?

(ooops - too far? )

Stealth

iTrader: (4)

Not at all Marko.... by the way that was a funky move you did last time.... do you have to get two ribs removed to be able to do that to yourself

sexy wrx69

Saxo Boy....im sorry. i didnt mean it like that. i know full well what its like to be on the recieving end of someone cheating on you.

what i meant was that people should have the strength to get on with their lives and not let the cheater **** them up. i feel sorry for people who feel that their lives are over when their partner cheats on them. surely its better to know that you obviously werent meant to be with that person and go and find someone who will treat you how you deserve to be treated...rather than spend the rest of your life with someone whose not THE ONE for you???

imatrukahs

Like i have said and will mantain till death..(which seems imminent..)....if your capable of doin it once you WILL do it again..Stealth mate...hope you dont let her out by herself after knowing what she is capable of..

What happened to the "guilt would be to much to bear"...people?

People will REAL feelins..and stronger mentally than any of yow..

Let the insults fly..

MarkO

ROFLMAO.

No, but the ribs had been removed anyway after the incident involving the wardrobe, the batman costume and the awkward landing.

MarkO

Ima, out of interest, are you single? If not, and you're this vocal about your attitude to cheating, how exactly can you be sure that your current partner hasn't cheated? After all, even if she's 'the right one' for you, and intends to remain faithful with you until the end of her life, if she's cheated in the past she's not going to tell you for fear of you ending it unnecessarily.

Surely if you trust nobody, you shouldn't get involved with anyone?

Stealth

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IMA, I am fully aware of what she can do, that's why our sex life is so fecking good..... as for cheating I know full well that she would never cheat on me and she can do what she wants when she wants because I trust her 100%

You on the other hand are quiet obviously unable to forgive!! you have been cheated on before and are now paranoid of every bloke that so much as looks at your G/F, you are an insecure person who in all fairness will never be able to fully enjoy and appreciate a decent relationship through fear of being hurt again......

Get over it fella what's done is done

imatrukahs

Same bint for 11 years.....i know my girl wont cheat..shes pig ugly...LOL..Joke..honey....Course i trust her.....we have a good relationship...i am just saying a cheat is a cheat...BTW i met this girly when she was 15......and i was the first...

I had a girl cheat on me...and i dumped her..she wanted me back..but i said **** off...you WILL do it again.

Nuff said..i am right..you lot are either serial cheaters or stupid..cant think which..

MarkO

How can you possibly be sure that she won't cheat, she hasn't cheated in the past, or even that you were the first? It's not like she'd tell you if any of the above wasn't true....

Stealth

iTrader: (4)

It apeears thatyou are the stupid one, narrow minded, sceptical and unser of everyone.... you are obviously a bad judge of character my friend. Cheating isn't something that stay with you forever you do it once and get over it when you find exactly what you want !!

Nic

"....if your capable of doin it once you WILL do it again.."

I think thats going a bit far, there are people you have had a couple of drinks & then driven home but swear they will never ever do it again.....sometimes making a mistake is the only way to learn

LG John

Thats quite alright sexy wrx. Nobody I've met since has come close to being anywhere near as nice as my ex and she still make my heart beat when I see her.....I guess I'll just have to keep searching for the one.

Wanted: Sexy, non-cheating, subaru luving, kind, caring lass for serious relationship

MarkO

I can do all except the 'lass' part.

Nic

why....Saxo Boy...hello there
purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

sexy wrx69

good point MarkO.


Ima...it was YOUR choice to not take her back. other people are more forgiving than you and like to give people another chance if they think they deserve it.


i havent cheated on Stealth and i never will. So why are you talking about me like ive done something bad to him???

what have i ever done to you???

you cant class everyone who has cheated on past boyf/girlf's in the same category as the person who cheated on you.

Everyones different.
i think this threads shown that.

imatrukahs

MarkO..i dont know that she will never cheat!!!!!!!Like someone else said..what you dont know cant hurt i guess...but i have more respect for my girly and if she did..i would be most dissapointed!

I can say i have been VERY tempted to stray...offered on a plate when half cut...but i resisted..may have been the smell though..LOL.

It amazes me how your judging me as narrow minded....i am being real..do the same..life may prove more interesting.

Not saying Sexy WILL cheat on you Stealth.......but i personally wouldnt wanna take that risk with someone who i KNEW was capable.

LG John

Bajie

Oh do behave.
I've never seen so much drivel as some of the comments in here.

MarkO

I'll bet you have. Or did you miss the fox-hunting thread?