CJB

yes looks like im going to be a daddy o dear iv little money and a part time job. well turns out she didnt want to tell me she was just scared. o anybody in dundee area got a spare bed?????

POC

I dont think ******** her again will solve anything

CJB

i mean im going to be out of the house looks like im going to be under the thumb now.

andrewdelvard

Imagine walking upto that car you've always dreamed off...You've got the keys...She's got a full tank of petrol and she's just been waxed...Sounds good yeah? Now imagine some **** snatching the keys off you just as you get to the door,knocking you over them getting in and driving away, grit searing across your face from the rear wheels .
Thats whats just happened to you.
BTW. Congrats

Black Cat

hopefully that crack about her being 15 was a joke...

you and she need to sit down and do some serious talking... despite what your parents will say... this is between you and her and the sooner you start talking the quicker you will get a solution... your dad won't kick you out... but you need to show him that you are taking full responsibility for your actions... if you need someone to talk to then speak to your doctor who can probably put you in touch with an agency or some other group that deal with young people in your predicament..

Good luck
P

CJB

cheers for that car thing min and black cat she is 21 yes im her toy boy.

ProperCharlie

Can't believe how damn unsympathetic some people on this bbs are. I think we should be a bit more helpful . How about we come up with some good ideas for a name? Let's face it, if the deed had taken place in the back of a metro, there would have been no chance of conception...

carl

Well you've been together for 3 years, so your relationship should be stable enough for a kid.

I'm afraid the only sure-fire method of contraception is abstinence.

Good luck

CJB

no was done properly and she was on the pill and antibiotics aswell which i why its happened.

carl

Jeez, even I know the pill doesn't work with antibiotics. She needs to see a doctor ASAP as getting pregnant when on the pill and/or antibiotics can be a bad thing.

SiPie

Good Luck CJB

and LOL @ POC

Hilarious

Hanley

I've got three letters for you

C S A

Read them and weep, cause weep you will when they get you!!!!

chiark

Congrats (seriously)

I daresay your parents might be shocked, but eventually they might be happy for you. I would hope that they wouldn't kick you out for this!

You're going to have to face some difficult decisions over the coming weeks. I don't think the BBS is the best place to get advice, as we don't know anything about your situation. You need to be open and honest with everyone, and see where it gets you.

Whatever you both do, good luck.

Stuffed Badger

Hanley...thats not fair.

The poor girl obviously didn't know what to do for the best, and she evidently needed to get her head around it herself.

Sit down and talk but most of all give her support.

I hope it all goes well for you both!

CJB

thanks all and hanley the CSA will not need to get involved cos im going to stay with her and support her through it it my baby aswell u know. hope its a boy

TelBoy

Ciaran, it doesn't matter if it's a boy or a girl.

It really, really doesn't matter. Get out of that mind-set mate, before you set yourself up for a "disappointment" if it's a girl...

CJB

dont worry be happy with eigther just cant believe im a daddy so young u hear about all these young parents never thought id be one.

davyboy

lol

I guess thats one way to stop her getting pregnant.

ice man

Damn Davyboy, you got there before me

carl

Well one advantage is that when he/she's old enough to leave home, you'll still be young enough to enjoy it (and you should have some money by then ).
I shudder when I see these fifty and sixty-somethings with their teenage kids -- f**k that for a caper. By the time I get to that age I want the kids to be long gone

Hanley

CJB

Best of luck, I wish you all the best and hope you get what you want.

Stuffed Badger

I was a very young mum, and my oldest is now at work.It is hard work but that is just being a parent whatever the age.

Look after your young lady and enjoy every aspect of your childs development,the years whizz by and before you know it they are leaving home (we are still waiting for that bit!)LOL

Toerag

Silly question, but are you too late for a termination if you don't want the kid? what ever happens you'll have to move fast!

Dave P

I'm 36 , wife's 31 and my kids are 9 and 10. I reckon it's great having them young. We can all enjoy alot of the same things now they are older and largely they don't seem to be embarrassed by us (unless I deliberatly embarrass them)

Not sure how old you are though CBR.

I agree though bulletin board isn't the place to sort it out.

All the best and if you decide to have it you'll thoroughly enjoy it.

Dave

WISHING

All the best mate... its the greatest feeling holding your son or daughter !!!

But you will both need to be strong to get through the first couple of years. You life will change forever. But can still be happy and totaly enjoyable !


good Luck !

robski

Advantage of having them young, you are not used to the cash, if you have them later the piles of disposable income that turn into nappies, childcare etc hurts each month

Congrats, worse things could have happened.

Stick to the rusty bullet hole in future

robski