moses

i agree with u cc thats the best thing u ever said as long as they can afford to live with the father working himself and the mother looking after her kids and teaching them morals of life its cool but if they are barely surviving they both should help each other out and still should have time to look after the kids father does nightshift and mama does day shift

skiddus_markus

Moses-it's alright for you,you've got one wife to have the babies and 4 to go out and work/cook/clean/wash your your Evo.

J4CKO

iTrader: (1)

My wife stays at home, until the last one goes to school in September then she will get a part time job. After seven years she wants to get out a meet people who dont **** themselves or carry a changing bag, I want her to earn some money because seven years as the only earner has been tough. Might let her have a week off though before starting work.

I see it all the time around here, kids farmed out to all and sundry so the parents can earn huge ammountsand spend it all on Silver German cars and holidays that they dont take the kids on.

bubblegum

Advertisers have a lot to answer for, especialy the Ads aimed at kids in the lead up to Christmas. They start off in September now, and it is relentless! just like a kid wanting a new toy is......

XT

Now get your ar*e back in the kitchen and make me some PIE!

Markus

hmmmmm, so, if you cannot afford kids then you should not have them. Totally disagree with that. My personal feeling is that if you say "let's wait until we can afford to have kids" then you'll never end up having them, unless you win the lottery or come into an inheritance or somesuch. Why? well, you cannot factor how much a kid will cost, it;s something you just have to adapt to as things go along.