sexy wrx69

but you cant guarentee that you wont get anyone pregnant can you???

Scooby96

No I cant - but then its at no greater risk than if I was single and ******** more than one woman

Chrisgr31

Must admit that the suprising thing is that Scoobs96 is allowed to go with other women, but as he is allowed can't blame him for doing so!

Mind you what happens if his other half decides she wants to go with another man? Does he say no? In which case she could say that I have let you go with other women for all this time etc.

At the end of the day each to their own, and I still think many men would like to be in Scoobs position!

sexy wrx69

well it is.

your whole argument or line of thought is around that swinging is ok for you and your partner because you are both honest about it and dont do anything without each other and therefore there are no risks to your relationship.

i agree, the risk of pregnancy IS the same as if you went out and slept with someone else...but you ARE in a couple and you say that swinging isnt cheating.

therefore if you went out and got someone pregnant on your own...youd be cheating...and your missus would almost certainly leave you - if she had any sense.

but what would happen if you got someone pregnant from swinging???
would she stay with you because you had both decided to do this together???
what if the woman in question kept the baby???
this would almost certainly cause a HUGE problem between you and your missus.

of course all this is speculation but im just trying to make a point.

youre saying that this is fun and brings fulfillment to your relationship....and that there arent any risks. well surely this IS a risk????

Andy Porter

We've all seen poor Gary in 'Benders recently

sexy wrx69

yeah but thats different andy. he cheated on his wife.

scooby96 does it with his missus's permission.

Spoon

Lol at permission.

Can I have a shág with her please love?

Of course you can Scoob96 as long as you don't go too deep.

boxst

Hello sexy wrx:

But you have a huge problem with all this stuff in general? Didn't you say that it split up the relationship with your husband?

Steve.

Spoon

Steve- think that was red_dog104 and only then she was pestered to do it and never did.

sexy wrx69

****....im married????!?!?!??!



first i know about it.


nah...that was red_dog...not me. phew!!!


i dont have a problem with swinging at all. its up to the people in question what they want to do behind closed doors. im just interested in all the things that could make it all go horribly wrong - seeing as the people into swinging on here seem to be dead certain that nothing bad can happen as long as youre "honest" and have "rules" set out with your partner.

im just a natural born pessimist

[Edited by sexy wrx69 - 8/28/2003 2:08:16 PM]

Scooby96

Yep I believe it was red_dog104 that had that unfortunate experience

pugoetru

i cant believe this is still going

IMO you are more at risk from std's when you go out get drunk **** someone you dont know never see them again.
most swingers will meet up regularly and have lots of fun

you lot dont know what you are missing

pugoetru

sexy wrx69 with that name i had you down as a swinger too

sexy wrx69

yes but we're not saying you are more at risk from catching something when swinging.

but you cant be 100% sure - whether swinging or just out ******** for the night - if the other person has something to catch or not.

it does seem tho, that the swingers on here seem to think that because they are doing it at home with people they see regularly and with their partners present, that they are somehow immune to catching an STD, getting someone pregnant, getting pregnant themselves.

who knows if the people they regularly swing with are only swinging in the same circle...or if they go out and about and have one nighters with strangers they pick up at clubs/pubs.

you just dont know.



Pugo....LOL....no not quite. not my bag baby


[Edited by sexy wrx69 - 8/28/2003 2:27:29 PM]

Scooby96

"sexywrx69

it does seem tho, that the swingers on here seem to think that because they are doing it at home with people they see regularly and with their partners present, that they are somehow immune to catching an STD, getting someone pregnant, getting pregnant themselves.


seeing as the people into swinging on here seem to be dead certain that nothing bad can happen as long as youre "honest" and have "rules" set out with your partner."

I think only one person has said such a thing on this thread. I've also never said that nothing will happen to the relationship if you have rules and are honest - I was trying to say that is what we do and it HASNT caused us ANY problems (to date). We are well aware that it might cause a problem and at the first sign of that, that is when we either review the situation and if we cant resolve it then we STOP IMMEDIATELY.

Scooby96

Pugman - 7244 views and counting!!

Edited to say thats approx 1 hit every other minute for 8 days solid

[Edited by Scooby96 - 8/28/2003 3:27:06 PM]

sexy wrx69

fairy snuff

TelBoy

96 - how do you choose who to involve? Is it like the **** industry where everyone has three month check-ups, certificates and so on, or is all the sex protected and therefore this isn't felt necessary?

Spoon

Big jugs seems a good start?

*{new home}*

Scooby96

If the gf sees a woman she likes then she asks me if I do, if not then she can get it on with her on her own or if I do too then we both do.

No we dont have 3 month check-ups - I have said that I feel the risks are just as real as ******** around generally

sexy wrx69

but how many people go out and in one night **** more than 1 person???


not many.

so youve got to think about how many people those multiple partners have been with, etc, etc...

it all adds up.


just one more question tho Scooby96..and then i promise i wont make any more comments

Are you sure your missus isnt bi-sexual or a lesbian???

(i know im going to get slated for asking this....but it seems that she only ever goes for other women?????)

TurboKitty

It seems pretty clear to me she is bisexual.

sexy wrx69

well at first Em i thought she was bi-curious...but the more Scooby96 talks the more convinced i am that shes bi-sexual.


but hey ho....i said that was my last question/comment...


so i thankyou

*bows and exits*

Scooby96

Bi-curious - possibly bi-sexual, time will tell, hell she may even be a lesbian.

There will possibly be a time when she wants to involve another man, personally I dont know if I would be happy to include another man as I'm not bi-curious, bi-sexual or gay.

Scooby96

sexywrx69

in reply to:

"but how many people go out and in one night **** more than 1 person???"


So if we go to 10 swingers parties a year and sleep with 3 people each time (for arguements sake I have radomly selected these numbers) its no different to going out most fridays and ******** one person

Edited to say: no-one truly knows the sexual history of anyone so it would be hard to prove either argument as being right IMO

[Edited by Scooby96 - 8/28/2003 4:39:24 PM]

Spoon

It's also interesting how some blokes don't see their wives/girlfriends having sex with another woman as a threat or even wrong yet would find it so if it was with another bloke.

There are various stages/levels to this that men/women are prepared to take things to.

sexy wrx69- You have questions to ask, you ask them. i'm sure Scoob96 is willing to answer them all.

TurboKitty

One or two...er...interludes with women I could put down to bi-curiosity. To be in a relationship with a bloke, but to be attracted to women and to continue wanting to be involved with women, even as part of a threesome is bisexual as far as I can see.

Spoon

Hardly call it bi-curious after the second time surely?

Scooby96

Spoon: welcome to an unlocked thread!

I believe that my gf isnt a lesbian so I perceive the threat of her going off with a woman to be less than a man. I could be proved horribly wrong and I will post to say so should it ever happen!


Edited to say: depends how far you went the first time and whether you want to go further subsequently.


[Edited by Scooby96 - 8/28/2003 4:47:43 PM]

weapon69

Interesting that you don't want to see her with another bloke.