Anyone swing?
21 August 2003, 05:11 PM
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The question I suppose is do swingers break up more or less than non-swingers?
Swingers have the opportunity to see if the sex is better the other side of the fence, but non-swingers have to take risks to find out!
The other thing with swinging that springs to mind is sloppy seconds!
Mind you I suppose that depends who is swinging with whom. After all will men object if their wife is being sorted by another woman. Would it be different if they were being shafted by another man?
Swingers have the opportunity to see if the sex is better the other side of the fence, but non-swingers have to take risks to find out!
The other thing with swinging that springs to mind is sloppy seconds!
Mind you I suppose that depends who is swinging with whom. After all will men object if their wife is being sorted by another woman. Would it be different if they were being shafted by another man?
22 August 2003, 01:14 PM
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I know this a serious thread but I have to say I am p1ssing myself laughing.
I'm also a resident of Crowborough and have been for some 33 years. Been here since I was 3. Used to live on the Harecombe estate where Swinging / Keys in the middle parties were rife aledgedly. I say aledgedly coz after all that time here I've never come across a swinger.
I believe that Crowborough was also in the Guinness Book of Records for the highest divorce rate in the country. Could be linked to swinging but don't know.
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I'm also a resident of Crowborough and have been for some 33 years. Been here since I was 3. Used to live on the Harecombe estate where Swinging / Keys in the middle parties were rife aledgedly. I say aledgedly coz after all that time here I've never come across a swinger.
I believe that Crowborough was also in the Guinness Book of Records for the highest divorce rate in the country. Could be linked to swinging but don't know.
Dave
22 August 2003, 01:56 PM
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Have to disagree:
"This year, Birkenhead takes the 'wooden spoon' for the most marital strife at 28.8%. It's 4% more than the next highest divorce/separation rate which goes to St Leonards on Sea in East Sussex"
"This year, Birkenhead takes the 'wooden spoon' for the most marital strife at 28.8%. It's 4% more than the next highest divorce/separation rate which goes to St Leonards on Sea in East Sussex"
she must do its fre for all isn't it?
22 August 2003, 02:58 PM
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Rules are rules - and the only rule is don't go off with someone else, so as long as its in the same room then I can do what or whom I choose to!
As long as its safe sex!
As long as its safe sex!
22 August 2003, 03:05 PM
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Hello Scooby
I don't know really. Some of me thinks that all this stuff is exciting, but most of me that it's actually quite depressing and sign of some fundamental problem.
I wish you luck anyway.
I will mail you when I talk to a friend of mine who is into these things in that well-known-town and you can decide if you want to take it further. Although she might tell me to go away of course!
Steve.
I don't know really. Some of me thinks that all this stuff is exciting, but most of me that it's actually quite depressing and sign of some fundamental problem.
I wish you luck anyway.
I will mail you when I talk to a friend of mine who is into these things in that well-known-town and you can decide if you want to take it further. Although she might tell me to go away of course!
Steve.
22 August 2003, 03:09 PM
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Nice one - by the way its not something we do every night of the week, more once a month or every 6 weeks.
Safer way of spicing things up than having an affair IMHO!
Safer way of spicing things up than having an affair IMHO!
22 August 2003, 03:30 PM
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Boxst:-
Its the whole thought of sharing your partner with someone. THe whole concept is foreign to me, and makes me feel a little ill at the thought.
Not a prude at all, but if you want to spread your seed - then why not be single and plough the field?
I know this is an open Forum, but geez - some topics should be left at the specialist sites surely?
Its the whole thought of sharing your partner with someone. THe whole concept is foreign to me, and makes me feel a little ill at the thought.
Not a prude at all, but if you want to spread your seed - then why not be single and plough the field?
I know this is an open Forum, but geez - some topics should be left at the specialist sites surely?
22 August 2003, 03:33 PM
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There's always one bender who tries to spoil a topic.
MadBrit- In your profile you say you enjoy women, oh and painbtballing, so maybe you'd prefer to shoot them rather than shág them?
Just a thought.
MadBrit- In your profile you say you enjoy women, oh and painbtballing, so maybe you'd prefer to shoot them rather than shág them?
Just a thought.
22 August 2003, 03:45 PM
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Spoon - I like to **** them, and thats why Im single.
For those times I am in a relationship, the thought of having some potential toe rag **** them would not be something I would enjoy.
By the way, just because I find this offensive, what makes you think I am a bender?
I could make the assumption you are 18 years old, and only want to get your dick wet... but I would probably be wrong???
For those times I am in a relationship, the thought of having some potential toe rag **** them would not be something I would enjoy.
By the way, just because I find this offensive, what makes you think I am a bender?
I could make the assumption you are 18 years old, and only want to get your dick wet... but I would probably be wrong???
22 August 2003, 03:47 PM
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madbrit:
Whilst I understand that you don't want to do such a thing, it still doesn't make the thread "offensive"?
All we are talking about is a legal act between consenting adults.
Steve.
Whilst I understand that you don't want to do such a thing, it still doesn't make the thread "offensive"?
All we are talking about is a legal act between consenting adults.
Steve.
22 August 2003, 03:52 PM
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madbrit. I hate to say this but if you find this thread offensive, then don't look on it again! My personal experience makes me against swinging BUT there are people that enjoy it and the proof is on here!!
This is a subject that is bound to cause controversy but you can't just wish it away! This kinda sh*t is happening all the time and if you don't want to be involved in the conversation then don't come back on the thread..... Simple. Not being bitchy btw, just stating the obvious! I find it amusing personally!
This is a subject that is bound to cause controversy but you can't just wish it away! This kinda sh*t is happening all the time and if you don't want to be involved in the conversation then don't come back on the thread..... Simple. Not being bitchy btw, just stating the obvious! I find it amusing personally!
22 August 2003, 03:57 PM
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So if I wanted to start a thread about homosexuals and what they do with there ring pieces, that would be OK i presume?
After all, it is between two consenting adults... and as far as I know not illegal.
Blimey... Good to know freedom of speech is alive and well in the UK
Have fun guys
After all, it is between two consenting adults... and as far as I know not illegal.
Blimey... Good to know freedom of speech is alive and well in the UK
Have fun guys