Co-habiting with girl friend - how do you work it regarding bills etc?
26 September 2003, 01:48 PM
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Looks like a tough weekend ahead, unfortunately I'm in no mood for being apologetic though due to certain things said so will bite the bullet and ride it out and see where it goes.
26 September 2003, 01:54 PM
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LMAO you have a very good understanding of the female logic, u should be a millionaire understanding them that well! 
I totally agree with your theory though, thats exactly how its been looked upon, I don't love her or trust her apparently!
I have been banging my head against the wall in trying to explain what it is I am after - ie protection against it going pear shaped but there is just no getting through to her!
I totally agree with your theory though, thats exactly how its been looked upon, I don't love her or trust her apparently!
I have been banging my head against the wall in trying to explain what it is I am after - ie protection against it going pear shaped but there is just no getting through to her!
26 September 2003, 01:57 PM
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loose - loose situation.
you see it as a need to protect yourself/each other due to past experience etc and she see's it as mistrust and lack of real commitment. with love logic goes out the window (but perhaps that's okay - until it goes wrong!)
dunno how you're gonna get outta this one!
stinks.
you see it as a need to protect yourself/each other due to past experience etc and she see's it as mistrust and lack of real commitment. with love logic goes out the window (but perhaps that's okay - until it goes wrong!)
dunno how you're gonna get outta this one!
stinks.
26 September 2003, 02:01 PM
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ie protection against it going pear shaped but there is just no getting through to her!
26 September 2003, 02:19 PM
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To be constructive B20 I would suggest that you don't type one more word on this thread until you two have sorted it out. Because whatever you say on the subject, to her or to your friends here, can be misinterpreted.
26 September 2003, 02:26 PM
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And why has w69 deleted so many of her posts - because she gonna throw yours back in your face but you cant do the same as shes trashed her points of view!
I cant see how she can be so naive as to think that if / when 2 people split up theres absolutely no annimosity. I fondly remember threatening to blow my ex wifes head off with my mates pump action shotgun, and dreaming of running the bitch over - and I left her!!
You also have to consider once shes got her feet under the table in your gaff it might be her who leaves you for another bloke (having shagged him in your bed) and then she still gets half the assets - NO WAY HOSAY
I cant see how she can be so naive as to think that if / when 2 people split up theres absolutely no annimosity. I fondly remember threatening to blow my ex wifes head off with my mates pump action shotgun, and dreaming of running the bitch over - and I left her!!
You also have to consider once shes got her feet under the table in your gaff it might be her who leaves you for another bloke (having shagged him in your bed
) and then she still gets half the assets - NO WAY HOSAY
26 September 2003, 02:55 PM
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96 yeah mate thats why I use the bike for work, get 2 hours a day thrashing the nuts off the R1, great for de stressing That trip down the A21 needs to be sorted!
Oh and as for experiencing the leaving for another bloke etc etc, been there and got the t shirt from ex marriage, which funnily enough is another topic up for discussion at the moment due to her single male friends wanting to spend time with her! Might be just friends in her eyes but I don't trust any bloke with my gf, they are all sharks in my view But thats another whole ball game.
Anyway I don't want to b!tch about it anymore. Had lunch and sat outside with a few ciggies and have decided I have no choice but to let it drop or we will go our seperate ways which I do not want.
Anyone know where I can get some spare lips as I can see me biting my current ones to pieces this weekend
That trip down the A21 needs to be sorted!Oh and as for experiencing the leaving for another bloke etc etc, been there and got the t shirt from ex marriage, which funnily enough is another topic up for discussion at the moment due to her single male friends wanting to spend time with her! Might be just friends in her eyes but I don't trust any bloke with my gf, they are all sharks in my view
But thats another whole ball game.Anyway I don't want to b!tch about it anymore. Had lunch and sat outside with a few ciggies and have decided I have no choice but to let it drop or we will go our seperate ways which I do not want.
Anyone know where I can get some spare lips as I can see me biting my current ones to pieces this weekend
26 September 2003, 03:05 PM
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Would she mind if you spent time with some single ladies?
Saying that my gf didnt mind one bit that I had a 'few' beers and lunch with a lady (who I've known for 8 years and is single) last Saturday - gave the gf a call at 6pm completely pished - depends on the level of trust I guess
Saying that my gf didnt mind one bit that I had a 'few' beers and lunch with a lady (who I've known for 8 years and is single) last Saturday - gave the gf a call at 6pm completely pished
- depends on the level of trust I guess
26 September 2003, 03:22 PM
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WHEN wifey was just my g/friend & we were living together...
1st place was mine - I paid mortgage etc. We split the "living" bills (she earned more than me too)
2nd place was "ours". She put £5K in from her property & it was agreed that 1st £5k of any sale divvy would be hers. Other than that, we estimated what the bills in terms of food/living etc would be and lumped that money into a joint account, 50% each, out of which they were all paid. That way we each had our own money to spend as desired.
Then we got married...
& things stayed the same, just going up when Ez came along as she became a "bill" (large one
)
Then I left London & became unemployed...
All wages for both of us go into the pot and we just use that to live on. Bit strange come birthday/xmas time spending "our" money on a present for her...
1st place was mine - I paid mortgage etc. We split the "living" bills (she earned more than me too)
2nd place was "ours". She put £5K in from her property & it was agreed that 1st £5k of any sale divvy would be hers. Other than that, we estimated what the bills in terms of food/living etc would be and lumped that money into a joint account, 50% each, out of which they were all paid. That way we each had our own money to spend as desired.
Then we got married...
& things stayed the same, just going up when Ez came along as she became a "bill" (large one
)Then I left London & became unemployed...
All wages for both of us go into the pot and we just use that to live on. Bit strange come birthday/xmas time spending "our" money on a present for her...
26 September 2003, 03:39 PM
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I have to say my gf always pestered me about commitment, love blah blah.. as soon as I put her name on the mortgage and let her officially contribute she's been as right as rain..
Now of course we have an 18 month old daughter so my nuts are well and truly in the vice!!
Now of course we have an 18 month old daughter so my nuts are well and truly in the vice!!
26 September 2003, 03:43 PM
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lmao... work out my girlfriend then... weve been goingo ut for 6 years, we have had a morgage for 2-3 years now, she always says I dont love her and shes not sure about the relationship, Im not committed etc everyime we argue she says these things yet Im the 1 whos suggesting to get married and have kids but shes the 1 not so up for it
go on, work that 1 out. ya cant win with them mate.
go on, work that 1 out. ya cant win with them mate.
26 September 2003, 03:53 PM
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lmao, wouldnt suprise me...
seriously though I very much doubt it, not many times Im not with her... shes just 1 of them wierd breeds they call women
seriously though I very much doubt it, not many times Im not with her... shes just 1 of them wierd breeds they call women
26 September 2003, 03:59 PM
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mmm, let me wonder...
why do women deem it OK to look at a man when hes not wearing a tshirt, he mite have a 6 pack and a good body yet women think its OK to look at this guy but if a woman walking down the street with her t!ts out and you have a good look its a different rule... ???
why do women deem it OK to look at a man when hes not wearing a tshirt, he mite have a 6 pack and a good body yet women think its OK to look at this guy but if a woman walking down the street with her t!ts out and you have a good look its a different rule... ???
26 September 2003, 04:04 PM
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I know I know.
What I also dont get is that I think its more appropriate for a woman to be stark bollock naked than a man - its not as if their bits are as visible as ours - unless its really really cold
Probably need to get this thread back on subject before its locked or muppetised
What I also dont get is that I think its more appropriate for a woman to be stark bollock naked than a man - its not as if their bits are as visible as ours - unless its really really cold
Probably need to get this thread back on subject before its locked or muppetised
