View Poll Results: Are you getting extras????
Yes. Actively engaged in an affair.
15
8.62%
Yes. In the last 6 months.
12
6.90%
Yes. In the last 12 months or more.
18
10.34%
No. Never.
129
74.14%
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Affairs...who's got a bit on the side?
22 July 2004, 06:12 PM
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tbh i have not been unfaithful since i was in my early 20s. my point is that it can happen, it does happen, and it's better to be realistic about it then to expect some kind of perfection that for most people, over the course of a 20, 30, 40 or more year relationship, isn't going to always be there.
just my opinion.
just my opinion.
22 July 2004, 06:16 PM
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Agree with the above, as much as my GF constantly drives me up the fcukng wall, I still wouldn't sneak around having an affair-not that I ever get any offers anyway 
I always think how I'd feel if she was doing the dirty, thats enough to put me off. She found about a drunken encounter I had about 9 yrs ago when we had not been together that long, I was too pickled to know whether I did the deed or not, but thats not the point, I still get it in the neck now
Not worth the bother/hassle/hurt IMO.
I always think how I'd feel if she was doing the dirty, thats enough to put me off. She found about a drunken encounter I had about 9 yrs ago when we had not been together that long, I was too pickled to know whether I did the deed or not, but thats not the point, I still get it in the neck now
Not worth the bother/hassle/hurt IMO.
22 July 2004, 08:14 PM
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Would never have an affair.Just havent got guts to hurt the one I love.....
I apppreciate beautiful people and beautiful personalities but the one I have is the most "special", even when he is pain in the butt
I apppreciate beautiful people and beautiful personalities but the one I have is the most "special", even when he is pain in the butt
22 July 2004, 08:52 PM
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Originally Posted by The Guv'nor
As an aside, 1 of the blokes told me he has his wife's permission to do it as she's just not interested in the sexual side of things but they have a good life together, kids etc and didn't want to break it all up.
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22 July 2004, 08:58 PM
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Puff, sounds like you have bedroom issues, look at:
http://www.port88.freeserve.co.uk/sextips.htm
sound advice.
http://www.port88.freeserve.co.uk/sextips.htm
sound advice.
22 July 2004, 09:10 PM
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Never, how could I look my kids in the eye? and as someone else has already said my missus is far too nice to do that to and she puts up with and looks after me
22 July 2004, 09:12 PM
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Originally Posted by Puff The Magic Wagon!
Got a missus like that
Staying faithful to one girl is impossible surely? Even if you love the girl you're with then "new territory" is fun!
You change you car when you fancy a change, so why not your women?
As part-exchanging a female is difficult you may as well just test a new model and leave the other one at home.
22 July 2004, 10:43 PM
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You lot wait till you get to 40!
THEN come and tell me you ain't played away!!
Not saying I have at all - I'm just saying, come back when you are out of nappies
Pete
THEN come and tell me you ain't played away!!
Not saying I have at all - I'm just saying, come back when you are out of nappies
Pete
22 July 2004, 11:52 PM
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When i was married to my ex-wife (evil ugly )
i had an affair for over 2 years with someone through work and it was great time which gave me a new lease of life in a cr*p home environment
infact the only real reason i stopped with my ex wife solong was for my daughter .
sake
i do not regret what i did a few years ago and did not feel guilty at all in fact when the ex-evil wife threw me out i then swapped my old girlfriend for a different one now wife number 2
i will probably get a load of stick from this but a the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence and if you are not happy with what you have /had got the next one is /can be better
Life is /can be so short so dont waste it if you are not happy .
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i had an affair for over 2 years with someone through work and it was great time which gave me a new lease of life in a cr*p home environment
infact the only real reason i stopped with my ex wife solong was for my daughter .
sake
i do not regret what i did a few years ago and did not feel guilty at all in fact when the ex-evil wife threw me out i then swapped my old girlfriend for a different one now wife number 2
i will probably get a load of stick from this but a the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence and if you are not happy with what you have /had got the next one is /can be better
Life is /can be so short so dont waste it if you are not happy .
crawls under the green wagon expecting a boycott of the NBO 3
23 July 2004, 12:02 AM
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Originally Posted by mj
Puff, sounds like you have bedroom issues, look at:
Doesn't mean I'm not but its not my style to force the issue with her
PC - Next door neighbour? LOL - I live in the middle of nowhere miles from anyone worth looking at!!
23 July 2004, 12:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Puff The Magic Wagon!
PC - Next door neighbour? LOL - I live in the middle of nowhere miles from anyone worth looking at!!
You can say that again
Nothing but sheep and deer for miles
23 July 2004, 06:27 AM
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Had it Done to me by my Ex wife 13 years ago who couldn,t keep her legs shut and knickers on. lol.
Would i ?. No way aint worth the feckin hassle. Love my wife and my Daughter. Everyone has there bad days thou. Yes we argue, but who doesn,t but thats life. Been there, done that and got the T shirt.
She got caught out. Still cost me my House which 13 years ago was sold for £140,000. My car which was one of the last 280 Capris(Dont laugh).Forunatly we didn,t have Children. So any off u having a bit on the side, u will be caught eventually.Its just a matter of Time
Would i ?. No way aint worth the feckin hassle. Love my wife and my Daughter. Everyone has there bad days thou. Yes we argue, but who doesn,t but thats life. Been there, done that and got the T shirt.
She got caught out. Still cost me my House which 13 years ago was sold for £140,000. My car which was one of the last 280 Capris(Dont laugh).Forunatly we didn,t have Children. So any off u having a bit on the side, u will be caught eventually.Its just a matter of Time
23 July 2004, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted by pslewis
Not saying I have at all - I'm just saying, come back when you are out of nappies
Pete
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