Anybody here HIV+ or know anyone well who is?
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To be honest, I don't think you'll have anything to worry about. Most hookers are more stringent about their sexual health than 'non-working' girls : after all, it's their livelihood. Plus there's a lot of flu/cold virus type things going round at the moment, so I wouldn't sweat it. Of course, the only way to tell for sure is to get a test, but try not to panic in the meantime (easy for me to say I know ) And don't beat yourself up over boning a call-girl - millions of other people must do it or the oldest profession wouldn't exist !
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The best thing to do in the meantime then, would be to pay the girl to have an aids test and have her show you the result. If she does have aids then it still doesnt mean that you got it. If you were wearing a condom, even if it burst, this would have reduced your chances. Funnily enough, if she had condoms available then i would think that all her clients would be wearing one which would reduce her risk even less.
Basically many of us go through life assuming that we dont have aids, its only when we have to have an aids test that we consider that we might have contracted the disease in a previous love thang!
I only say this as i recently had an aids test as part of an application for a Russian Business Visa.
Basically many of us go through life assuming that we dont have aids, its only when we have to have an aids test that we consider that we might have contracted the disease in a previous love thang!
I only say this as i recently had an aids test as part of an application for a Russian Business Visa.
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What about having a test for other STD's? If that comes back clean then it may ease your mind a little that she was careful with other clients, therefore the risk of HIV infection may be a little lower.
Good luck,
Alex
Good luck,
Alex
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yea the more u think about it the more u will worry. no way around that.
u could always call her bluff and say u know u have something u've been checked out. then she might go and do the same and u will know b4 u've even had to wait.
how r u still keepin in contact with this girl ?
u could always call her bluff and say u know u have something u've been checked out. then she might go and do the same and u will know b4 u've even had to wait.
how r u still keepin in contact with this girl ?
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Originally Posted by paul-s
u could still get a test now, cos the 3 month thing is like at 'most'. it could show either way b4 that so u wouldnt have to worry for so long. if u know what i mean
Both thankfully were clear. But I know what you are going through and it isn't nice at all.
But go and get it done before xmas. This will at least clear your mind a little.
GOOD LUCK.....................
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Apart from looking after yourself there is one other very important thing that you should do.
This prostitute needs to be reported to the police or whoever as what she is doing is tantamount to manslaughter as she knows what can happen if she has sex with other people.
Chip
This prostitute needs to be reported to the police or whoever as what she is doing is tantamount to manslaughter as she knows what can happen if she has sex with other people.
Chip
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Originally Posted by Chip
Apart from looking after yourself there is one other very important thing that you should do.
This prostitute needs to be reported to the police or whoever as what she is doing is tantamount to manslaughter as she knows what can happen if she has sex with other people.
Chip
This prostitute needs to be reported to the police or whoever as what she is doing is tantamount to manslaughter as she knows what can happen if she has sex with other people.
Chip
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Originally Posted by Anne Robinson
. She wouldn't hide the fact she was HIV if she knew it, surely?
As someone has said earlier if you did have a johnny on but it split chances are very low indeed. I remember them saying this when I went to the clinic.
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Couple of questions ?
You didnt use date rape ??
You didnt force it upon her ??
You didnt pay her ??
Hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmm
I see the b!tch's problem, you didnt leave a tip as you walked out the door & she just wants you to pay for it in another way by fukcing up your head
Mate shes evil, forget about it & put it behind you !
You didnt use date rape ??
You didnt force it upon her ??
You didnt pay her ??
Hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmm
I see the b!tch's problem, you didnt leave a tip as you walked out the door & she just wants you to pay for it in another way by fukcing up your head
Mate shes evil, forget about it & put it behind you !
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Originally Posted by In the ring of fire
Couple of questions ?
You didnt use date rape ??
You didnt force it upon her ??
You didnt pay her ??
Hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmm
I see the b!tch's problem, you didnt leave a tip as you walked out the door & she just wants you to pay for it in another way by fukcing up your head
Mate shes evil, forget about it & put it behind you !
You didnt use date rape ??
You didnt force it upon her ??
You didnt pay her ??
Hhhhhhhhmmmmmmmm
I see the b!tch's problem, you didnt leave a tip as you walked out the door & she just wants you to pay for it in another way by fukcing up your head
Mate shes evil, forget about it & put it behind you !
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Originally Posted by Flatcapdriver
That would be correct if she knowingly has unprotected sex whilst being HIV+ but as Anne has yet to confirm this, I don't see how you can jump to that conclusion.
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One does hope that you haven't got HIV, would never wish getting that even on those I despise, which is saying something.
Anyway, from reading what she said to you, I think she's pissed off that she didn't get paid for sex, and so she's being a btich and messing with your head. Bear in mind that if she is HIV then this information spread around could cause her a few business related problems, so as you sit and worry yourself silly, you could decide to pay her back for messing with your head by putting her out of business.
Anyway, from reading what she said to you, I think she's pissed off that she didn't get paid for sex, and so she's being a btich and messing with your head. Bear in mind that if she is HIV then this information spread around could cause her a few business related problems, so as you sit and worry yourself silly, you could decide to pay her back for messing with your head by putting her out of business.
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its been known for a married man to live with there infected wife for 10 years not knowing she has it and the man still not getting it so you would be very unlucky if you got it from normal sex
more risky if there was any backbox action
more risky if there was any backbox action
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One does hope that you haven't got HIV, would never wish getting that even on those I despise, which is saying something.
Anyway, from reading what she said to you, I think she's pissed off that she didn't get paid for sex, and so she's being a btich and messing with your head. Bear in mind that if she is HIV then this information spread around could cause her a few business related problems, so as you sit and worry yourself silly, you could decide to pay her back for messing with your head by putting her out of business.
Anyway, from reading what she said to you, I think she's pissed off that she didn't get paid for sex, and so she's being a btich and messing with your head. Bear in mind that if she is HIV then this information spread around could cause her a few business related problems, so as you sit and worry yourself silly, you could decide to pay her back for messing with your head by putting her out of business.
A scathing review on a certain review based "professional" website which rhymes with *nunterpet* would be one way to do it.
astraboy.
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If you turn out to be positive, and I hope you are not, bollocks to the "being nice" attitude, make it knows she is positive. It won't be a rumour it'll be fact, as she'll be the one you caught it from. Plus, it will be a warning to others who may use her services, that she is positive so they either dice with getting HIV or they choose someone else.
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one of my next door neighbours was diagnosed with full blown aids. He had no idea and we are all in shock. Such a nice guy married with kids etc. Its so sad and made me stop and think. I have been with the same girl for years but was ludicrously promiscuous in my younger days. I give blood regularly and appart from steroids undertake no dodgy activities now
im too old
im too old
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when did you sleep with her? How long after did you start to feel unwell? Only reason is based on a bit of info you can find on the net you may be able to help put your mind at rest.
"Early Symptoms Of HIV Infection
Some people, but not all, develop symptoms within a month or two of exposure to HIV. These people may have a flu-like illness with such symptoms as:
* Fever
* Rash
* Headache
* Loss of appetite
* Swollen glands (enlarged lymph nodes Small, round or oval bodies connected by a network of vessels; they help remove bacteria and foreign particles from the circulation, and play a role in the body's immune defenses)
* Achy muscles and joints
These early symptoms usually disappear within a week to a month. Most HIV-infected people who experience these early symptoms won't see any more signs of the infection for at least a few years."
"Early Symptoms Of HIV Infection
Some people, but not all, develop symptoms within a month or two of exposure to HIV. These people may have a flu-like illness with such symptoms as:
* Fever
* Rash
* Headache
* Loss of appetite
* Swollen glands (enlarged lymph nodes Small, round or oval bodies connected by a network of vessels; they help remove bacteria and foreign particles from the circulation, and play a role in the body's immune defenses)
* Achy muscles and joints
These early symptoms usually disappear within a week to a month. Most HIV-infected people who experience these early symptoms won't see any more signs of the infection for at least a few years."
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Originally Posted by EXSCOOBY
one of my next door neighbours was diagnosed with full blown aids. He had no idea and we are all in shock. Such a nice guy married with kids etc. Its so sad and made me stop and think. I have been with the same girl for years but was ludicrously promiscuous in my younger days. I give blood regularly and appart from steroids undertake no dodgy activities now
im too old
im too old
BLOODY HELL..
Anne I'm really rooting for ya in this one. But like I have said I reckon you will be fine.
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If I'm positive, all hell breaks loose, make no mistake
Anne I'm really rooting for ya in this one
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Originally Posted by warrenm2
you mean the wife will cut your nuts off? Seriously mate - high risk is classed as sub saharan women, homosexual men and intravenuous drug users, so unless shes been unprotected with those - your more likely to get clap. Hepatitis is more of a worry if you want to be a bit more dramatic...
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Pay her to have the test.
Every one has a price, she has demonstrated hers is lower than most peoples so give her what she wants so you can get what you want.
A couple of hundred quid and a same day test and you get to know if you've got a problem or not.
I can't help thinking it's a simple solution to ending your current misery....
Every one has a price, she has demonstrated hers is lower than most peoples so give her what she wants so you can get what you want.
A couple of hundred quid and a same day test and you get to know if you've got a problem or not.
I can't help thinking it's a simple solution to ending your current misery....