4X4BOB

As long as your kids know that you are there for them if they need you thats the main thing.
Keeping a cool head in front of the kids is a good thing, they won't forget it.

I had mega probs with my ex, in fact a lot of what your going through sounds all too familiar!
Worst part for me was 12 months ago when my ex moved to Spain with her latest loser of a BF, taking my daughter with them - I kept calm about it as my daughter was excited about moving to Spain.
But 2 weeks ago I had to fly over to bring my daughter (now 11) home because she had decided she wanted to live me me and my new wife. Reluctantly my ex agreed as she had promised our daughter before moving to Spain that if she wasn't happy, she was old enough to decide for herself where she wanted to live.
She has chosen to live with me now which makes me feel great

Kids may be young people, but they are a lot wiser than parents realise!

Bob

babber

Thanks for all the recent replies. Nothing has really changed since my last post unfortunately

I'm going to see my Solicitor on Tuesday, and have a few contridicting letters to present to him. Hopefully a few more months of messing around until it has been agreed in court.

Thanks for all the help and advise

Phill