A question for those of you who have had a pregnant wife/partner
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Not sure it's a fetish, as if it was any woman in that state would be of interest, and I'll bet it isn't for him.
For me, when she was first pregnant I was scared of hurting the little un in some way, I dunno, just felt "wrong" - like a pair of hands were gonna grab me! lol....
As the bump appeared, I'd agree there was a beautiful glow about her and I was proud, would break down walls, fight the world, anything to keep her safe, didn't turn me on tho?
Third trimester, at her biggest, and she got horny as hell, was a bit difficult and positions are limited (lying on your side, or lying on your side!) but it was still enjoyable.
RE childbirth, she used TENS and a little gas, first was 8,3, second two less but easier, a lot of it is fear of the unknown with the first one.
Nr due date, put a large bottle of mineral water in the freezer, and a few smaller bottles in the fridge, pref with "cycle bottle" style pull tops that are easy to drink from. Take them all with you, as you drink the smaller ones the larger will slowly defrost and he can fill them up, constant ice cold water, great for you and gives him something to do That was the one tip Sandra ensures I pass on to anyone expecting.
Oh and don't worry, it's as wonderful as they say it is, we have three daughters now, 5, 3 and 21mths, they are great. Childbirth was one of the most peaceful intimate and special moments in our life, nowhere near the screaming and panicking we expected.
Ian
For me, when she was first pregnant I was scared of hurting the little un in some way, I dunno, just felt "wrong" - like a pair of hands were gonna grab me! lol....
As the bump appeared, I'd agree there was a beautiful glow about her and I was proud, would break down walls, fight the world, anything to keep her safe, didn't turn me on tho?
Third trimester, at her biggest, and she got horny as hell, was a bit difficult and positions are limited (lying on your side, or lying on your side!) but it was still enjoyable.
RE childbirth, she used TENS and a little gas, first was 8,3, second two less but easier, a lot of it is fear of the unknown with the first one.
Nr due date, put a large bottle of mineral water in the freezer, and a few smaller bottles in the fridge, pref with "cycle bottle" style pull tops that are easy to drink from. Take them all with you, as you drink the smaller ones the larger will slowly defrost and he can fill them up, constant ice cold water, great for you and gives him something to do That was the one tip Sandra ensures I pass on to anyone expecting.
Oh and don't worry, it's as wonderful as they say it is, we have three daughters now, 5, 3 and 21mths, they are great. Childbirth was one of the most peaceful intimate and special moments in our life, nowhere near the screaming and panicking we expected.
Ian
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Originally Posted by jfrf
a serious answer is that he has a sexual fetish for pregnanat women
just as other people have fetishes for:
hairy women
fat women
black women
bondage
just as other people have fetishes for:
hairy women
fat women
black women
bondage
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Oh, and as you get amazonian breasts, try to appreciate that no matter how happy he may be with your appearance, our "perfect woman" with bigger breasts is still a plus, we don't understand that they are sore and "for the baby" - be gentle with him
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babies r the best thing claire, but pregnancy and childbirth differs for us all. Mine were miserable but would go through it all again in a minute. Fraid i got horny after the event lol know idea how he felt about it all. U'l b fine xx
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The simple reason for his increased libido is because your jugs are bigger !
When my missus was pregnant I generally kept away - it was like trying to deflate a space hopper.
When my missus was pregnant I generally kept away - it was like trying to deflate a space hopper.
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perhaps its one of those pheromone(sp) things
-i can remember my dog being overprotective of the wife when she was pregnant-perhaps not all men can smell them(pheromones that is)
This would explain the split between cant get enough and not interested being so distinct?
all i can say is i used to chase her constantly for it,ive no idea why it just seemed like the right thing to do
good luck its only for a few more months
richie
-i can remember my dog being overprotective of the wife when she was pregnant-perhaps not all men can smell them(pheromones that is)
This would explain the split between cant get enough and not interested being so distinct?
all i can say is i used to chase her constantly for it,ive no idea why it just seemed like the right thing to do
good luck its only for a few more months
richie
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Is your dog a bitch? I know female cats who have had a litter are quite protective/like to lie across the stomach of the pregnant woman and 'listening' to the baby inside!
I know I will be giving off hormones to other unsuspecting women which will make them more fertile or prepare their bodies for pregnancy, apparently!
Well, I got to bed last night and guess what; my good old friend woody greeted me as soon as I hopped in (baring in mind I had big baggy pink jammies on!) Och well then, it's just one of those things I will have to put up with!!
Is your dog a bitch? I know female cats who have had a litter are quite protective/like to lie across the stomach of the pregnant woman and 'listening' to the baby inside!
I know I will be giving off hormones to other unsuspecting women which will make them more fertile or prepare their bodies for pregnancy, apparently!
Well, I got to bed last night and guess what; my good old friend woody greeted me as soon as I hopped in (baring in mind I had big baggy pink jammies on!) Och well then, it's just one of those things I will have to put up with!!
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yep she was-and she was ultra defensive especially after the baby was born-she had a few mates pinned up against the wall all teeth etc when me or the wife would go out of the room when my baby daughter was there
fine if my daughter wasnt about and not so protective to the wife post birth
just to add she was never in anyway agressive other than those circumstances
quite reasurring really
richie
fine if my daughter wasnt about and not so protective to the wife post birth
just to add she was never in anyway agressive other than those circumstances
quite reasurring really
richie
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Ahhhhh
People think animals are stupid, but the females are wise to pregnancy and children, it makes you wonder!
The inlaw's Cairn Terrier, Harvey, is male. He's a daft git Must just be the female of the species
People think animals are stupid, but the females are wise to pregnancy and children, it makes you wonder!
The inlaw's Cairn Terrier, Harvey, is male. He's a daft git Must just be the female of the species
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