Best way to dump someone?
17 November 2005, 06:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Spoon
Amazing isn't it? Assuming the OP is genuine then he's asking for ideas to help him in a very tricky situation that he is clearly finding difficult because he has a heart and cares for this girls feelings no matter what he thinks of the state of the relationship.
Then what? The women in here slate him for being a selfish wimp and say she'd be well rid anyway??
No he isn't doing her or himself any favours by prolonging the inevitable but come on, the guy isn't finding this easy and he gets abuse!!
Good luck Novemberscoob.
Then what? The women in here slate him for being a selfish wimp and say she'd be well rid anyway??
No he isn't doing her or himself any favours by prolonging the inevitable but come on, the guy isn't finding this easy and he gets abuse!!
Good luck Novemberscoob.
If he wants out that badly he knows where the door is. Couple of bottles of wine and a Gloria Gaynor CD and she'll be fine.And if it is genuine then I really hope he does email her the link - she'll see him for what he really is. :wnaker: (we really do need a 'smiley' for that!)
21 November 2005, 02:22 PM
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Know how you feel pal, when i split with a girl after 4 years who was still head-over-heels for me it was the hardest thing i have ever had to do! But you have to do it, otherwise your spend the rest of your life being unhappy!
If she you cant do it then start nailing anything with a pulse, your soon get caught out!
If she you cant do it then start nailing anything with a pulse, your soon get caught out!
22 November 2005, 09:55 AM
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Novemberscoob, you have to be straight with her and tell her that you want to split. Ignore the tears and stay firm, leave her in no doubt and dont leave her with a little bit of hope. You have to be firm and stand your ground. As to her threats of suicide, you cannot let yourself be blackmailed no matter how hard. You have to be honest and tell her that her threats wont work and they are not going to keep you. Be strong about this as you could be stuck for another 10 years by giving in.
I don't think it is fair that you want to kick her out of the house but regarless of who ends up with it the other person can legally make you sell it, buying her out is the only other option.
Stop being a coward and think of what she is going through. By giving in to her tears and threats you are giving her hope that things will work out. Once you tell her straight she can start to deal with it and get her life back together. Be a man and tell her.
I don't think it is fair that you want to kick her out of the house but regarless of who ends up with it the other person can legally make you sell it, buying her out is the only other option.
Stop being a coward and think of what she is going through. By giving in to her tears and threats you are giving her hope that things will work out. Once you tell her straight she can start to deal with it and get her life back together. Be a man and tell her.
22 November 2005, 01:05 PM
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Stop being a coward and think of what she is going through
Threatening suicide? What a fruitcake!!!!!!
22 November 2005, 02:38 PM
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Originally Posted by weapon69
Christ, she's only splitting up with her boyfriend, not having her legs chopped off!! Threatening suicide? What a fruitcake!!!!!!
Threatening suicide? What a fruitcake!!!!!!
She is threatening suicide to keep hold of him, that doesnt make her a fruitcake. We have all said things we dont mean just to hurt somebody else. If she does attempt suicide then she is a fruitcake and he is well rid.
22 November 2005, 02:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Shonen
Oh yes I forgot, being dumped and chucked out of your own home is a picnic isnt it?
She is threatening suicide to keep hold of him, that doesnt make her a fruitcake. We have all said things we dont mean just to hurt somebody else. If she does attempt suicide then she is a fruitcake and he is well rid.
She is threatening suicide to keep hold of him, that doesnt make her a fruitcake. We have all said things we dont mean just to hurt somebody else. If she does attempt suicide then she is a fruitcake and he is well rid.
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