View Poll Results: Is it right for a 27year old to date a 17year old schoolgirl?
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24 November 2005, 11:18 AM
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Originally Posted by TelBoy
But davyboy, isn't that the whole point - "men" at 27 *aren't* mature, not usually.
speak for yourself....I've been 34 since I was 24
But davyboy, isn't that the whole point - "men" at 27 *aren't* mature, not usually.
speak for yourself....I've been 34 since I was 24
24 November 2005, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by davyboy
16 year olds is just plain wrong! Pedo tastic! I also like the fact that everyone assumes that becuase they are 16 they must be fit! 16 year olds can be mingers too!
However, the point of my post is, most of the people I have known go out with school girls have been either:
a) very dim
b) unable to have a relationship with an adult
However, the point of my post is, most of the people I have known go out with school girls have been either:
a) very dim
b) unable to have a relationship with an adult
I have a degree, so does she. I split up with a women who was 2 years older than me to be with her. Previous g/f to her was 3 older than me, previous to her was the same age as me.
So, I have no problems dating women the same age, I am not dim AND our relationship has depth and meaning.
Kind of blows all the bigoted ranting out of the window doesn't it?
Oh, every night I do still ask her how her day at school was, but that's because she's now a teacher
(peri music teacher)Oh, and about the too young to be insured for the Scoob - my wife owns a bleeding Vectra 3.2V6 GSi! The insurance is less than £500 a year.
24 November 2005, 11:43 AM
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Originally Posted by Kieran_Burns
Hmmmm.... I'm 39. My WIFE is 24. We've been married 3 years, been together 7 years (do the maths)
24 November 2005, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by Kieran_Burns
I split up with a women who was 2 years older than me to be with her. Previous g/f to her was 3 older than me, previous to her was the same age as me.
24 November 2005, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Leslie
I voted no because I was thinking of a 12 year old being dated by an older man. At 17 she is old enough to go out with him of course.
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24 November 2005, 12:49 PM
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LMAO at STi's comment!!
Originally Posted by davyboy
I've know people on SN date people who are not yet 16.......
24 November 2005, 01:26 PM
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I dont think my mate will proceed with it....
he's getting soo much stick already and think he realises how stupid it is:
Has been nicknamed 'Glitter'
Usual jokes about hanging around outside school gates
How he can take it in turns to pick her up from school between her dad and him...
but when the lights are out who's the daddy?!?
Take her out to dinner.......to McDonalds - she'll be more than impressed
Have her in by 10pm
Easy gift for Xmas - lunchbox
He'll have more in common with her parents than her
etc etc......
*add your own if you wish*
he's getting soo much stick already and think he realises how stupid it is:
Has been nicknamed 'Glitter'
Usual jokes about hanging around outside school gates
How he can take it in turns to pick her up from school between her dad and him...
but when the lights are out who's the daddy?!?
Take her out to dinner.......to McDonalds - she'll be more than impressed
Have her in by 10pm
Easy gift for Xmas - lunchbox
He'll have more in common with her parents than her
etc etc......
*add your own if you wish*
24 November 2005, 01:31 PM
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Personally, i'd advise him to get a new set of "mates". Comments like that *prove* the immaturity thing. She's 17 for Christ's sake, old enough to marry!!
24 November 2005, 01:32 PM
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Hmm i was 17 when i first met my other half and he's 10years older... I never got any jokes but i think he did. Now we live together and have a son. I think that shut them up
24 November 2005, 01:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Gidney&Knowlesy
When I'm 90 I'll certainly be going out with a 17/18/19 year old, I want to die with a smile on my face
24 November 2005, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by BOB'5
I dont think my mate will proceed with it....
he's getting soo much stick already and think he realises how stupid it is:
Has been nicknamed 'Glitter'
Usual jokes about hanging around outside school gates
How he can take it in turns to pick her up from school between her dad and him...
but when the lights are out who's the daddy?!?
Take her out to dinner.......to McDonalds - she'll be more than impressed
Have her in by 10pm
Easy gift for Xmas - lunchbox
He'll have more in common with her parents than her
etc etc......
*add your own if you wish*
he's getting soo much stick already and think he realises how stupid it is:
Has been nicknamed 'Glitter'
Usual jokes about hanging around outside school gates
How he can take it in turns to pick her up from school between her dad and him...
but when the lights are out who's the daddy?!?
Take her out to dinner.......to McDonalds - she'll be more than impressed
Have her in by 10pm
Easy gift for Xmas - lunchbox
He'll have more in common with her parents than her
etc etc......
*add your own if you wish*
Kinda shot myself in foot when Lisa became a schoolteacher... my comments of "she's lying in today 'cos it's half-term" REALLY didn't help!
You and your mates ought to cut him some slack. *IF* it's a mistake, it's his to make not yours
24 November 2005, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by TelBoy
Personally, i'd advise him to get a new set of "mates". Comments like that *prove* the immaturity thing. She's 17 for Christ's sake, old enough to marry!!
Question is, have you done it?
Sure she's old enough in the eyes of the law to marry and can possibly be quite 'mature' of a fashion, but realistically having common ground of which to base a relationship on just isn't possible in the majority of cases in this age range.
It's quite funny how naturally most blokes react too when age is mentioned, like they somehow think that a 17 year old *should* be sexier. In actual fact, as someone has said already, she could be very plain or indeed a minger. Age has no real relation to beauty but it doesn't stop the stereotypical thoughts rearing does it.
One thing she won't have is much experience, and that's a fact.
24 November 2005, 02:37 PM
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Reading some of the comments on here I can't see how some people feel they're in any position to say a 17 year old girl isn't mature...... 
24 November 2005, 02:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Drunken Bungle *****
Reading some of the comments on here I can't see how some people feel they're in any position to say a 17 year old girl isn't mature......
24 November 2005, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Spoon
It's quite funny how naturally most blokes react too when age is mentioned, like they somehow think that a 17 year old *should* be sexier. In actual fact, as someone has said already, she could be very plain or indeed a minger. Age has no real relation to beauty but it doesn't stop the stereotypical thoughts rearing does it.
One thing she won't have is much experience, and that's a fact.
One thing she won't have is much experience, and that's a fact.
Like I said eariler in the thread doesnt mean theyre thick either because theyre still young.... Dont see the problem myself
24 November 2005, 02:49 PM
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My mother was married with a kid at 19, my father being 27 at the time.
Never caused them or anyone else in the family any problems, even though when they met she was less than 17.
Never caused them or anyone else in the family any problems, even though when they met she was less than 17.
24 November 2005, 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
lol what a strange one.... saying about stereotyping, then you are stereotyping the fact that shes 17 she wont have experience... Experience in what? kids today are like rabbits at 13 half the time Like I said eariler in the thread doesnt mean theyre thick either because theyre still young.... Dont see the problem myself
Like I said eariler in the thread doesnt mean theyre thick either because theyre still young.... Dont see the problem myselfEven then if they had started having sex at 13 you really think that's a lot of experience? I'd certainly doubt the quality.
Who mentioned they were thick anyway? If you're confusing intelligence with experience then what's that saying about you?
24 November 2005, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted by Spoon
Dave, at 17 you honestly believe anybody has real life experience? It's funny how you assumed I meant sex experience however, isn't it?
Even then if they had started having sex at 13 you really think that's a lot of experience? I'd certainly doubt the quality.
Who mentioned they were thick anyway? If you're confusing intelligence with experience then what's that saying about you?
Even then if they had started having sex at 13 you really think that's a lot of experience? I'd certainly doubt the quality.
Who mentioned they were thick anyway? If you're confusing intelligence with experience then what's that saying about you?
Your banging on about lack of experience, the ONLY possible thing they can lack in experience if general life experience and how does that matter to whether 2 people of the opposite sex can get along? Maybe the guy isnt planning on it being a long term relationship anyhow, so the whole arguement your putting up is worthless....
24 November 2005, 03:25 PM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
No its not funny because I never presumed anything, I said, about sex and intelligence, and Im quite sure many 17yr olds will have as much knowledge as you or me....
Your banging on about lack of experience, the ONLY possible thing they can lack in experience if general life experience and how does that matter to whether 2 people of the opposite sex can get along? Maybe the guy isnt planning on it being a long term relationship anyhow, so the whole arguement your putting up is worthless....
Your banging on about lack of experience, the ONLY possible thing they can lack in experience if general life experience and how does that matter to whether 2 people of the opposite sex can get along? Maybe the guy isnt planning on it being a long term relationship anyhow, so the whole arguement your putting up is worthless....
You don't have to agree with what others post, that's what makes a discussion.
You should also notice I've not condemned the age gap, I've merely stated my thoughts on it. If two people can get on in that age range then fine. I'm saying there is a big chance after the initial 'honeymoon' period it could die.
Personally I'd feel I was lacking something if I had to look for a relationship with a 17 year old at 27.
24 November 2005, 03:32 PM
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FFS, just typed out a decent reply and somehow clicked the damn advert for a speed camera detector and lost it all 
Not ognna type it out again. but basically we've gone off topic from the original question now, but I made my points earlier on in the thread.
BUT
As with any relationship.
And I dont think people purposely go out looking for someone aged 17.... might get a 17yr old looking for a 27yr old but doubt it happens all too commonly the other way round.
Not ognna type it out again. but basically we've gone off topic from the original question now, but I made my points earlier on in the thread.
BUT
If two people can get on in that age range then fine. I'm saying there is a big chance after the initial 'honeymoon' period it could die.
And I dont think people purposely go out looking for someone aged 17.... might get a 17yr old looking for a 27yr old but doubt it happens all too commonly the other way round.
24 November 2005, 03:40 PM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
And I dont think people purposely go out looking for someone aged 17.... might get a 17yr old looking for a 27yr old but doubt it happens all too commonly the other way round.
