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Two options : 1. wear your subaru jacket and shirt, casually toss your keys on the table with big subaru keyring etc.... might work....
Option 2. Dont expect to pull in one night ( unless you just want a slapper to stick your **** in ) - unlike men, women gradually come to fancy a bloke as they get to know him more - this is why attractive women are often seen with ugly blokes - they like him for his personality, sense of humour etc... rather than just the shallow - 'he looks fit' or 'he's got lots of money'
Problem getting a bird who is only interested in looks or money, is chances are they'll be off as soon as they find someone with more of either.
I'm not gay, so cant say with authority, but I dont think you are ugly, you just look average looking - which is something you cant change - a flash suit and gold watch isnt going to attract a long term women who likes you for yourself, just one the of the gold digging footballers wife wannabes you see in any town centre.
Being married I havent had to try and pull for years, but when I was single, every time I went out trying to I failed, all the times I did pull was when I wasnt trying and just being myself, and ended up being shocked that the woman liked me.
Option 2. Dont expect to pull in one night ( unless you just want a slapper to stick your **** in ) - unlike men, women gradually come to fancy a bloke as they get to know him more - this is why attractive women are often seen with ugly blokes - they like him for his personality, sense of humour etc... rather than just the shallow - 'he looks fit' or 'he's got lots of money'
Problem getting a bird who is only interested in looks or money, is chances are they'll be off as soon as they find someone with more of either.
I'm not gay, so cant say with authority, but I dont think you are ugly, you just look average looking - which is something you cant change - a flash suit and gold watch isnt going to attract a long term women who likes you for yourself, just one the of the gold digging footballers wife wannabes you see in any town centre.
Being married I havent had to try and pull for years, but when I was single, every time I went out trying to I failed, all the times I did pull was when I wasnt trying and just being myself, and ended up being shocked that the woman liked me.
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Originally Posted by Poor Guy
thats me listening to moby right now. I think i shall go on a dieting and excercise rampage. unfortunately being myself ends in lots of friendships, LOTS.
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Being married I havent had to try and pull for years, but when I was single, every time I went out trying to I failed, all the times I did pull was when I wasnt trying and just being myself, and ended up being shocked that the woman liked me.
just be yourself and dont try to "pull" them. Go out for an evening with some friends and if one of them likes you, they'll make it obvious and from there on in you make your moves.
Things get a lot easier with "pulling" a laydee if you KNOW they fancy you. For example, if you beckon an attractive yet unknown laydee over with your finger and when she arrives say "See that? I made you come with one finger, imagine what I could do with all five" then you'll be looking at a hoof in the pills.
However, I did this to a girl who, after reading the signs, I knew fancied me. She and I slept together that same night.
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Originally Posted by astraboy
Innit!
just be yourself and dont try to "pull" them.
just be yourself and dont try to "pull" them.
Its all about the air of confidence you carry when you're in a comfortable relationship that attracts other women (who you can't/shouldn't touch).
Try to appear comfortable and confident, but not uninterested.
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Originally Posted by Robbie T
Its all about the air of confidence you carry when you're in a comfortable relationship that attracts other women (who you can't/shouldn't touch).
Try to appear comfortable and confident, but not uninterested
Try to appear comfortable and confident, but not uninterested
this book might be of some help
good luck mike
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Originally Posted by MikeCardiff
Two options : 1. wear your subaru jacket and shirt, casually toss your keys on the table with big subaru keyring etc.... might work....
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Didn't the first post say that a girl in the bar was apparently interested in him? In that case all the hard work is done! All you need to do is be yourself, after all she'll soon find out what you are really like.
Just need to look clean and smart and off you go.
Just need to look clean and smart and off you go.
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Well, if you talk like you type ........................ your buggered.
No girl want's to go out with a thicko.
Tell her you've only got six months to live, and you don't want to die a Virgin. That will do it.
No girl want's to go out with a thicko.
Tell her you've only got six months to live, and you don't want to die a Virgin. That will do it.
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Take Derek & Clive's advice:
1. Get your **** out.
2. Put it in her hand
3. Cry
Cheers
Kav
PS - If that fails, buy her a drink and be attentive and pay compliments. Don't whatever do, say "Nice legs - what time do they open?"
1. Get your **** out.
2. Put it in her hand
3. Cry
Cheers
Kav
PS - If that fails, buy her a drink and be attentive and pay compliments. Don't whatever do, say "Nice legs - what time do they open?"
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Originally Posted by Poor Guy
thats me listening to moby right now. I think i shall go on a dieting and excercise rampage. unfortunately being myself ends in lots of friendships, LOTS.
Seriously though, from your comments here I reckon you're just suffering from low-self esteem. The advice to lose a few pounds is sound. Treat yourself to a new wardrobe whilst you are about it.
Good luck.
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Just mention in conversation that you have only got a very small one. They get interested and want to see for themselves whether you are joking or not. You have got it made after that!
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Originally Posted by Gutmann pug
Confidence and comedy ....... and if all else fails get um pissed
Sound advice though....be warned it works both ways!!
Whatever you do, don't follow the advice of Ricky Gervais and pop out your old fella at the bar and shout:
"At the end of the day, who wouldn't want that up em, am I not wrong?"
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From my experience women are shallow creatures and dont like to talk about anything else other than themselves. So before going out have a list of questions in your head that you should ask and before you know it you'll be in a full swinging conversations. At this stage your 75% there already.
Obviously you have to introduce yourself and you'll know straight away whether or not your looking at a hard one to crack. This isnt always a bad thing, its more than likely these are the types you have to crack and go on a few dates and have a relationship with, others are obviously giving you the signal that theyre easy
Obviously you have to introduce yourself and you'll know straight away whether or not your looking at a hard one to crack. This isnt always a bad thing, its more than likely these are the types you have to crack and go on a few dates and have a relationship with, others are obviously giving you the signal that theyre easy
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Originally Posted by FASTER MIKE!!
...dont know wether the girls see you as a challenge or its just a more relaxed body language you show, ...
And then they get anoyed when you play away!
Weird!
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Originally Posted by ru'
It's cos they're bitches!
And then they get anoyed when you play away!
Weird!
And then they get anoyed when you play away!
Weird!
"All bitches except mother!"
I said that we have a similar saying in Psychology
"All bitches, especially mother" LOL
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BTW Apologies to the females on here! The above does not reflect how I really feel!
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This is meant light-heartedly, so take it that way!!
I've never met you, but before you look for happiness with a partner, look for happiness with yourself!!!
Then everything else falls into place (IMHO)
Dan
I've never met you, but before you look for happiness with a partner, look for happiness with yourself!!!
Then everything else falls into place (IMHO)
Dan
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