sti-04!!

Visions of them

hang tight lads I'm posting a pic

sti-04!!

*Stands waiting with clipboard ready for marks out of ten*

Fuzz

Maybe I wont go to bed just yet then.

Andy

ESH

Hi Visions,

I broke up with my GF just before our 1 year anniversary. I was the one who did the dumping. Even though I was the one who pushed the button and ended things I've regretted the loss. I have felt hurt and all manor bad of feelings! I'm not going to go into the nitty gritty as its never the same story but suffice to say we weren't right for each other.

What have I and most people who have been on the recieving end done?

We've drunken alot
Been depressed
Not wanted to go out
Gone out non stop for days
Taken Time out. Currently on this one and will be going to Goa this Thursday
I'm sure I've missed alot of other things (Hmm, might be an idea for a new thread)

When I split up I didn't bother to go and pick up my stuff nor will I as its not worth the aggro.

I'll give you one piece of advice. Let her sink her own ship. Just completely break contact if you haven't already and delete all files and emails pertaining to her. Its not easy and I hope I understand some of what you are going through but malicious acts aren't going to put things right or make you feel better. Time on the other hand will.

You need to be a round your friends now. Scoobynet included.

If you're near London I'll even buy you a beer & help you find a replacement!!

Take care dude

Esh

Fuzz

well said from the ESH

Visions of them

THis is marina

sti-04!!

Is she a boat ???

PS we know who you are now

PPS what happened to the bra & knickers ?

Visions of them

Thanks Mate, thats really kind, and thankyou for sharing your expirence.
she was posting all these entries in her online journal on Vampire freaks, but I never rose to the bait she's now deleted her profile. I will be in London at some point not sure when I'm in Penzance, at pressant

Visions of them

No

and no I'm not that spitful, but thought has crosed my mind to post that pic

Fuzz

Nothing to lose sleep over I suppose.
Not pig ugly though.

Best off just putting her in the past, trying not to dwell on it too much and move on as soon as you are able to get your chin up again.
It's bloody hard work, been there before (usually the me doing the dumping though)

Andy

sti-04!!

*Mrs Doyle on*

Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on, Go on,

*Mrs Doyle off*

ESH

No worries mate!

I bought my first WRX from a guy in Penzance. What a mental trip. Took my evo with the intention of having a spirited drive back with both cars the next day.

We went out that night in town and to some club after. Ladies were very friendly.

Bad news was that the WRX's gearbox broke just a few miles from home and cost me another £1k+ to replace. Not a good start to subaru ownership!!

Just give me a shout if you want that beer.
Esh

Visions of them

Will do mate, sorry to hear about your bad expierence on your first expierence with a subaru, but I'm not disclosing what I drive it's shamefull, but it gets me around, and has been good to me. cheers Ru

Jonathan Davies

My advie would be to count your blessings. This sounds harsh, but it looks to me like she's been taking the pish anyway.

It's very hard when you're in there to assess a relationship objectively, and sometimes you can end up being used in ways that you wouldn't dream of in abstract terms. You've been doing all this stuff for her - has she done anything for you? Like been there with you (even in spirit) during your dad's illness?

I'm not saying relationships have to be perfectly balanced like that, but people who care want to give.

I dunno. Sometimes it takes a long time to get objectivity, sometimes it comes quickly. Some good advice about what to do with yourself now on here.

Luan Pra bang

Get some revenge every time in life you don't you may regret it. It better to regret somthing you have done than something you havn't after all.

Jonathan Davies

I think you've made your point now ;-)

Luan Pra bang

what on earth do you mean

Visions of them

Your rite, the way I'm beginig to see it is at leat I did not move to Aus just to discover only then how self centerd she is, so in a funny way it is a blessing.

and last August her mum lied to me to get info from me then used that info against me to cause an argument between me and marina, how f'd up is that, so yes a real blessing

Drunken Bungle Whore

Perhaps you're waking up with a sore head and regretting posting but hey - you asked! First of all I'm very disappointed you're not in Oz already (or are you?). You had the ticket and were in the departure lounge for god's sake - I would def have got on the plane - no point avoiding an entire cournty for the sake of one (demonstrably) dumb blonde!

Secondly - don't do the spiteful thing. Believe me I know how tempting it can be, but don't. Chalk it down to experience, get drunk, bitch about her and move on. However DO NOT reply to any other emails from her asking for help!

Thridly - if you didn't go to Oz - and you have any rebate on your ticket - go and do something fun and get her out of your system!

StickyMicky

i must admit, when i got ****ed over by my last G/F with a mate ??!!??

i felt like doing all sorts of illegal things, i was also starting a brand new intensive job at the time (building cars for nissan) and i really wanted to succeed, so i forgot about them, and i am far better off now, rather then **** about and not concentrate on work.

much easier to look down on them peasants nowadays

Visions of them

Actually all the posting has helped me alot, Esh especially, as he's given me insite as to what she could be going through, as I know how she is, she drinks alot and smokes alot, the last time I spoke to her 2 weeks ago, so she could going down the path of regret and like I mentioned in another post, she was keeping an online journal which was obviusly written in a way to make it sound like her life waswonderfull, you only push those points if things are not so good.

But I have a company to run and heaps to be doing so it's all good

The Zohan

From what you say she does not sound that nicer' person but there are usually two sides as they say.

From what you have said i would just walk away and change my number after advising her to leave me alone or tell her that if she gives you grief of tries to cause a problem i would drop her in it with her bosses.

The next move is then hers and she can choose what she wants and how it goes

WRX_Dazza

forget about her mate,

get on with your work, friends and save up for a nice car.

the rest will follow....

Good Luck,

Dazza

Visions of them

She is not really thinking about it, one reason I wanted to drop her in it, just to teach her the world does not revolve around her and her whims

The Zohan

Cool, drop her in it, she will chances are know it was you and i am sure you will get some (un)wanted attention becasue of it. It depends what you want. To be left alone in peace or some sort of revenge

Revenge is a dish best served cold and i have on the odd occaision had a small dish of it cold

jasey

Forget her - Move on.

Delete all pictures / emails / correspondence you have of/with her.

kingofturds

iTrader: (1)

Forget her you may not see it now but it looks likes she is taking the **** and using you.Move on and leave her to crash and burn.if she had ran of with your best mate however id say let her have both barrels.

Visions of them

Thanks I am trying too, My problem is her excuses for ditching me thats what I find so low and what has hurt me the most, using my Dad's death is the lowest of the low which I know says lots about her, just God damn that huurt as you guys can probably tell

STi wanna Subaru

iTrader: (1)

she's a minger. Move on and forget about it. Sounds dumb too so lucky escape I'd say.