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Old 21 March 2006, 10:34 AM
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Originally Posted by Visions of them
Thanks I am trying too, My problem is her excuses for ditching me thats what I find so low and what has hurt me the most, using my Dad's death is the lowest of the low which I know says lots about her, just God damn that huurt as you guys can probably tell
She's a nutter.

FORGET HER !
Old 21 March 2006, 10:57 AM
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Did you get on the plane?

Or did you walk out of the airport?

If you went to college in Sydney, you obviously know the city - I'd have gone anyway and had a fantastic time staying with & mixing with all the Backpackers there....never know - might find a nicer one!
Old 21 March 2006, 11:04 AM
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Originally Posted by Dr Hu
Did you get on the plane?

Or did you walk out of the airport?

If you went to college in Sydney, you obviously know the city - I'd have gone anyway and had a fantastic time staying with & mixing with all the Backpackers there....never know - might find a nicer one!
I was out with my friends alot, was also working alot, I had a brilliant time.

Just since I have got back it has all really hit me and she said a few things the last time I spoke to her that really made my jaw drop at how self centerd she is, and it's all hit home again
Old 21 March 2006, 11:07 AM
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Originally Posted by Visions of them
I was out with my friends alot, was also working alot, I had a brilliant time.

Just since I have got back it has all really hit me and she said a few things the last time I spoke to her that really made my jaw drop at how self centerd she is, and it's all hit home again
Surely you realise you are better off without her then.I know it takes time and its always harder being the one that was dumped. But give it a few weeks out with your mates and not moping around at home and you will be laughing
Old 21 March 2006, 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted by kingofturds
Surely you realise you are better off without her then.I know it takes time and its always harder being the one that was dumped. But give it a few weeks out with your mates and not moping around at home and you will be laughing

I know it's already been a month without her, it's just returning to the uk and setteling again.
Trying to to mope round Home have loads to do so just focasing on work
Old 21 March 2006, 11:21 AM
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you're depressing me now! so she's cheated on you a few times, used you because she is **** at her job and in all honesty not much of a looker yet one month on you are down about it all? Never understand why people pour their hearts out on here about stuff like this.
Old 21 March 2006, 11:21 AM
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Bloody hell, is everyone turning into spinelss, spiteful benders? Let her go, get over it, get on with it, if she's as crap at her job as you say she is she'll bugger it up soon enough, you've got your own life to get on with.
Old 21 March 2006, 11:22 AM
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Oh and why not post under your usual username? You're not Tweaky are you?
Old 21 March 2006, 11:27 AM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
you're depressing me now! so she's cheated on you a few times, used you because she is **** at her job and in all honesty not much of a looker yet one month on you are down about it all? Never understand why people pour their hearts out on here about stuff like this.

The only reason I originally posted was I wanted some opinions on weather I should get her fired, but it's turned into this out pouring session.

But I will say I feel a lot clearer about what to do getting opinions from strangers does help, it was also sugested to me that I post here for an opinion and I have got a few and I feel much better, thanks every one

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Old 21 March 2006, 11:30 AM
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IMO just walk away, avoid all contact with her, she will sink herself by the sounds of it anyway.

Throw yourself into going out with mates, work, the gym, whatever!

Good luck,
Happens to everyone at some point!
Old 21 March 2006, 12:32 PM
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Old 21 March 2006, 12:37 PM
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Old 21 March 2006, 06:38 PM
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Talking Thankyou

O.k every one I just want to say a huge thankyou, to you all for all your thoughts and comments, it really helped.

I ditched all her stuff, even her burberry scarf went in the bin, god she's going to be pissed if she has the nerve to call me and ask for it back.

Oh well

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Thankyou one and all, for helping me get my head straight, I was really screwed up last night.
Old 21 March 2006, 06:41 PM
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Good for you, you made the right decision
Old 21 March 2006, 07:11 PM
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Yeah she sounds like a wrong 'un alright!
You need to get your chin up and move on, dont waste time thinking about her. You've got rid, now be happy!

I do believe in REVENGE, so send me the artwork and ill be more then happy to forward it onto her boss
Old 21 March 2006, 07:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Visions of them
O.k every one I just want to say a huge thankyou, to you all for all your thoughts and comments, it really helped.

I ditched all her stuff, even her burberry scarf went in the bin, god she's going to be pissed if she has the nerve to call me and ask for it back.

Oh well

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Thankyou one and all, for helping me get my head straight, I was really screwed up last night.
Over the last few years ive been a bit of a p*ick to some girls. Always warned that" what goes around comes around" yeah yeah whatever! later darling.

Well last year I got mine and let me tell you it sucked big time! worst time of my life. but fully deserved.

You did the right thing deleting all memory of her and it may not be tomorrow, next week or even next year, but one day this girl will get her "what goes around comes around lesson" and hopefully like me it will make her relaize how nasty and hurtful she was to you. and change the way she treats others.


Now get out there and meet some ladies

Rags
Old 21 March 2006, 07:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Rags
Now get out there and meet some ladies
Trust me I started when I ws in sydney

Over the last few years ive been a bit of a p*ick to some girls. Always warned that" what goes around comes around" yeah yeah whatever! later darling.

Well last year I got mine and let me tell you it sucked big time! worst time of my life. but fully deserved.

You did the right thing deleting all memory of her and it may not be tomorrow, next week or even next year, but one day this girl will get her "what goes around comes around lesson" and hopefully like me it will make her relaize how nasty and hurtful she was to you. and change the way she treats others.
I beleieve in Karma too, I got stabbed in the head by with a broken plate twice by this one girl cause I asked her to get out of my apartment cause she was high on drugs, spent a month in hospital and 2 rounds of nuro surgery later I was out. that was 3 years ago

While I was in sydney this time, I bumped into her can you beleive she was staying in the same hotel, any way she was completeley freaked by seeing me, and in the few moments we spoke it tanspirde her life had gone completely down the drain, so I know karma will come around, just need patients

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Old 21 March 2006, 07:25 PM
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My name is Earl
Old 21 March 2006, 07:28 PM
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Originally Posted by SCOsazOBY
My name is Earl
Welle "Earl" I know your true identity Enigma just told me on msn

sounds very tempting
Old 21 March 2006, 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by Visions of them
No her, the thought of her mother is scary
Get them on this bad boy, lol.

www.revengeworld.com

then we can all judge her.

Mac
Old 21 March 2006, 09:52 PM
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***** her up. Proppa ruin her mate. Teach that silly cow a lesson. She has obvioulsy taken advantage of your good natured being. Hit it were it hurts.
Old 21 March 2006, 09:57 PM
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It wouldn't be revenge, more of a laugh really - to post a pic of her wearing that treasured scarf on chavscum.com

Thats if you've got any
Old 22 March 2006, 08:21 PM
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When I said delete all pictures - I didn't mean the bra & panties one - you could always post that up .

You've done the right thing
Old 22 March 2006, 08:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Visions of them
Welle "Earl" I know your true identity Enigma just told me on msn

sounds very tempting
hahahaha so whats Enigma been saying about me? Dont believe a word of it...........its all true
Old 22 March 2006, 08:38 PM
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Don't worry Saz your secrets are safe with me
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