School bullies
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My son got bullied for a time at junior school. I told him to tackle the ring leader on his own. He did and gave him a good sorting. They left him alone after that but he got a right bolloxing off the teacher
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You can't win. His Dad said, "Next time Son, do it when the teacher isn't looking"
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You can't win. His Dad said, "Next time Son, do it when the teacher isn't looking"
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My daughter had a few issues with teasing/bullying that the school didnt deal with so i wrote a letter to her head saying i had given my child the advice that if the bullying was being dealt with my the school the way it was in 1980 when i was at the same school (ie. nothing done at all) then she should deal with the bully the way i did in 1980.
As such i had no interest in attending a meeting that may take place after she has dealt with the situation herself.....school said "noooo, we will sort - dont worry"....they didnt so she slapped the boy silly and left him crying in front of his mates.....never heard a peep from the school.
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ohh...should add, there is no way on earth my kids would go to a school that was "mainly asian", they will go to schools that represent the UK's cultural mix - and that is NOT mainly asian.
As such i had no interest in attending a meeting that may take place after she has dealt with the situation herself.....school said "noooo, we will sort - dont worry"....they didnt so she slapped the boy silly and left him crying in front of his mates.....never heard a peep from the school.
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ohh...should add, there is no way on earth my kids would go to a school that was "mainly asian", they will go to schools that represent the UK's cultural mix - and that is NOT mainly asian.
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Originally Posted by Miss Kinky
school is very multi cultural, but is mainly Asian...
He has made a couple of friends - will ask if they have older brothers....
He has made a couple of friends - will ask if they have older brothers....
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Ive been sending my son to boxing for nearly a year and to stick fighting which includes lots of forms of marshall arts including self defence.Hes only 10 but can now look after himself properly in preperation for secondry school in september.Ive always told him never to bully which as far as i know he doesnt judgeing by how popular he is with his class mates.He is the first person to step in front of anybullying going on in the class and sort the problem out,and thats from his teacher.My advise to miss Kinky is to enrol your son in a boxing club and dont tell anyone,his confidence will build and very quickly he will feel like he can cope in a bullying situation.e will only have toassert himself once win or lose and the bully will move onto his next victim.Hope you get it sorted regards JAY
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Don't think I'd like to be at a school where being white is a minority group ![Frown](images/smilies/frown.gif)
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i don't have an issue with the children at the school being Asian - i enjoy living in a multi-cultural society ![Big Grin](images/smilies/biggrin.gif)
however the school was not my first choice, for other reasons...
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however the school was not my first choice, for other reasons...
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Behave like a complete nutter - call the police and tell them that you will kill anyone who threatens your kids. Get treatment for physcosis from your doc (don't take it - you will become a veggie) - police can't do anything to you until you actually do something, but they will warn the bullies and their families of imminent death by lunatic....do some lunatic stuff, find out where the bullies live and hang round outside the house painting lambs blood on the pavement
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i was thinking more along the lines of a horses head in their bed... or a black cockeral with its throat slit...
waiting to see what today brings at school now....
waiting to see what today brings at school now....
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Why?? What does it matter what colour skin the other kids are?
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Originally Posted by scoobynutta555
It's my personal opinion, racist now am I?
What I find annoying as well, is schools who have immigrant pupils. Surely their lack of English brings the whole class down, as things will have to be said and explained slowly. All children lose out then. Where is this country going to be if our children are not learning everything they are supposed to because they are getting dragged down by immigrants. Down the pan, that where.
Manufacturing jobs are going abroad at an alarming rate. If our kids are under educated for the reasons above, then technology, management etc jobs will be farmed out abroad as well.
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Blair's labour policy of greeting our foreign friends with open arms is ruining this country. (wait for the barrage of "We only receive skilled workers". More propaganda sh1te)
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Originally Posted by Miss Kinky
my son says he has done nothing to provoke the attack.
the only thing i can put it down to is because he's the new boy (we moved and he changed schools last December)
i did suggest to my son that he stand up to the bullies and hit back and his reply was "but Mum, everyone will call me a racist, these boys are Asian"
i suspect that its the Asian boys who are racist, but have no proof and i am reluctant to make the accusation...
the only thing i can put it down to is because he's the new boy (we moved and he changed schools last December)
i did suggest to my son that he stand up to the bullies and hit back and his reply was "but Mum, everyone will call me a racist, these boys are Asian"
i suspect that its the Asian boys who are racist, but have no proof and i am reluctant to make the accusation...
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I think that getting their parents involved in this case would be a good thing. The generation of Asians that are parents now still generally have reasonable values and haven't been anglicised too much. (the almost certainly won't want to fight as would many English parents) So they will probably take it very seriously and as "face" is so valued amongst Asians they will probably want it to stop as soon as possible before it brings their family into disrepute by having the police turn up.
Alternatively write a letter to your local BNP candidate.
Alternatively write a letter to your local BNP candidate.
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He came home yesterday with a black eye and a broken tooth
If he's broken a tooth at 12 - prob his adult teeth - he's got a lifetime of paying a dentist to sort out his broken tooth problems..........
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Originally Posted by Dr Hu
I don't know about bullying, but that sounds more like assault!
If he's broken a tooth at 12 - prob his adult teeth - he's got a lifetime of paying a dentist to sort out his broken tooth problems..........
If he's broken a tooth at 12 - prob his adult teeth - he's got a lifetime of paying a dentist to sort out his broken tooth problems..........
this is what i said yesterday, that it was assault. the way i see it some stranger walked up to me in the street and proceeded to give me a kicking my next port of call would be the police.
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As well meaning as a lot of the advice is, it's always nice to have options.
Being able to hit back doesn't mean you have to. Not knowing how to just means he'll be an easy target if they're bored.
I think you should tackle the school as to how they are discharging their responsibilities to you and your son. They are legally responsible for him. Future bullying and/or assaults could lead to accusations of negligence.
I'd also consider boxing, martial arts to keep him fit and give him more options.
J.
Being able to hit back doesn't mean you have to. Not knowing how to just means he'll be an easy target if they're bored.
I think you should tackle the school as to how they are discharging their responsibilities to you and your son. They are legally responsible for him. Future bullying and/or assaults could lead to accusations of negligence.
I'd also consider boxing, martial arts to keep him fit and give him more options.
J.
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seeing as your kid is new to the school and doesn't really know anyone, has he not got any friends where he lives that could help him out?
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and you would know how audilover?????
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Originally Posted by stew911
seeing as your kid is new to the school and doesn't really know anyone, has he not got any friends where he lives that could help him out?