unwanted baby (not mine!!)
24 August 2006, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
at the moment she is a hairdresser, but later on she is probably going to end up squeezing benefits out of the system.
its discusting that you can have a baby through deception and you get rewarded for it
its discusting that you can have a baby through deception and you get rewarded for it
I'm not sure what happened but he was trying to put a case together based on her blatant deception, fraud, etc.
24 August 2006, 11:28 AM
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Originally Posted by Iwan
There was a featur on radio 2 a while back, about a bloke (i think from the USA) who was trying to sue his ex. After she lied to him about being on the pill, AND she told him she was infertile as well. As soon as she got pregnant she left him and started reaming him for maintainance payments.
I'm not sure what happened but he was trying to put a case together based on her blatant deception, fraud, etc.
I'm not sure what happened but he was trying to put a case together based on her blatant deception, fraud, etc.
24 August 2006, 11:33 AM
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You obviously dont agree with it then Sara?
she has already said that she wont name him on the birth certificate but for the next 19 years she could and prolly wil change her mind.
i hate seeing people get stitched up.............unless its me doing the stitching
24 August 2006, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
someone i know has got pregnant without the boyfriends knowledge(behind his back, on purpose) and wants to keep the baby. the girl is prepared to see a solicitor and make a statement saying that she got herself pregnant on purpose knowing that the B/F didnt want any children. she is willing to say that she accepts full responsibility for the baby and will not make any financial demands on the would be father during the childs childhood.
will this prevent any agencies saying he is responsible for the childs upkeep during its dependent years?
only sensible replies please
will this prevent any agencies saying he is responsible for the childs upkeep during its dependent years?
only sensible replies please
Remember the advice given by Ricky Gervais imparted by one of his teachers at college:
Teacher: Remember lads, a fish supper is nice covered in Daddy's sauce, but unless you want kids, keep the safety catch on, or aim high!
Students: Eh??????????
Teacher: Wear a condom or give her a pearl necklace!
Students: Sir, what are you on about?
Teacher: Come on her ****, you divs!!
24 August 2006, 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
someone i know has got pregnant without the boyfriends knowledge(behind his back, on purpose) and wants to keep the baby. the girl is prepared to see a solicitor and make a statement saying that she got herself pregnant on purpose knowing that the B/F didnt want any children. she is willing to say that she accepts full responsibility for the baby and will not make any financial demands on the would be father during the childs childhood.
will this prevent any agencies saying he is responsible for the childs upkeep during its dependent years?
only sensible replies please
will this prevent any agencies saying he is responsible for the childs upkeep during its dependent years?
only sensible replies please
24 August 2006, 11:39 AM
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@NS04My 2 pence worth - if she doesn't claim then I don't think they'll ever be a problem HOWEVER as you have said that she will claim once she's given birth then I think the poor bloke is gonna be screwed
24 August 2006, 11:42 AM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
i dont
she has already said that she wont name him on the birth certificate but for the next 19 years she could and prolly wil change her mind.
i hate seeing people get stitched up.............unless its me doing the stitching
she has already said that she wont name him on the birth certificate but for the next 19 years she could and prolly wil change her mind.
i hate seeing people get stitched up.............unless its me doing the stitching
24 August 2006, 11:48 AM
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Originally Posted by KiwiGTI
Does the CSA still exist?
BTW Miami or NY??? 
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24 August 2006, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
someone i know has got pregnant without the boyfriends knowledge(behind his back, on purpose) and wants to keep the baby. the girl is prepared to see a solicitor and make a statement saying that she got herself pregnant on purpose knowing that the B/F didnt want any children. she is willing to say that she accepts full responsibility for the baby and will not make any financial demands on the would be father during the childs childhood.
will this prevent any agencies saying he is responsible for the childs upkeep during its dependent years?
only sensible replies please
will this prevent any agencies saying he is responsible for the childs upkeep during its dependent years?
only sensible replies please
24 August 2006, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by phil_wrx
unless she says she got pregnant on a one night stand and doesnt know the name of the father as she was drunk
Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!
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24 August 2006, 12:08 PM
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ive just spoken to a solicitor and have been told that he is fooked. she is liable to 15% of his net income till the child is 19(further education)
and if she claims benefits he has to pay shed loads, possibly 2/3rds of his income
i am glad i am a woman
and if she claims benefits he has to pay shed loads, possibly 2/3rds of his income
i am glad i am a woman
24 August 2006, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
i am glad i am a woman
PS Not exactly a proud day for Women.....nor Men to be honest!
24 August 2006, 12:13 PM
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Originally Posted by jasey
One day men will wake up to the dangers of poking what they don't understand 
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24 August 2006, 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by jasey
Cos they're the ones with the fannies and they know we're the ones that want them .
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