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Old 24 August 2006, 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
definately not mine. she got herself pregnant cos the relationship was nearly over and has admitted that she thought she would be able to win him back with a supprise baby. he has always said he didnt ever want children and she was on the pill, but she stopped taking it without asking him first and got pregnant. she now knows that she has got no chance of having a relationship with him and wants to do the right thing. she wont have an abortion, she wants the baby.
surely if you are tricked into something and it can be proved a statement or something would work
Would have been better to give him a surprise party, at least they only ruin your life for a couple of hours.
Old 24 August 2006, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted by DCI Gene Hunt
And here she is...................

Is that Britney Spears ?
Old 24 August 2006, 12:26 PM
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if she claims benifits then yes they do try to push the csa to be involved, if she does not put fathers name on birth cert, she can tell the benefits people she dosnt know who the father is and it was adrunken one night stand and she dosnt know anymore than he is called "cuthbert".... they cant chase someone who dosnt exsist!

she sounds like a bloody joy to the famale race... prolly shouldnt even be allowed to have kids if she think this form of emotional blackmail works, it dosnt!!!.. stupid tart!

feel sorry for the bloke, cos one day the kid will prolly want to know who its father is and track him down!
Old 24 August 2006, 12:31 PM
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What it with women who think having a child is somehow a miraculous cure for a relationship on the rocks If anything it will make it worse. She must have read too many of the airy fairy womens mags in the hairdressers

It's enough to make a man celibate, or have his nadgers chopped.

No solicitor letter of deferred responsibility will win over the CSA.
Old 24 August 2006, 12:33 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
definately not mine. she got herself pregnant cos the relationship was nearly over and has admitted that she thought she would be able to win him back with a supprise baby. he has always said he didnt ever want children and she was on the pill, but she stopped taking it without asking him first and got pregnant. she now knows that she has got no chance of having a relationship with him and wants to do the right thing. she wont have an abortion, she wants the baby.
surely if you are tricked into something and it can be proved a statement or something would work
Seriously, I detest this attitude: A baby is not a mechanism for saving a failing relationship; the last thing it needs is to come into a world where the parents don't get on and resent it! It's selfish beyond belief to have a kid for that reason and to lie to secure getting pregnant, especially when you know that the other party doesn't want kids!

Having kids should be a two-way decision and not done for a relatationship, but because that is what BOTH parties want.

I would, however, argue that if the relationship was failing then it would have been sensible for the bloke to have stated to use condoms to ensure that there were no accidents at a time when the relationship was already under a good deal of stress.

Honestly, some people, eh!
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Old 24 August 2006, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by *Sonic*
Is that Britney Spears ?
No - Britney would have had a bottle of beer rather than water
Old 24 August 2006, 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
will this prevent any agencies saying he is responsible for the childs upkeep during its dependent years?
No.

This sounds like the steps that would be taken by a spurned 14 year old.Very disappointing and another child will arrive in this world with a pre-prepared f***ed up life.
Old 24 August 2006, 12:41 PM
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In the words of Bob Marley's 'I shot the Sheriff':

"Kill it before it grows."

Old 24 August 2006, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
i was thinking more along the lines of bumping her with my car
What a terrible thing to say SS, how could you even think such a thing ............you could dent your car doing that & the stupid, selfish, two-faced little slag isn't worth risking a visit by Dent-Devils!
Old 24 August 2006, 12:51 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
She thought she would be able to win him back with a supprise baby.
Now I dont know about you lads but a 'surprise baby' wouldnt win me back, like a surprise Lobotamy wouldnt, or a surprise threesome with her mother (unless she is fit, even then a bit too weird for even the most commited perverts) she should have planned a special day for him, like so

Blow Job (post shower, Im not that evil)

Paper/post (Pregnancy test all clear letter) delivered to bed

Full English

Surprise Track Day (1st of a monthly set of 12), paid for by her ! (This is the key one that replaces Surprise Baby, the rest of the day should always be similar)

Return to clean and tidy house and a brand new XBOX 360, huge LCD telly and a selection of car brochures to chose a new one from.

Half an hours peace for a tommy tank

No Scoobynetters arent all mummys boy, Grant Mitchell, Staff owning, gold chain wearing, pikey Chavmeisters who spend all day on the internet, well they are but I will have half an hour to see whats going on, I dont know why, I just do, get over it.

Crate of lagers, selection of the finest, not the cheapest she could find, no Carling isn't alright. Yes drinking from the can does make me look hard and cool, absolutely not Chavvy or common.

Selection of manly DVD's from Blockbusters, go on sneak a girly one in if you feel better about it.

A ****, 'grass freshly mown', not too much effort on his part (tired after track day)

More lager

No revelations about pregnancies, or what is happening in Love Island, we dont care !

Curry, ordered by her, delivered and dished up by her and accompanied by another beer, yes I am having another thanks.

Long conversation about his talents and why he is so great, funny and my god thats a huge *****.

A ****, are you kidding, thats three pints already today, enough godammit, leave me alone Psycho Hose Beast.

Hold him tenderly in her arms for hous, nuzzling his neck and planting little gentle kisses all over him until he falls asleep in your arms, him returning the favour and both waking up in the same postion in the morning, aawww, like ****, bugger off to the other side of the bed missus while I fall into a deep sleep whilst snoring and farting and yes I can thrash about as much as I want and no my farts dont wake you up, no I cant go and check downstairs because you heard a noise, you go bitch, no I cant close the crack in the curtain get yo fat *** outta bed and do it yourself, if you havent locked your own car thats your problem......



Sorry, got carried away, was enjoying the fantasy.
Old 24 August 2006, 12:52 PM
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If I was him I'd kick the baby out of her. What a dispicable cow!
Old 24 August 2006, 12:54 PM
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Extremely selfish and that child doesn't deserve to be brought up into all this either

Can the boyfriend not fight fot his right not to be a father as it's something he doesn't want and take her to court and make her get an abortion?

(Just for the record, I don't agree with abortion, but I don't agree that he should be forced into being a father either)
Old 24 August 2006, 12:56 PM
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Old 24 August 2006, 12:57 PM
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Surely a swift abortion would solve all the problems?
Old 24 August 2006, 12:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Rabid
Surely a swift abortion would solve all the problems?
It might, but you may be a little too old now......... but anythings worth a try
Old 24 August 2006, 01:01 PM
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Originally Posted by DCI Gene Hunt
It might, but you may be a little too old now......... but anythings worth a try
We've already got the evidence in you what happens when abortions go wrong, gene. Let's not make the same mistake twice.
Old 24 August 2006, 01:02 PM
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@ Jacko
Old 24 August 2006, 01:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Rabid
We've already got the evidence in you what happens when abortions go wrong, gene. Let's not make the same mistake twice.
Too late......... you were born
Old 24 August 2006, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by sociopath
In the words of Bob Marley's 'I shot the Sheriff':

"Kill it before it grows."

Old 24 August 2006, 01:06 PM
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We can but hope Nice one JACKO
Old 24 August 2006, 01:07 PM
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Originally Posted by DCI Gene Hunt
Too late......... you were born

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Old 24 August 2006, 01:26 PM
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Women like her give the rest of us a bad name. I'm staggered that someone could be so selfish and soooo dumb
Old 24 August 2006, 01:44 PM
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Poor bloody kid. Minus 8 months old and the "truth" about his existence and the likelyhood of a fatherless childhood is already being discussed
Old 24 August 2006, 01:48 PM
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I think we have a consensus.

Get your pal down the clinic ASAP !
Old 24 August 2006, 01:49 PM
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Originally Posted by sarasquares
definately not mine. she got herself pregnant cos the relationship was nearly over and has admitted that she thought she would be able to win him back with a supprise baby. he has always said he didnt ever want children and she was on the pill, but she stopped taking it without asking him first and got pregnant. she now knows that she has got no chance of having a relationship with him and wants to do the right thing. she wont have an abortion, she wants the baby.
surely if you are tricked into something and it can be proved a statement or something would work
Why do women think having a child will change anything?
- Statistically it makes you more likely to spilt up .....
Old 24 August 2006, 01:49 PM
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Why not show her this thread as well
Old 24 August 2006, 01:50 PM
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Originally Posted by MadMark
Why do women think having a child will change anything?
- Statistically, you're likely to spilt .....
Edited for accuracy

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Old 24 August 2006, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by New_scooby_04
Edited for accuracy

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C&A?
Old 24 August 2006, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by jasey
btw "unwanted baby (not mine!!) " Are you in denial

No, but she's quite close to dethames



Sorry
Old 24 August 2006, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Karl 227
No, but she's quite close to dethames



Sorry
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