goota laugh or i will cry - relationship rant
25 August 2006, 01:33 PM
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cheers for the words of wisom
the past few months have mostly been downers her going out on her own me going out on my own
probably for the best - keep telling myself that and i may start to believe it
should have listened to my longest stand mate of 20+ years
he said 3 years ago be fore me and mrs got serious that it was gonna fail.
oh well he works in ST marteen near antiga (cant spell)
so that plan is take a month out and go visit him
oh and a secs unit for the car ;-)
might just go and replace my old motorbike with a nice shiney new one too.
the past few months have mostly been downers her going out on her own me going out on my own
probably for the best - keep telling myself that and i may start to believe it
should have listened to my longest stand mate of 20+ years
he said 3 years ago be fore me and mrs got serious that it was gonna fail.
oh well he works in ST marteen near antiga (cant spell)
so that plan is take a month out and go visit him
oh and a secs unit for the car ;-)
might just go and replace my old motorbike with a nice shiney new one too.
25 August 2006, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by cnewboult
in short the mrs of 7 years left me yesterday
left a note on the living room mirror!!!!!
posetive anlge - more money to spend on scooby ;-)
seriously though am gutted
sorry if seems random but hurting at mo.
left a note on the living room mirror!!!!!
posetive anlge - more money to spend on scooby ;-)
seriously though am gutted
sorry if seems random but hurting at mo.
What a coincidence, eh
Seriously though, feel sorry for you mate. Best thing to do is go out tonight with some mates, have a few beer's and pick up some younger better looking girl. You'll feel better
25 August 2006, 01:45 PM
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Originally Posted by cnewboult
might try the older woman thing for a bit ;-)
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25 August 2006, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted by New_scooby_04
Surely the worst mistake you made was marrying the girl in the first place OR at least taping over the Honeymoon vid with Match of the Day!!!
Ns04
OR at least taping over the Honeymoon vid with Match of the Day!!! Ns04
isnt hindsight great !!!
wished i had taped over the video with MOTD
in the bin it went...
25 August 2006, 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by cnewboult
cheers for the words of wisom
the past few months have mostly been downers her going out on her own me going out on my own
the past few months have mostly been downers her going out on her own me going out on my own
You will eventually realise you have had a lucky escape, all I can say is sorry to hear your news, but enjoy your new toys and holiday that you are going to be getting/having!!
25 August 2006, 02:26 PM
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Originally Posted by SwissTony
No marrying her wasnt my worst mistake, best(ish) day of my life so far, and I have two cracking sons to show for it.
isnt hindsight great !!!
wished i had taped over the video with MOTD
in the bin it went...
isnt hindsight great !!!
wished i had taped over the video with MOTD
in the bin it went...
Ns04
25 August 2006, 02:29 PM
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I had a DVD of my marrage. Became a great coffee mat and frisbee
Seriously. As you can tell your not the first and wont be the last. It happens for a reason. Keep a stiff upper lip chap
Isnit time we had a personal advice section to help fellow netters with personal problems?
Seriously. As you can tell your not the first and wont be the last. It happens for a reason. Keep a stiff upper lip chap
Isnit time we had a personal advice section to help fellow netters with personal problems?
25 August 2006, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted by watto52
I had a DVD of my marrage. Became a great coffee mat and frisbee
Seriously. As you can tell your not the first and wont be the last. It happens for a reason. Keep a stiff upper lip chap
Isnit time we had a personal advice section to help fellow netters with personal problems?
Seriously. As you can tell your not the first and wont be the last. It happens for a reason. Keep a stiff upper lip chap
Isnit time we had a personal advice section to help fellow netters with personal problems?
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25 August 2006, 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted by watto52
Isnit time we had a personal advice section to laugh at fellow netters with personal problems?
25 August 2006, 03:33 PM
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Originally Posted by cnewboult
oh well he works in ST marteen near antiga (cant spell)
so that plan is take a month out and go visit him
oh and a secs unit for the car ;-)
might just go and replace my old motorbike with a nice shiney new one too.
so that plan is take a month out and go visit him
oh and a secs unit for the car ;-)
might just go and replace my old motorbike with a nice shiney new one too.
25 August 2006, 05:09 PM
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Probably the first women to post on here but I really feel for you. It must have come as such a shock. I hope you feel better soon and the trip away to see your friend sounds like a good idea.
I know relationships end everyday but what would be nice is if people were a bit moe honest and upfront about it, i think leaving a note is guttless, she should have talked to you and explained the situation.
oh well , as they say plenty more fish in the sea , have a good time and enjoy yourself.
Gem
I know relationships end everyday but what would be nice is if people were a bit moe honest and upfront about it, i think leaving a note is guttless, she should have talked to you and explained the situation.
oh well , as they say plenty more fish in the sea , have a good time and enjoy yourself.
Gem
25 August 2006, 10:23 PM
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what a bitch theres no need for that suppose it could of been worse she could of done it by txt eh! i hope you feel better soon a few good nights on the lash sounds like a good idea if she's left any clothes go and cut them up that would help too.
look after number one xx
look after number one
xx
25 August 2006, 10:39 PM
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I do feel for you.
In some situations you have to look at it from both sides though. I once had to leave the home I shared with a partner and left a note. I wasn't being gutless; I just knew he would physically stop me from leaving - when that was the one thing I could do that was best for both of us. I already had his hand print bruised round the top of my arm which work mates noticed earlier that week and encouraged me to leave; no way was I putting myself in a situation for another! I went back home that week.
Fair enough he hates my guts now - but you can bet your bottom dollar he is a hell of a lot happier now, as am I!
By no means am I saying that's what happened with you. But sometimes it's for the best to finish it quietly and both of you to get on with your lives. Maybe you need some proper closure - give it time, you'll get it.
In some situations you have to look at it from both sides though. I once had to leave the home I shared with a partner and left a note. I wasn't being gutless; I just knew he would physically stop me from leaving - when that was the one thing I could do that was best for both of us. I already had his hand print bruised round the top of my arm which work mates noticed earlier that week and encouraged me to leave; no way was I putting myself in a situation for another! I went back home that week.
Fair enough he hates my guts now - but you can bet your bottom dollar he is a hell of a lot happier now, as am I!
By no means am I saying that's what happened with you. But sometimes it's for the best to finish it quietly and both of you to get on with your lives. Maybe you need some proper closure - give it time, you'll get it.
25 August 2006, 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Apparition
There's always Two ...yes 2 sides to every story.
Yve
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Why I wanted to know what was written on that fateful note.
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25 August 2006, 10:44 PM
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Originally Posted by Fuzz
Why I wanted to know what was written on that fateful note.
Andy
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26 August 2006, 04:05 AM
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Originally Posted by skyline gtr v
wish my wife would f off. she is loco
been telling her to fooook off years but she,s like a bad smell that just won,t go so i have to resort to workin away, Don,t know how lucky you are to be rid lads,STOPAnd starting havin 
