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Old 05 September 2006, 11:19 AM
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Originally Posted by DCI Gene Hunt
Not at all.................
Old 05 September 2006, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
i have a very low self esteem, but i believe i am witty and funny and very honest.

but its always the.....i want to be friends thing..................

btw guys.... don't believe the girls play with their hair thing is interested in you....everyone i chat to play with their hair...it means nothing.....they probably got nits
If you go with the intention of just being friendly then you will only ever be friends with them. you have to make your intentions clear.... although dropping your kecks and say "suck on this luv" may be going a bit far
Old 05 September 2006, 11:25 AM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
i have a very low self esteem, but i believe i am witty and funny and very honest.

but its always the.....i want to be friends thing..................

btw guys.... don't believe the girls play with their hair thing is interested in you....everyone i chat to play with their hair...it means nothing.....they probably got nits
Maybe they are winding it into a noose
Old 05 September 2006, 11:29 AM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
If you go with the intention of just being friendly then you will only ever be friends with them. you have to make your intentions clear.... although dropping your kecks and say "suck on this luv" may be going a bit far


btw anyone got advice on first date tips (my last gf was a best friend first so it weren't a date)

so NEVER ever dated.

i asked a friend is a peck on the cheek ok?
she said yes, i asked what does the hands do. by my side ??????
she said grab her ****...... i think shes taking the urine
Old 05 September 2006, 11:31 AM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
i have a very low self esteem, but i believe i am witty and funny and very honest.

but its always the.....i want to be friends thing..................

btw guys.... don't believe the girls play with their hair thing is interested in you....everyone i chat to play with their hair...it means nothing.....they probably got nits
It's when they play with your hair that you know they're interested. To be honest, most girls will dish out mixed signals when you flirt with them....that's just the way they are imo.
Old 05 September 2006, 11:32 AM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
btw anyone got advice on first date tips (my last gf was a best friend first so it weren't a date)

so NEVER ever dated.

i asked a friend is a peck on the cheek ok?
she said yes, i asked what does the hands do. by my side ??????
she said grab her ****...... i think shes taking the urine
Jeez you really are clueless arnt you nothing wrong with touching somebody you know, obviously dont go overboard, how about something simple like placing you hands on her hips or arms, it should come natural rather than your hands behind your back going for a peck looking like your scared of contact with girls
Old 05 September 2006, 11:33 AM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
btw anyone got advice on first date tips (my last gf was a best friend first so it weren't a date)

so NEVER ever dated.

i asked a friend is a peck on the cheek ok?
she said yes, i asked what does the hands do. by my side ??????
she said grab her ****...... i think shes taking the urine
It's not painting by numbers. you have to respond to the feedback you're getting. If you're ahving a laugh on the date or make a cheeky comment where maybe you put your hand on hers and give it a friendly squeeze or even her leg it can help break down that in visible pysical barrier that people start with.

PS I'm single so maybe don't listen to me
Old 05 September 2006, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
Men are only friends with women as they hope in the future there could be more to it. FACT!
Worse thing was mate. She bloody snogged me in the pub.
Old 05 September 2006, 11:34 AM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
Jeez you really are clueless arnt you nothing wrong with touching somebody you know, obviously dont go overboard, how about something simple like placing you hands on her hips or arms, it should come natural rather than your hands behind your back going for a peck looking like your scared of contact with girls
If she jangles her keys she's interested. When it comes to the kiss you lean in 8 tenths and let her come the rest of the way.
Old 05 September 2006, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
btw anyone got advice on first date tips (my last gf was a best friend first so it weren't a date)

so NEVER ever dated.

i asked a friend is a peck on the cheek ok?
she said yes, i asked what does the hands do. by my side ??????
she said grab her ****...... i think shes taking the urine
On a first date I'd advise no touching! Be polite, a little peck on the cheek when you first meet, opening of doors etc, peck on the cheek when the dates over but you don't want to come across being sleazy!!.. Thats the way I like it for the first couple of dates!!..

Carla..
Old 05 September 2006, 11:35 AM
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Originally Posted by watto52
Worse thing was mate. She bloody snogged me in the pub.
If youve already done the snogging thing do you really think shes expecting a peck at the end of a proper date? By then she'll probably be happy with another snog or she'll have had enough of you and want rid
Old 05 September 2006, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
If she jangles her keys she's interested. When it comes to the kiss you lean in 8 tenths and let her come the rest of the way.
LOL ... somebody been watching Hitch
Old 05 September 2006, 11:49 AM
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Originally Posted by T4molie
LOL ... somebody been watching Hitch
Old 05 September 2006, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted by wwp8
btw anyone got advice on first date tips (my last gf was a best friend first so it weren't a date)

so NEVER ever dated.

i asked a friend is a peck on the cheek ok?
she said yes, i asked what does the hands do. by my side ??????
she said grab her ****...... i think shes taking the urine
First dates are always a bit difficult but that's ony because you are thinking that before you go on the first date, just relax and enjoy the time you will know how things are going, a peck on the cheek is always a good start. if she pulls away quickly after the peck on the cheek then just leave it at that but if she pulls away slowly and looks at you straight in the eyes then maybe a bit more would be acceptable, also just place a hand lightly on the upper arm when you go in for the kiss and let the other person lead .

If it goes wrong blame watto !!
Old 05 September 2006, 11:51 AM
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Originally Posted by T4molie
LOL ... somebody been watching Hitch
excellent film
Old 05 September 2006, 12:00 PM
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if she does let you snog her at the end of the date, you could try going one stage further by asking what she wants for breakfast and at what time. If she tells you then just say goodnight and go but then get up really early the next morning and make said breakfast and then give her a knock and tell her breakfast is served.
Old 05 September 2006, 12:01 PM
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Or ask her how she'd like her eggs in he morning, fried or fertilised?
Old 05 September 2006, 12:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Karl 227
Or ask her how she'd like her eggs in he morning, fried or fertilised?
who said romance is dead
Old 05 September 2006, 12:03 PM
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Originally Posted by jaytc2003
if she does let you snog her at the end of the date, you could try going one stage further by asking what she wants for breakfast and at what time. If she tells you then just say goodnight and go but then get up really early the next morning and make said breakfast and then give her a knock and tell her breakfast is served.
could you really be arsed though?
Old 05 September 2006, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by jaytc2003
if she does let you snog her at the end of the date, you could try going one stage further by asking what she wants for breakfast and at what time. If she tells you then just say goodnight and go but then get up really early the next morning and make said breakfast and then give her a knock and tell her breakfast is served.
Poor start IMO, your giving yourself something to live up to I reckon, something she'd be expecting from you which you may not be ar$ed keeping up
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Originally Posted by Kyl3cook
who said romance is dead
Romance .......oh god yeah forgot that may get involved some where along the way
Old 05 September 2006, 12:05 PM
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Originally Posted by scoobynutta555
You'll meet freaks anywhere, not just online.
Old 05 September 2006, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted by orchid35
Romance .......oh god yeah forgot that may get involved some where along the way
Ive forgotton what that is
Old 05 September 2006, 12:06 PM
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Originally Posted by davegtt
Poor start IMO, your giving yourself something to live up to I reckon, something she'd be expecting from you which you may not be ar$ed keeping up
I think most women would find it freaky and run a mile (rightly so!). The ones that found it 'sweet' are mostly bunnies boilers and best avoided.
Old 05 September 2006, 12:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Karl 227
Or ask her how she'd like her eggs in he morning, fried or fertilised?
Old 05 September 2006, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Apparition
Rioja :


Be careful.... I met my husband through the net. He's definately REAL !
Yve
Real, what he downloaded himself, now plays your mp3's and couldnt be uninstalled.
Old 05 September 2006, 12:25 PM
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Originally Posted by watto52
Ive forgotton what that is
yu've forgotten a lot of things !!!
Old 05 September 2006, 12:26 PM
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Perhaps you could get Poor Guy to have a sex change and hook up with him/her as he's having the same problem !
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
I think most women would find it freaky and run a mile (rightly so!). The ones that found it 'sweet' are mostly bunnies boilers and best avoided.
He's quite right, bunnie boilers are best avoided ! can cause huge probs same with stalkers as well
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Originally Posted by J4CKO
Perhaps you could get Poor Guy to have a sex change and hook up with him/her as he's having the same problem !



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