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Old 27 September 2006, 01:22 PM
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Originally Posted by WR1Nikki
i left him coz he cheated on me and i saw him last night in a bar whilst out with mates, he was tellin me how much he loved me and that he wanted me back and when i said i didn't want to get back with him ive moved on he and his mates started callin me a slag and a scrubber and **** like that, he was like jekyl and hyde!
Easy to explain:

He cheated on you; he's in the wrong and knows it (at some level prob feels like a bit of a ****). You knocked him back and have therefore dented his ego.

By slagging you off, he can demean you so the rejection doesnt hurt as much AND feel a bit better about being a cheating A**hole at the same time!

If you have a WR1 maybe he's just a bit gutted at loosing that in his life too!

Chin up love, you deserve better!

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Old 27 September 2006, 01:24 PM
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You forgot your phone number NS_04
Old 27 September 2006, 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted by lightning101
You forgot your phone number NS_04
harsh !!!
Old 27 September 2006, 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by lightning101
You forgot your phone number NS_04


It was the "chin up" bit that caught your attention wasn't it??

No strings attached to my counsel at the moment, although I'm thinking of charging sexual favours; I'm always the "nice guy" who picks up the pieces after the girl has bonked yet another eejet!

That's just not right, are you with me guys????
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Er, guys?????
Old 27 September 2006, 01:30 PM
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Get some pics up Nikki

The sharks need to know what they are working with
Old 27 September 2006, 01:31 PM
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No point me replying unless we know what you look like. Most birds on SN are complete dogs with the exception of 2 or 3.
Old 27 September 2006, 01:33 PM
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Wow making the lady feel much better about herself

Nikki ignore the idiots and most of the advice posted, you know the score and who you are
Old 27 September 2006, 01:36 PM
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Originally Posted by alloy
Wow making the lady feel much better about herself

Nikki ignore the idiots and most of the advice posted, you know the score and who you are
Oi!! Check my post out!!!

STi 04 names and pics please!!!!
Old 27 September 2006, 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
No point me replying unless we know what you look like. Most birds on SN are complete dogs with the exception of 2 or 3.
You are on very dangerous ground here.
Old 27 September 2006, 01:41 PM
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Originally Posted by SJ_Skyline
You are on very dangerous ground here.
I agree there just isn't any female talent on SN...........

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Old 27 September 2006, 01:45 PM
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Nikki, do your best to brush his comments off, they will last a while though (I know).

Get on with your life and have a good time (but not too good..lol) finding the right guy.
Old 27 September 2006, 01:47 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicci
Nikki, do your best to brush his comments off, they will last a while though (I know).

Get on with your life and have a good time (but not too good..lol) finding the right guy.
No such thing as the right guy/gal, just the right car. Sounds like she's sorted in that respect!!!

Ns04
Old 27 September 2006, 01:50 PM
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This bird could be a bunny boiling freak for all you know.... her ex may have had a good reason to cheat. Lets get the fact sfirst before all telling her it will be Ok..

Nikki have you got big tats and do you shave your ******?
Old 27 September 2006, 01:54 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
This bird could be a bunny boiling freak for all you know....
Maybe, BUT she has a nice car!! A girl in a scooby is cool IMHO!

But please: DON'T PAINT IT PINK!!!!!!!!

Ns04
Old 27 September 2006, 01:57 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
This bird could be a bunny boiling freak for all you know.... her ex may have had a good reason to cheat. Lets get the fact sfirst before all telling her it will be Ok..

Nikki have you got big tats and do you shave your ******?
****
Old 27 September 2006, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by alloy
****
She aint gonna want to **** you cause you kiss her **** on here and tell her you have an Impreza
Old 27 September 2006, 02:00 PM
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Originally Posted by alloy
****
Quite right!!!
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The use of the word '******' and reference to "bunny boiling" is inappropriate for a public BBS
Old 27 September 2006, 02:01 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
This bird could be a bunny boiling freak for all you know.... her ex may have had a good reason to cheat. Lets get the fact sfirst before all telling her it will be Ok..

Nikki have you got big tats and do you shave your ******?
Cheating is cheating, not matter which way you look at it -

It's not right
It's not big
It's not clever

Talk about a confidence knock, added to the rough comments on here........

Nikki - Keep your chin up, sounds like your better off without him TBH
Old 27 September 2006, 02:03 PM
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I think she's sulking somewhere........ probably in technical........
Old 27 September 2006, 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted by RMA26

Nikki - Keep your chin up, sounds like your better off without him TBH
Woa!! Uncanny!! (See above)
Old 27 September 2006, 02:07 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
She aint gonna want to **** you cause you kiss her **** on here and tell her you have an Impreza
no but shes a good friend of mine and a better person than most on here. IF you can't be constructive then **** off back to play school. There's banter and theres being nasty, hurting someones feelings makes you feel good about yourself does it? Must be a big man then you ****ing *****
Old 27 September 2006, 02:09 PM
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Originally Posted by RMA26
Cheating is cheating, not matter which way you look at it -

It's not right
It's not big
It's not clever

Talk about a confidence knock, added to the rough comments on here........

Nikki - Keep your chin up, sounds like your better off without him TBH
Maybe she'd cheated on him in the past and he's just getting his own back? Maybe he's cheated on her with her young and better locking sister? In which case both are a perfectly good reason
Old 27 September 2006, 02:10 PM
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Originally Posted by alloy
no but shes a good friend of mine and a better person than most on here. IF you can't be constructive then **** off back to play school. There's banter and theres being nasty, hurting someones feelings makes you feel good about yourself does it? Must be a big man then you ****ing *****
good friend.....so you fancy her then? men and women can not just be mates so either she's fancied you in the past or you fancy her? I'd say the latter based on your agressive replies.
Old 27 September 2006, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
good friend.....so you fancy her then? men and women can not just be mates so either she's fancied you in the past or you fancy her? I'd say the latter based on your agressive replies.
such a lot to learn my friend
Old 27 September 2006, 02:17 PM
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Originally Posted by New_scooby_04
Easy to explain:

He cheated on you; he's in the wrong and knows it (at some level prob feels like a bit of a ****). You knocked him back and have therefore dented his ego.

By slagging you off, he can demean you so the rejection doesnt hurt as much AND feel a bit better about being a cheating A**hole at the same time!

If you have a WR1 maybe he's just a bit gutted at loosing that in his life too!

Chin up love, you deserve better!

Ns04
Jeeze people, can we leave it at the above and not resort to name calling etc..

Ns04
Old 27 September 2006, 02:19 PM
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Old 27 September 2006, 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted by alloy
such a lot to learn my friend
knocked you back then did she?
Old 27 September 2006, 02:32 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
knocked you back then did she?
can we get back on thread topic pls guys?
Old 27 September 2006, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by RMA26
can we get back on thread topic pls guys?
This could have a happy ending.... He fancies Nikki.... she's single.... both like Scoobs.
Old 27 September 2006, 02:37 PM
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Originally Posted by STi wanna Subaru
This could have a happy ending.... He fancies Nikki.... she's single.... both like Scoobs.
happy ending involves a SN without you so we can have a community where people can offer help, not rip others apart



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