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24 May 2007, 01:14 PM
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Fair enough. Don't feel bad for what you did. It could go either way, either it'll pull you closer together or it'll drive you apart - only time will tell. We all do very, very stupid things when drunk and it does sound as though she's genuinely remorseful. Draw a line under it, wipe the tears away and move on. Hope it works out for you.
24 May 2007, 01:15 PM
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I know some of you will tell me that I have done the wrong thing, how she is only lying again but again I emphasise the fact that I know that girl better than anyone and its a lot easier to give advise when its not you in the situation.
Have some respect for yourself....
Genuinely hope it works out for you both....but not optimistic
24 May 2007, 01:19 PM
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Seriously, while you can .....enjoy life to the full..... as nobody stays together forever, so be prepared for it, as it WILL happen one day
And the scoobynet massive will be here to let you know "We feckin told you so...."
24 May 2007, 01:21 PM
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How can you be so sure? From the way i read it, she was guilt-ridden - hardly the sign of somebody who was knowingly being a bitch. Very very few blokes can hand on heart say they haven't done similar things, even if it's chatting up the barmaid etc - i think the girl deserves a break. If the guy she texted means more to her than she's letting on it will all out in the end, but at the moment this isn't a clear cut dumping situation, far from it.
24 May 2007, 01:22 PM
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best of luck mate, its your choice.
hope everything works out for you.
by the way, you have your brown wings, now is a good time to push for a threesome with another woman...
hope everything works out for you.
by the way, you have your brown wings, now is a good time to push for a threesome with another woman...
24 May 2007, 01:23 PM
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There is a product available that when sprayed onto the gusset of womens knickers , will readly change colour if semen is present.
It does mean rummaging around in the laundry basket and if caught you could be targeted as a knicker sniffer , but that is a risk that may be worth taking to get to the truth.
It does mean rummaging around in the laundry basket and if caught you could be targeted as a knicker sniffer , but that is a risk that may be worth taking to get to the truth.
24 May 2007, 01:25 PM
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There is a product available that when sprayed onto the gusset of womens knickers , will readly change colour if semen is present.
It does mean rummaging around in the laundry basket and if caught you could be targeted as a knicker sniffer , but that is a risk that may be worth taking to get to the truth.
It does mean rummaging around in the laundry basket and if caught you could be targeted as a knicker sniffer , but that is a risk that may be worth taking to get to the truth.
24 May 2007, 01:26 PM
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There is a product available that when sprayed onto the gusset of womens knickers , will readly change colour if semen is present.
It does mean rummaging around in the laundry basket and if caught you could be targeted as a knicker sniffer , but that is a risk that may be worth taking to get to the truth.
It does mean rummaging around in the laundry basket and if caught you could be targeted as a knicker sniffer , but that is a risk that may be worth taking to get to the truth.
24 May 2007, 01:32 PM
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My grandparents have been together forever and so's Gav's and I'm sure many other people's parents/grandparents have too!!
24 May 2007, 01:32 PM
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If the guy she texted means more to her than she's letting on it will all out in the end, but at the moment this isn't a clear cut dumping situation, far from it.
She sounds needy and an emotional mess which from my 'considerable' (nothing I'm proud of) experience of such girls tends to create a huge conflict of their loyalty and their need for love that for some fecked up reason they feel they never got from their parents. Hence they crave that love and attention from elsewhere...
They also tend be the best in bed...................... initially ...
I've only skimmed read this as I can't be arsed as sadly .... I know the outcome already
Accident waiting to happen = FACT
Good old dependable doormat of a boyfriend who is always there as her emotional rock but is the inevitable 'Bloody Mary that is lacking in Tabasco'. She sounds like she needs and thrives on having new attention from elsewhere. This is unlikely to change.
Find another type
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24 May 2007, 01:39 PM
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) it will happen one day.......
24 May 2007, 01:42 PM
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Still not sure, SiPie. I reckon this has been caught at an early enough stage (assuming the text sex is as far as it's gone) to save it. There's no hiding from the situation now, and she's going to have to face up to what she really wants, preferably sooner rather than later. It'll be obvious if it's been relationship ending within a month or so, i reckon.
24 May 2007, 01:47 PM
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24 May 2007, 01:48 PM
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Still not sure, SiPie. I reckon this has been caught at an early enough stage (assuming the text sex is as far as it's gone) to save it. There's no hiding from the situation now, and she's going to have to face up to what she really wants, preferably sooner rather than later. It'll be obvious if it's been relationship ending within a month or so, i reckon.
It's just there are (believe it or not!!!) plenty of lovely balanced (relatively) women out there and through wasting many years of my life on the feckin nutters, you are best to carry on to find one of the saner and lest fecked up variety
24 May 2007, 01:49 PM
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24 May 2007, 01:49 PM
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Still not sure, SiPie. I reckon this has been caught at an early enough stage (assuming the text sex is as far as it's gone) to save it. There's no hiding from the situation now, and she's going to have to face up to what she really wants, preferably sooner rather than later. It'll be obvious if it's been relationship ending within a month or so, i reckon.
24 May 2007, 01:50 PM
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lol, i can feel your pain, SiPie!! What i'm saying though, is that this girl hasn't done anything that millions of wimmin haven't done before her, but at least it's (appranently) chewed her up inside. Whether that makes her think "hold on, there must be something missing from what i have" or "Jesus, what a stupid cow i've been" remains to be seen.
24 May 2007, 01:52 PM
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24 May 2007, 02:00 PM
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