New girlfriend and unfavourable habit :-(
21 June 2008, 09:45 PM
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21 June 2008, 09:50 PM
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.No i reckon your *** is slim,hot and sexy..but better post me a pic,just so i can be sure..
21 June 2008, 09:52 PM
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21 June 2008, 09:57 PM
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To the OP, I'm not going to ramble on condoning or condeming drugs, it's pointless. The simple fact here, is you have an issue with drug taking, and unless you get over that, or you become her knight in shining armour and 'fix' her, you are going to be in for a hard life with her (no pun 
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She has lied, or been conservative with the truth early within the relationship, and that for me would put me off, but ultimately it's your choice what path you take.
Using drugs may not necesarily make someone a bad person, but the issue here is compatability. She could be lovely, but she has a habit you have a fairly major issue with, and if let to go, will most likely end in tears. The issue here is drugs, but it is not worlds apart from couples having major differences in hobbies/attitudes/beliefs etc, they can often take over the good stuff, and destroy a relationship, sooner or later.
)She has lied, or been conservative with the truth early within the relationship, and that for me would put me off, but ultimately it's your choice what path you take.
Using drugs may not necesarily make someone a bad person, but the issue here is compatability. She could be lovely, but she has a habit you have a fairly major issue with, and if let to go, will most likely end in tears. The issue here is drugs, but it is not worlds apart from couples having major differences in hobbies/attitudes/beliefs etc, they can often take over the good stuff, and destroy a relationship, sooner or later.
21 June 2008, 10:09 PM
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21 June 2008, 10:14 PM
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If you believe you can do something about it with her,and you like her enough then stay with it..People you meet for the first,second,third,fourth,time,are not always gonna tell you there life history,although she has some what.so she has been conservative about the truth,so what.it's early days..just roll with it,and know you can walk away at anytime,ASLONG as you dont become too attached to her..Are you the kind of guy that can just suck it up and walk away,if it goes baboons *** up..
21 June 2008, 10:18 PM
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Oh I know the difference, nothing like seeing a "highly paid skilled" person sniffing Coke of a toilet seat, spending all night trying to tell you what they have been up to without actually telling you, drinking themselves stupid at the same time and then having three days off work.
I know the score, I am not that anti but I am even less pro as it turns people into annoying gibbering ***** who think they are in some big secret naughty club.
I know the score, I am not that anti but I am even less pro as it turns people into annoying gibbering ***** who think they are in some big secret naughty club.
wtf you on about? pmsl...
I can definetely tell you've never touched the stuff because you don't know what the fvk your talking about yourself mi old.
21 June 2008, 10:18 PM
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maybe i show you mine
21 June 2008, 10:20 PM
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To the OP, I'm not going to ramble on condoning or condeming drugs, it's pointless. The simple fact here, is you have an issue with drug taking, and unless you get over that, or you become her knight in shining armour and 'fix' her, you are going to be in for a hard life with her (no pun )
She has lied, or been conservative with the truth early within the relationship, and that for me would put me off, but ultimately it's your choice what path you take.
Using drugs may not necesarily make someone a bad person, but the issue here is compatability. She could be lovely, but she has a habit you have a fairly major issue with, and if let to go, will most likely end in tears. The issue here is drugs, but it is not worlds apart from couples having major differences in hobbies/attitudes/beliefs etc, they can often take over the good stuff, and destroy a relationship, sooner or later.
)She has lied, or been conservative with the truth early within the relationship, and that for me would put me off, but ultimately it's your choice what path you take.
Using drugs may not necesarily make someone a bad person, but the issue here is compatability. She could be lovely, but she has a habit you have a fairly major issue with, and if let to go, will most likely end in tears. The issue here is drugs, but it is not worlds apart from couples having major differences in hobbies/attitudes/beliefs etc, they can often take over the good stuff, and destroy a relationship, sooner or later.
22 June 2008, 06:01 PM
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Been here, done that, got the T-shirt!
Make no mistake, Coke is a bad drug when it grips someone, she will lie more than you would ever believe to cover it up.
Don't waste your time, there are plenty of girls out there that don't come with a big **** off list of problems
Make no mistake, Coke is a bad drug when it grips someone, she will lie more than you would ever believe to cover it up.
Don't waste your time, there are plenty of girls out there that don't come with a big **** off list of problems
If the problems aren't evident at first, they will develop in time.
22 June 2008, 07:36 PM
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22 June 2008, 09:49 PM
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I have had some experience in the area, not a massive amount like yourself therefore I must defer to your superior knowledge of Class A substances and its users.
Coke is completely harmless and its users should be given Blue Peter badges.
22 June 2008, 10:35 PM
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why on earth would you want to carry on seeing this person, you obviously have high interest in this girl but it sounds like you are rationalising her behaviour because you like her a lot.
you can't change someone, she has a broken wing (figuratlvely speaking) and needs professional help, not a boyfriend.
do yourself a favour & move onto a new adventure my friend!
you can't change someone, she has a broken wing (figuratlvely speaking) and needs professional help, not a boyfriend.
do yourself a favour & move onto a new adventure my friend!
23 June 2008, 07:49 AM
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Coke is the socially inepts drug of choice. It turns them from insecure quiet / normal people to brash, annoying gob****es (although they think at the time they are cool when they're on it)...
It's more than the fact that she is a Class A drug user (which would be enough for most normal people to walk away). It is the fact that right from the off she is lying to you about it. Then, after lying, she is prepared to take it in your company!!
She has to go now. The lies are already occuring... Alas I hope you decide to buy her a one way ticket to dumpsville...
It's more than the fact that she is a Class A drug user (which would be enough for most normal people to walk away). It is the fact that right from the off she is lying to you about it. Then, after lying, she is prepared to take it in your company!!
She has to go now. The lies are already occuring... Alas I hope you decide to buy her a one way ticket to dumpsville...
23 June 2008, 09:32 AM
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Coke is nothing mate .... if she has a little sniff every now and then good for her... if shs starts to develop a habit kick her out.
Have to say though .. even the skanks I used to hang round didn't do coke..
lol @ applied it to her gum's
oh and coke wont calm your nerves....
Have to say though .. even the skanks I used to hang round didn't do coke..
lol @ applied it to her gum's
oh and coke wont calm your nerves....
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23 June 2008, 09:57 AM
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Or simply get her to snort lines off your ****!!!
ON a serious note..... I do not know her age or your age.... if I was 21 and she was then I would be more forgiving than I am now (31).
On this one I have a feeling she will not give it up no matter what you say. Problem is also you can never guarantee she has quit as there will always be times when she is around drug taking people.
I would calmly explain your reasons to her, wish her luck and then walk out the door (or kick her out if she is at your place)
ON a serious note..... I do not know her age or your age.... if I was 21 and she was then I would be more forgiving than I am now (31).
On this one I have a feeling she will not give it up no matter what you say. Problem is also you can never guarantee she has quit as there will always be times when she is around drug taking people.
I would calmly explain your reasons to her, wish her luck and then walk out the door (or kick her out if she is at your place)
