New_scooby_04

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To see if she's partial to the OTHER white stuff, presumably?

Leslie

You will find that her habit is likely to become your personal expense.

Les

New_scooby_04

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Are we still talking about a Coke habit, Les

Jay m A

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Tell Charles I'm on my way - Taxi!

stigaz

not read all of this post ,but does the girl have a habit like an alcaholic has with drink ,or does she use it like most people use alcahol ?
and remember alcahol is a much bigger problem health wise and family wrecking wise.

Spoon

^^^^^ No, throughout the whole thread there is no mention of her drinking drugs.

HTH.

stigaz

thanks spoon, edited .hope my point is a bit clearer for you now

Spoon

Using anything is so wrong, it should always be give and take.

stigaz

aye,the grug dealer gives it ,the user takes it

renny

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Just skipped through the thread so apologies if i've missed anything....

The fact it makes you feel uncomfortable at this early stage suggests to me you should get out before you become smitten,it obviously bothers you.

You'll fall for her more and it'll just eat away at you.

singledude

oh well, update to anyone who wanted to know how this turned out.

it's been on my mind for ages now but recently communications with her dropped off for some unknown reason as she stopped returning my calls and texts. Then i get a text one day to say she's got issues at work and was feeling ill hence the lacks of comms.

Following this I sent her another message (because she never takes voice calls!) to ask if she wants to draw our relationship to a close.
I just get this message back to say the same stuff about illness and work issues and that if I wanted to call it off then she would understand.

I decided to keep things amicable and wished her the best and hope things would turn out better for her.

Strange!

ScoobyWon't

Probably for the best. Plenty more fish in the sea etc.

Best of luck with the next victim

SiPie

Pile of utter pish.......I once drove 58 miles with a broken arm to see a girlfriend (ultra fit admittedly) so if you want to really do something, then you'll find a way to do it.....unless it was a clinical illness of her fingers, then I can't see how she couldn't at least send you a message......she knew you weren't interested in taking lines of coke all the time so sought solace in mates that did.....you don't matter to her at the moment.

Best out of it mate (as she probably is right now)

Plenty people that have either never dabbled or have grown out of it that are more deserving of your attention....

Good luck

mrtheedge2u2

tell her to snort the lines off your **** or you are gone!!

mrtheedge2u2

to be honest matey, i didnt read your final update................... best off out of it to be fair.... leave the druggies to the druggies

RJM25R

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End it. If you're asking (relative) strangers for advice, she's obvously not worth it.

cookstar

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Been there done that many times, as pointed out it will turn into your expense.

I know MANY people that are "weekend users" but that's bollox, and I know for a fact they have a little dabble most days.

jods

BIG - Care to elucidate for my edification?

Kieran_Burns

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If I remember rightly:

Find 'em
Feel 'em
F*ck 'em
Forget 'em