View Poll Results: Are you a cheater or not?
Yes I cheat(ed) on her/him.
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No I dont, or have done so ever
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30 July 2009, 11:16 AM
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It wouldn't bother me if someone cheated on me though.
Even if you are the most loyal person in the world you DO STILL fancy and find yourself attracted to other people - it's only natural. Obviously most people don't take it any further and stay loyal to their partners. If a girl i was with did take it further with someone else then i'd just know that she was morally lacking and be glad i found out. It would be the ultimate i'm better than you are situation.
Even if you are the most loyal person in the world you DO STILL fancy and find yourself attracted to other people - it's only natural. Obviously most people don't take it any further and stay loyal to their partners. If a girl i was with did take it further with someone else then i'd just know that she was morally lacking and be glad i found out. It would be the ultimate i'm better than you are situation.
30 July 2009, 11:44 AM
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Agreed Nat, can't stop someone from cheating if they really want to and then when you find out, you f*ck them off.
Anyway i've not cheated as such, only over-lapped a few casual things when I was single but was never commited to any of them and vice versa.
I miss being single sometimes i'll be honest.
Anyway i've not cheated as such, only over-lapped a few casual things when I was single but was never commited to any of them and vice versa.
I miss being single sometimes i'll be honest.
30 July 2009, 12:50 PM
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30 July 2009, 02:02 PM
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We both did before marriage, many moons ago, relationship was at breaking point at the time.
Best thing that could have happened to us as it proved the grass wasn't greener and made our relationship stronger.
Seven years on and now we are happily married.
I would not do it again.
Best thing that could have happened to us as it proved the grass wasn't greener and made our relationship stronger.
Seven years on and now we are happily married.
I would not do it again.
30 July 2009, 02:52 PM
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30 July 2009, 03:33 PM
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I was a right bad boy was I was younger 
Saw the errors of my ways ( well before I got caught anyway) and have been always faithful to all the hundreds of girlfriends
and one wife. Though I was nicely rewarded by the wife as she did the dirty on me so I know how it feels.
Current good lady knows I flirt but she also knows I am faithful so all good
Saw the errors of my ways ( well before I got caught anyway) and have been always faithful to all the hundreds of girlfriends
and one wife. Though I was nicely rewarded by the wife as she did the dirty on me so I know how it feels.Current good lady knows I flirt but she also knows I am faithful so all good
30 July 2009, 03:44 PM
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not so sure cheating is strictly the right phrase, but I've been extremely arogent and treated some women as very disposable.
very little patience for idiots/gold diggers too.
when I have settled with someone, treated them like a princess I suppose- until I got bored/distracted and time for a change.
very settled down, happy etc now though- intend to stay with the current mrs austin for life.
but oh boy you wouldn't have wanted me near yr sister/mother or girlfriend at one point.
very little patience for idiots/gold diggers too.
when I have settled with someone, treated them like a princess I suppose- until I got bored/distracted and time for a change.
very settled down, happy etc now though- intend to stay with the current mrs austin for life.
but oh boy you wouldn't have wanted me near yr sister/mother or girlfriend at one point.
30 July 2009, 07:48 PM
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Lol my mate got Married some months ago and the mrs will not let him out,he was grounded for the first 2 weeks..lmfao glad i can still play the field.Would never go with a girl who restricted my freedom anyway,as for cheating never had too...
30 July 2009, 08:59 PM
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I wouldn't say I've ever cheated, although it depends how you see it. I'm 22 and I've only had 1 what I'd call 'girlfriend'. I am quite a serious guy(lol) so don't bother wasting time with people I'm not interested in. I've seen plenty of girls but there's only 1 that I can say I've wanted to spend all my time with and I've never cheated on her.
But when I'm 'single' I usually see a few different girls at the same time.
But when I'm 'single' I usually see a few different girls at the same time.
30 July 2009, 09:03 PM
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Thought I would have a play, so put my picture up on a dating website ..... NOTHING! 
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I was swamped with offers then!
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31 July 2009, 09:21 AM
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No - if I'm sufficiently unfulfilled in a relationship that I need to bonk someone else, then it's time to get out of that situation.
I do, however, love what the now current governor of California was reputed to have said in his younger days to a press photographer when caught performing cunnilingus on a lady (who wasn't his wife) in the back of a car:
*Do this in a thick Austrian accent for the full effect*
"It's not cheating if you're eating"
Arnie: f*cking legend!
I do, however, love what the now current governor of California was reputed to have said in his younger days to a press photographer when caught performing cunnilingus on a lady (who wasn't his wife) in the back of a car:
*Do this in a thick Austrian accent for the full effect*
"It's not cheating if you're eating"
Arnie: f*cking legend!
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31 July 2009, 10:23 AM
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Never cheated myself, had it done to me by every other feckin snake, bar the one i am with now (i hope pmsl)
i would say 50% of my mates love to put it about!
I can flirt like a **** tho, but i would never bonk-behind-back
i would say 50% of my mates love to put it about!
I can flirt like a **** tho, but i would never bonk-behind-back
31 July 2009, 11:11 AM
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i have been a very bad boy in my past,
at the time i was living the life lol,
Then it turned into an
addiction and nearly ruined my life and relationship .
I even took professional help,
Now i have just found out my partner has been getting "close" to an old freind .
So its back to square 1 now ,
All i wanted to do was be settled ....HUH.
at the time i was living the life lol,
Then it turned into an
addiction and nearly ruined my life and relationship .
I even took professional help,
Now i have just found out my partner has been getting "close" to an old freind .
So its back to square 1 now ,
All i wanted to do was be settled ....HUH.