Women: more gay than men? Discuss...
10 December 2009, 01:08 PM
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I would like to say, similar to an ostrich sticking its head in the sand, but that would leave my **** in a prime *** landing position, so i will have to think of something else
10 December 2009, 01:15 PM
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I agree a threesome is a wonderful idea, but not when in a long term relationship.
I have dabbled with a female in the past, but I am far from a lesbian, more curious than anything else. Didn't particularly interest me, and I have to say that a threesome for me would HAVE to have two men.
Tel, I am sorry, about the thread killing issue. I just felt that things needed to be cleared up a little.
Personally I think that men are far more gay physically. a fair few (but not all) gay men dress rather flamboyantly, with star spangled belts and hair that looks like it has taken 3 hours to prepare and fix!
They smell like they have been spraying all the testers in the boots fragrance section , and they probably own severat items of clothing by Vivienne Westwood (yes she is a Gay ikon and you know who you are).
Gay women however, usually look the same as straight women. Yes we have the exceptions of what we could refer to as 'dykes' but then we have to think that many straight women like to dress rather manly with they boyfriend jeans and short hair.
BUT, on a larger scale, I find homosexual men a lot more 'gay' than homosexual women.
I have dabbled with a female in the past, but I am far from a lesbian, more curious than anything else. Didn't particularly interest me, and I have to say that a threesome for me would HAVE to have two men.
Tel, I am sorry, about the thread killing issue. I just felt that things needed to be cleared up a little.
Personally I think that men are far more gay physically. a fair few (but not all) gay men dress rather flamboyantly, with star spangled belts and hair that looks like it has taken 3 hours to prepare and fix!
They smell like they have been spraying all the testers in the boots fragrance section , and they probably own severat items of clothing by Vivienne Westwood (yes she is a Gay ikon and you know who you are).
Gay women however, usually look the same as straight women. Yes we have the exceptions of what we could refer to as 'dykes' but then we have to think that many straight women like to dress rather manly with they boyfriend jeans and short hair.
BUT, on a larger scale, I find homosexual men a lot more 'gay' than homosexual women.
The term my ex used was "played in the little leagues, but never went pro"
Although I am not entriely sure thats true as she spent a fair ammount of time "licking the cat flap" of various "friends"
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10 December 2009, 01:18 PM
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These type of girls are as much of a homosexual as I am a F1 Driver! For goodness sake, there is a name for that type of behavior. 'Lipstick Lesbians'.
They usually behave that way because they like to tease men, and in the long run leve them falling at their feet. I imagine that every straight woman is guilty of a bit of a fumble at some point.
Then there are women who just enjoy the company of a female, and find the 'not having to try' like you do with a man, they may not be done with men, more like, having a break Iyswim?
Then there are actual lesbians. They behave that way because that is who they are. They don't kiss in public for a reaction, they are simply sharing a moment with their partner.
I simply feel that men, be it gay straight or bi, know that us women will not be fooled by all the pretend flirting with each other. It doesn't tease us, or turn us on, or leave us 'gagging for it'. We understand that a gay man is simply that.
They cannot be and will not be 'turned', like some men feel they can with a gay woman. -- made perfect sense till this line
Women don't see it as a challenge. That is why men don't act up like that with their straight mates. If you thought it would help you get laid i'm sure you'd give you mates *** a bit of a squeeze, and tell the ladies you like a bit of the other! lol
It doesn't mean you actually like ****.
They usually behave that way because they like to tease men, and in the long run leve them falling at their feet. I imagine that every straight woman is guilty of a bit of a fumble at some point.
Then there are women who just enjoy the company of a female, and find the 'not having to try' like you do with a man, they may not be done with men, more like, having a break Iyswim?
Then there are actual lesbians. They behave that way because that is who they are. They don't kiss in public for a reaction, they are simply sharing a moment with their partner.
I simply feel that men, be it gay straight or bi, know that us women will not be fooled by all the pretend flirting with each other. It doesn't tease us, or turn us on, or leave us 'gagging for it'. We understand that a gay man is simply that.
They cannot be and will not be 'turned', like some men feel they can with a gay woman. -- made perfect sense till this line
Women don't see it as a challenge. That is why men don't act up like that with their straight mates. If you thought it would help you get laid i'm sure you'd give you mates *** a bit of a squeeze, and tell the ladies you like a bit of the other! lol
It doesn't mean you actually like ****.
10 December 2009, 02:16 PM
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I don't know about you people, but over the years I have met several normally straight girls, who after a few drinks have admitted that they would gladly spend the odd night of passion with another attractive woman. Of course, the circumstances would need to be right (a bit drunk, away from other nosey friends/family etc.), but they would certainly go through with it, and I can think of a fair few who have actually done so. Even some of those girls who would never actually sleep with another woman often lark about with a bit of drunken touchy-feely "foreplay" with their female friends such as holding hands and having the odd smooch for the camera-phone brigade in bars and clubs.
The vast majority of straight blokes just don't do this, do they?
It seems that many women are very open-minded about their sexuality and can appreciate the female form in a way that the majority of men like myself could never contemplate of our own sex.
What do you lot think?
The vast majority of straight blokes just don't do this, do they?
It seems that many women are very open-minded about their sexuality and can appreciate the female form in a way that the majority of men like myself could never contemplate of our own sex.
What do you lot think?
I can comment on a really pretty lady, will also say if someone has a good figure, but finding another woman sexually attractive nonononono
The male of the species has a much more attractive and interesting body.
It would never enter my head, even when drunk as a skunk, to be remotely interested in another woman.
10 December 2009, 05:31 PM
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What do we think. mmm. I always hug my mates, have the odd kiss on the cheek. Nothing in it whatsoever and certainly nothing gay.
I can comment on a really pretty lady, will also say if someone has a good figure, but finding another woman sexually attractive nonononono
The male of the species has a much more attractive and interesting body.
It would never enter my head, even when drunk as a skunk, to be remotely interested in another woman.
I can comment on a really pretty lady, will also say if someone has a good figure, but finding another woman sexually attractive nonononono
The male of the species has a much more attractive and interesting body.
It would never enter my head, even when drunk as a skunk, to be remotely interested in another woman.
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10 December 2009, 05:52 PM
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ah ah -- I was only joking
I was told a funny – apparently true story the other day
About a married couple going to Relate (Marriage Guidance)– they just kept arguing and arguing
The counsellor was getting more and more frustrated as the sessions were going nowhere until he finally said
“Look can we at least agree on some common ground – you must have something in common after all you have been married 15 years”
Yes the bloke said – “we both don’t like sucking ****”
I was told a funny – apparently true story the other day
About a married couple going to Relate (Marriage Guidance)– they just kept arguing and arguing
The counsellor was getting more and more frustrated as the sessions were going nowhere until he finally said
“Look can we at least agree on some common ground – you must have something in common after all you have been married 15 years”
Yes the bloke said – “we both don’t like sucking ****”
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10 December 2009, 08:39 PM
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They cannot be and will not be 'turned', like some men feel they can with a gay woman. -- made perfect sense till this line
I was basically saying that either sex cannot be made straight if they are gay. Some men simply feel they are man enough to turn a lesbian into a straight woman, women however, women just accept that gay people are gay.
Its the same type of thing where us ladies know that being a lesbian doesn't mean you go around attaching women for sex, yet men (who are probably sexually confused) back away from a gay man and make jokes like.... oooohhh don't drop the soap near Joe Bloggs!
All very silly really, but I am sure that you fellow SN-ers are well above all that type of childish and ignorant behavior.
I was basically saying that either sex cannot be made straight if they are gay. Some men simply feel they are man enough to turn a lesbian into a straight woman, women however, women just accept that gay people are gay.
Its the same type of thing where us ladies know that being a lesbian doesn't mean you go around attaching women for sex, yet men (who are probably sexually confused) back away from a gay man and make jokes like.... oooohhh don't drop the soap near Joe Bloggs!
All very silly really, but I am sure that you fellow SN-ers are well above all that type of childish and ignorant behavior.
10 December 2009, 10:22 PM
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They cannot be and will not be 'turned', like some men feel they can with a gay woman. -- made perfect sense till this line
I was basically saying that either sex cannot be made straight if they are gay. Some men simply feel they are man enough to turn a lesbian into a straight woman, women however, women just accept that gay people are gay.
Its the same type of thing where us ladies know that being a lesbian doesn't mean you go around attaching women for sex, yet men (who are probably sexually confused) back away from a gay man and make jokes like.... oooohhh don't drop the soap near Joe Bloggs!
All very silly really, but I am sure that you fellow SN-ers are well above all that type of childish and ignorant behavior.
I was basically saying that either sex cannot be made straight if they are gay. Some men simply feel they are man enough to turn a lesbian into a straight woman, women however, women just accept that gay people are gay.
Its the same type of thing where us ladies know that being a lesbian doesn't mean you go around attaching women for sex, yet men (who are probably sexually confused) back away from a gay man and make jokes like.... oooohhh don't drop the soap near Joe Bloggs!
All very silly really, but I am sure that you fellow SN-ers are well above all that type of childish and ignorant behavior.
10 December 2009, 11:53 PM
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ah ah -- I was only joking
I was told a funny – apparently true story the other day
About a married couple going to Relate (Marriage Guidance)– they just kept arguing and arguing
The counsellor was getting more and more frustrated as the sessions were going nowhere until he finally said
“Look can we at least agree on some common ground – you must have something in common after all you have been married 15 years”
Yes the bloke said – “we both don’t like sucking ****”
I was told a funny – apparently true story the other day
About a married couple going to Relate (Marriage Guidance)– they just kept arguing and arguing
The counsellor was getting more and more frustrated as the sessions were going nowhere until he finally said
“Look can we at least agree on some common ground – you must have something in common after all you have been married 15 years”
Yes the bloke said – “we both don’t like sucking ****”
