Dedrater

Wash your hands after.

oldsplice

I would definitely have a word with the husband. The stealing of the watering cans and stuff could also point towards dementia. At the care home my mum is in, they say it's best not to take in anything moveable, as residents tend to wander into other rooms and take stuff, thinking it's theirs.

Carkillerz

iTrader: (1)

Mate i could hiab mini and put it on her roof and not notice.

mickywrx

iTrader: (29)

We have a winner.

Leslie

I am really sorry to hear about your problems with this woman Corradoboy. You do find people who feel they have to bolster themselves and their lack of character up by being as objectionable as possible.

She sounds like the sort of person who will just get worse if you actively try to prevent her from doing all those things.

I agree with Dedrator, the best way may be to try to make friends with her, just say you are sorry things have developed in the wrong direction and that you would much prefer things to be on a friendly basis. Maybe even ask them both round for a quiet chat in order to solve any possible outstanding problems but putting your point of view forward in a diplomatic but firm manner.

It might just work, you might even become friends!

Its surprising how things can go through a complete change if you get it just right.

Les

DCI Gene Hunt

Sounds like she's pushing for some extra lovin' ....... pop a piccy up so we can advise properly

Lee247

Here she is

DCI Gene Hunt

<<<<<<<< Exits stage left

markjmd

iTrader: (11)

I'm not by any stretch of the imagination professionally qualified to comment, but experience tells me there are definite signs of substance/alcohol abuse and/or mental health issues here, so if you're going to have discrete words with the offender's husband, it would probably be worth trying to bring this up. He has to live with the woman, after all, so he has a vested interest in facing up to the reality of what's going on.

Otherwise, document every incident and CCTV all the way. At the end of the day, any proof you get of this person's barmy behaviour can also be used to make sure they get the help they almost certainly need.

MMT WRX

A bit lively for DCI maybe?

GC8WRX

posting pictures of yourself doesnt help him lol

Lee247

That was ten years ago, I look much older now

scubbay

iTrader: (61)

Falcon punch.

DCI Gene Hunt

Yep, I fear she may still have a pulse

MMT WRX

madscoob

iTrader: (3)

3am roundup(brand of weed killer) the old birds entire garden , lawn plants shrubs everything will be brown in a few days , thats just for starters councilors and ponces like that generally love themselves and think normal people are beneeth them . a photo of the site would be good to allow us to be more creative with our ideas, a few stink bombs in her bin might be good revenge for moving yours , another old favorite is gloves and smear cat**** under her cars door handle , making sure you are around to enjoy the moment, there are loads of ways of dealing with people like this and i doubt her husband has the ***** to stick up to her so dont rely on him as a solution to the problem

addi monster

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why are you running, the last i herd you was caught FELCHING with her

tony de wonderful

Wow corradoboy you are really a man of restraint and that has to be respected. This woman sounds unbalanced, maybe slowly becoming mentally ill.

Still she crossed a line when she raised a hand to your pregnant wife, and you should not tolerate that even if she has to suffer a night in the slammer when she is not well etc.

The right thing is to look after your wife kids here, not her health.

corradoboy

Well, copped for the hubby this morning as he returned from his dog walking, and he made it quite clear he's not up for discussing the situation as reasonable, grown adults

Leslie

Thats a pity. Maybe a friendly approach to the woman when she is by herself might work.

Les

JTaylor

I think you should punch the women.

Nimbus

Can you elaborate? Maybe you caught him in a bad mood?

Neighbour problems can be the worst sort as there's not way you can distance yourself from it. You need to find some way of resolving this soon for all your sakes. Good luck

Glowplug

iTrader: (8)

Well thats a sh1tter mate.

Did/does he seem hen pecked, spineless, or just obstinate, like his mrs??

Think your going to have to keep an eye them both. Not a good situation, and this latest encounter puts the ball firmly back in your court.

fivetide

iTrader: (1)

Well you gave him the option.

"Local Councillor makes life misery for voters"

Get in there

5t.

Coffin Dodger

Let this be a lesson to us all as well. Never ever buy a property with any sort of shared access. It nearly always seems to end up with some kind of dispute

urban

iTrader: (1)

Hopefully you will catch her misbehaving on camera
However I wouldn't expect the police to do much.
You should have had her sent down when you had the chance.

JAutos

iTrader: (5)

Love this i had a tranny truck and did exactly the same to my old next door complainers. They soon shut up moaning and actually were fine after. they said i was doing things to annoy them, when i actually did they realised i wasnt previosuly and we ended up good friends after that.

JAutos

iTrader: (5)

also i advise a sign saying you have cctv installed otherwise any footage used is not classed as able to be used in court as its to do with invasion of privacy laws etc and permission to film people. You can check this out fully yourself by googling etc.

JAutos

iTrader: (5)

and im not usually harse but if she is old and not well maybe you wont have to put up with her for much longer

corradoboy

He is seriously hen-pecked and spineless, and yet obstinate, like you'd expect a councillor. I got the impression he is either aggrieved at the level we took it to, has been told by her not to speak to us and is in fear in his private life, or worried that things are getting out of hand to the point where his career could be jeopardised and he wants to try and let the waters settle.

CCTV will be installed within a week, a diary of events is started, the local plod have advised we seek legal advice and I am already drafting a letter to the paper. I am going to ask him once more for an informal peace summit, but after that it goes formal only !