Annoyed with "friend" and his sex acts..
01 January 2011, 11:30 PM
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Sorry I was merely pointing out that the friend behind door one (the sleeping work mate), already seems to have a scary story which I'm guessing is about the "incident"........ so I cant see he's (distant grandad friend) making up everything about the "first encounter"........
So many gaps in this story.............
So many gaps in this story.............
Yep, gaps is the word. I am now in the situation, I have no idea what to believe
01 January 2011, 11:38 PM
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If the girls were asleep, completely incapacitated by drink then it is technically rape.
I also think it would be an extremely difficult case to make stick in court. It is the euphemistic 'date rape'.
I do wonder at the motive of the OPs concern. Is it at his friends behaviour? Or his own behaviour having created the situation? Or is it that maybe he wanted the girls for himself - 'happy days'?
I also think it would be an extremely difficult case to make stick in court. It is the euphemistic 'date rape'.
I do wonder at the motive of the OPs concern. Is it at his friends behaviour? Or his own behaviour having created the situation? Or is it that maybe he wanted the girls for himself - 'happy days'?
01 January 2011, 11:40 PM
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01 January 2011, 11:53 PM
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And then to take him back to their place? When they've already had misgivings? Sorry, but even if you've had a few, some primaeval instinct kicks in at some stage. Especially if there are two of you.
However........if they were comatose, that in NO WAY excuses him if he took advantage. If they didn't consent, then that's rape. But.....what's the deal with the first girl going along with it once awake?
However........if they were comatose, that in NO WAY excuses him if he took advantage. If they didn't consent, then that's rape. But.....what's the deal with the first girl going along with it once awake?
02 January 2011, 12:01 AM
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Did grandad ring him boasting of his double conquest, hence a call to work friend.............who may not even have realised this had (or was supposed to have) occured..........
If she cant remember exactly what happend I bet she'd sound scared when confronted with grandad's boasts........
Or maybe she did remember and having been told that the friend had him too, now feels bad about her rep at work.............
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02 January 2011, 12:16 AM
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I think the OP feels bad having told them they were safe.......
But I wonder how the OP found this out?
Did grandad ring him boasting of his double conquest, hence a call to work friend.............who may not even have realised this had (or was supposed to have) occured..........
If she cant remember exactly what happend I bet she'd sound scared when confronted with grandad's boasts........
Or maybe she did remember and having been told that the friend had him too, now feels bad about her rep at work.............
But I wonder how the OP found this out?
Did grandad ring him boasting of his double conquest, hence a call to work friend.............who may not even have realised this had (or was supposed to have) occured..........
If she cant remember exactly what happend I bet she'd sound scared when confronted with grandad's boasts........
Or maybe she did remember and having been told that the friend had him too, now feels bad about her rep at work.............
02 January 2011, 12:36 AM
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Guys, OP here.
Right I had the detail from "the Grandad" as some of you now address him. I'll not mention girls names so I'll just use "1" and "2" for now as the world is a small place and I don't want this thread seen by them - or any of their friends..
I had a call from a very shaken/concerned "1" yesterday. Unfortunately we couldn't speak for long but I'll be meeting her next week at work to ensure she is ok and hear her story if she wishes to discuss.
I'll respond during the week with more detail and any missing pieces in the puzzle.
Thanks for some of the positive response.
Right I had the detail from "the Grandad" as some of you now address him. I'll not mention girls names so I'll just use "1" and "2" for now as the world is a small place and I don't want this thread seen by them - or any of their friends..
I had a call from a very shaken/concerned "1" yesterday. Unfortunately we couldn't speak for long but I'll be meeting her next week at work to ensure she is ok and hear her story if she wishes to discuss.
I'll respond during the week with more detail and any missing pieces in the puzzle.
Thanks for some of the positive response.
02 January 2011, 12:38 AM
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Guys, OP here.
Right I had the detail from "the Grandad" as some of you now address him. I'll not mention girls names so I'll just use "1" and "2" for now as the world is a small place and I don't want this thread seen by them - or any of their friends..
I had a call from a very shaken/concerned "1" yesterday. Unfortunately we couldn't speak for long but I'll be meeting her next week at work to ensure she is ok and hear her story if she wishes to discuss.
I'll respond during the week with more detail and any missing pieces in the puzzle.
Thanks for some of the positive response.
Right I had the detail from "the Grandad" as some of you now address him. I'll not mention girls names so I'll just use "1" and "2" for now as the world is a small place and I don't want this thread seen by them - or any of their friends..
I had a call from a very shaken/concerned "1" yesterday. Unfortunately we couldn't speak for long but I'll be meeting her next week at work to ensure she is ok and hear her story if she wishes to discuss.
I'll respond during the week with more detail and any missing pieces in the puzzle.
Thanks for some of the positive response.
02 January 2011, 12:59 AM
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its kind of all there faults really.
*they didnt have to stay with him.
*they could of said no when he invited him self into there place.
* they could of asked him to leave before they went to bed.
*granted having sex with a stranger while they are asleep could be classes as rape but she did awaken and let him continue which makes me think she was enjoying it or too pissed to care.
*was the other lass awake when he did her or did she sleep though the hole thing? if she did then its defo RAPE.
At the end of the day its going to be hard to prove as boose was envolved and its one word against theres.
*they didnt have to stay with him.
*they could of said no when he invited him self into there place.
* they could of asked him to leave before they went to bed.
*granted having sex with a stranger while they are asleep could be classes as rape but she did awaken and let him continue which makes me think she was enjoying it or too pissed to care.
*was the other lass awake when he did her or did she sleep though the hole thing? if she did then its defo RAPE.
At the end of the day its going to be hard to prove as boose was envolved and its one word against theres.
02 January 2011, 03:54 AM
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Its only the sleep thing thats a little iffy here
Ive said this before and ill say it again,after running a stag and hen hotel, you would be suprised how many lasses/women i see sleeping around and the storys ive herd from lads and the lasses :shock: old and young maried and single for an example a groupe of 16 girls went out together and 13 of them came back in seprate taxis the next morning in ones and twos
and were chatting over breakfast about who they had shagged 
ive lost count of the number who would try and bring lads back, 2 lasses bringing 4 lads back isnt rare at 3 in the morning
when i wouldent let 2 lasses who were staying with us bring 2 lads in, they turned round and said we will have to **** them on the beach then, they did and both turned up about 40 mins later
all women are not inocent some are far from it
it will not be a great moment in the girls life...nobody likes sloppy seconds
Ive said this before and ill say it again,after running a stag and hen hotel, you would be suprised how many lasses/women i see sleeping around and the storys ive herd from lads and the lasses :shock: old and young maried and single for an example a groupe of 16 girls went out together and 13 of them came back in seprate taxis the next morning in ones and twos
and were chatting over breakfast about who they had shagged ive lost count of the number who would try and bring lads back, 2 lasses bringing 4 lads back isnt rare at 3 in the morning
when i wouldent let 2 lasses who were staying with us bring 2 lads in, they turned round and said we will have to **** them on the beach then, they did and both turned up about 40 mins later
all women are not inocent some are far from it
it will not be a great moment in the girls life...nobody likes sloppy seconds
02 January 2011, 05:01 AM
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toni that put a bad image in my head 
am i the only one who is impressed this bloke this 40 year old bloke after drinking all night has managed to get a fatty on, twice in one night
am i the only one who is impressed this bloke this 40 year old bloke after drinking all night has managed to get a fatty on, twice in one night
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02 January 2011, 08:07 AM
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I know it is not the core subject of this thread but get a clue guys.
Over 40 does not mean a) you are desperate or b) have trouble getting a 'fatty on' and importantly c) need to take advantage via drink to get any!!
Over 40 does not mean a) you are desperate or b) have trouble getting a 'fatty on' and importantly c) need to take advantage via drink to get any!!
02 January 2011, 08:17 AM
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OP:
Technically it doesn't sound like anyone involved are 'close' friends, as such can you be sure of the way they normally behave? No matter who was right and who was wrong, if anyone actually was, legally or morally. YOU cannot be responsible for other peoples bad behavior.
Technically it doesn't sound like anyone involved are 'close' friends, as such can you be sure of the way they normally behave? No matter who was right and who was wrong, if anyone actually was, legally or morally. YOU cannot be responsible for other peoples bad behavior.
02 January 2011, 09:00 AM
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Sounds like the OP went out with the intention of getting his leg over 
, but
was blown out and the "smooth hellloooo ladies" mate moved in,
And now there's a bit of sour grapes.
The Op didnt do it, so there's nothing for him to worry about, let them all sort
it out themselves
Mart
, but was blown out and the "smooth hellloooo ladies" mate moved in
,And now there's a bit of sour grapes.
The Op didnt do it, so there's nothing for him to worry about, let them all sort
it out themselves
Mart
serious face now ..
02 January 2011, 09:29 AM
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02 January 2011, 09:35 AM
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Apart from the obvious voyeuristic appeal of the impending updates the OP shouldn't really get involved.
Girls get pissed - get into regretted trouble or otherwise on their own watch. Let them sort it amongst themselves.
02 January 2011, 09:36 AM
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Sounds like the OP went out with the intention of getting his leg over , but
was blown out and the "smooth hellloooo ladies" mate moved in,
And now there's a bit of sour grapes.
The Op didnt do it, so there's nothing for him to worry about, let them all sort
it out themselves
Mart
, but was blown out and the "smooth hellloooo ladies" mate moved in
,And now there's a bit of sour grapes.
The Op didnt do it, so there's nothing for him to worry about, let them all sort
it out themselves
Mart
