Mollymoo666

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There is the negative option that your friend or friends are setting up the only lonely, desperate people they know in a vain effort to pair them off or the positive option that you have caring friends who know you and your prospective date very well and truly think that you will hit it off

hodgy0_2

is that a euphemism!!

if so I would get yerself out, sound like you might do yourself an injury out of sheer frustration

f1_fan

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It's her I feel sorry for!

SwissTony

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Dont forget to mention the fact that you are a moderator on a well known car forum and you will be right in there

donny andi

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Meet her at the local ******* site , if she's a ugly ****** swop her over with someone
Cheaper than the whorehouse

ScoobyWon't

I hope for our sake that she is the one for you.

Still, I'd **** myself if she climbed out of the toilet window to escape from you!

ScoobyWon't

Come to think if it, Ant, how the **** did YOU manage to pull?

PaulC72

Exit options:

1) tell her you are a mod on here...she will leave first
2) think of a boring subject and just discuss it to death...she will leave first
3) drink loads, she will leave first but you won't remember anything about it
4) get someone to call you at a set point in time with an emergancy.

warrenm2

Or just grow a set, and if you dont like her just say you dont have as much in common as you hoped, nice meeting her and walk out. Are you too much of a wimp? Doesnt have to be rude, but a simple this isn't working for you, good luck and go is all it takes. Man up! Or recognise you're both a bit nervous and turn it to your advantage, people tend to be quite agreeable to a strong lead in those situations....

ALi-B

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I don't think I'm being wimp here but I think thats is actually a pretty sh**ty and inconsiderate thing to say and do to stand someone up like that in middle of a date (hence the problem with exit strategies) .

That is a sure way to knock a person's self confidence IMO. Nobody deserves that, no matter how unattractive/incompatible/whatever.

Wild Thing

so when is this date going to happen, good luck I bet she will be a total hottie.

ALi-B

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Nothings been organised. Not had a reply from the person supposedly setting it up. He's probably been out on the lash (weekend).

DYK

Man up Ali and go with the flow it may work out good or it may not,you have to take that risk to find out.Just treat it as a casual meet with no expectations.If its not for you then be honest rather than make up some bullsh1t excuse about leaving the oven on etc.
I'm sure if it ends up being the other way round,you would want that person to be honest with you.

Jamz3k

Beggars can't be choosers. Get her bucked.

ScoobyWon't

I just found Ali's last personal ad:

tony de wonderful

Pakfoods?

tony de wonderful

Yep that is what I would be thinking.

Anyway they way I see it once you are past 30 the only women who are left are either ugly or have some major issues.

Might as well give up.

tony de wonderful

Who is going to call that number then?

warrenm2

And therein lies your problem. Because you think that way, you are making a huge performance out of it. I specifically said without being rude, and yet you have taken it to be rude. If you cant be open and honest with someone when you first meet, then you are starting off on completely the wrong foot IMHO. The comments I use are specifically non judgemental of the other person. You say "middle of a date", to me that implies you have a set timetable for the evening, an allocation of time. How structured and dull.

Its actually your beliefs that are serving you poorly here...

HTH

ALi-B

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Well tbh the context of your prior post was rude and inconsiderate to me. So from that i figured that's what you consider to be an aceptable manner to talk to other people.

For example telling me to grow a set is acceptable to you but then you say not to be rude or inconsiderate? OK

ALi-B

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I am 50:50 on this. I've since got wind she's had a string arseholes for boyfriends. So I'm the rebound guy. Hmmm. This could go either way, were the men really arseholes or was she the one with the issue? I know the obvious answer is to go and find out

I think a good number of people here have had previous partners who seem ok at first but then turn after a while, be it after a few months or even years. Does make me wonder.

StrikE

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I went on a blind date years ago and tbh the girl was not that bad looking but her parents where a ******* nightmare from day one!

She was completely under the thumb so much the parents wanted to save her for the lucky man [who ever he would be] on the wedding night

The parents should have been shot.......... but i can thank them for the lovely 23 yr old virgin that had her cherry popped one night [crude i know ]

FFS she hadn't even kissed a man properly before.

Lasted 3 weeks before the parents got the better of me shame really as she was nice

TurboAndy

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ALi-B! just do it. What have you really got to loose, yes she might not be the one for you but on the other hand she might be. You wont know unless you go. Just treat it as a night out, keep it light and it be ok. The woman who is going on the blind date with you will be feeling the same i would of thought.

Andy

jods

Bag up and knock her back doors in.

New_scooby_04

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TurboAndy

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