Yesterday I lost the love of my life, Carmen
30 September 2012, 04:20 PM
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At least you can stop having those thoughts going through your mind about if you could of done something,nobody could of known about it pal,nothing worse than punishing yourself in situations like this,what happened to her and what caused it was out of your hands.
Its going to be hard for you no doubt about that,but hopefully with time the pain will ease.
Again so sorry for your loss...
Its going to be hard for you no doubt about that,but hopefully with time the pain will ease.
Again so sorry for your loss...
30 September 2012, 05:31 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
I lost my Dad to a aortic aneurysm back on the 14th of February 2010. He was otherwise fit and healthy but that day was complaining that he had pulled a muscle in his stomach /groin area. A few hours later he was dead.
I urge anyone with a history of this condition to get checked out, especially if you smoke heavily.
I lost my Dad to a aortic aneurysm back on the 14th of February 2010. He was otherwise fit and healthy but that day was complaining that he had pulled a muscle in his stomach /groin area. A few hours later he was dead.
I urge anyone with a history of this condition to get checked out, especially if you smoke heavily.
30 September 2012, 10:48 PM
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as above i did not know either of you but you have my deepest sympathy you need to stay strong and treasure every memory you have of her im sure she would not want you to fall apart and as said would want you to stay positive and happy when looking to the future. all the best mate sorry again.
01 October 2012, 07:05 PM
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as above i did not know either of you but you have my deepest sympathy you need to stay strong and treasure every memory you have of her im sure she would not want you to fall apart and as said would want you to stay positive and happy when looking to the future. all the best mate sorry again.
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Steve
01 October 2012, 07:51 PM
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Sorry to hear about this 
For those unlucky to have to go through things like this each person copes with it differently, so do what feels right for you.
You seem to be very strong and I am sure she would be proud of you.
For those unlucky to have to go through things like this each person copes with it differently, so do what feels right for you.
You seem to be very strong and I am sure she would be proud of you.
01 October 2012, 09:01 PM
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So sorry to hear of your loss.
My sister in law's husband died suddenly in his early thirties, they had only been married for 10 weeks. He was a very fit sporty person but had a heart defect that wasn't noticable unless he'd had specific tests done.
There is a charity called CRY (Cardiac Risk in the young) http://www.c-r-y.org.uk/ that campaign for screening for the early signs of heart disease. They also have a very good berevement service for those affected by the sudden loss of a loved one.
Our family now do all our charity runs/walks etc for CRY and have an account set up in memory of her husband (Dave Harrop) - once a certain amount is raised we can choose to have a mobile screening service go to the local schools in Dave's home town.
Carmens relatives should get checked out ASAP - it is now free for them on the NHS.
I have seen first hand how dreadful it is for a partner to lose somebody so young like this, I urge you to talk to CRY regarding their berevement service.
My sister in law's husband died suddenly in his early thirties, they had only been married for 10 weeks. He was a very fit sporty person but had a heart defect that wasn't noticable unless he'd had specific tests done.
There is a charity called CRY (Cardiac Risk in the young) http://www.c-r-y.org.uk/ that campaign for screening for the early signs of heart disease. They also have a very good berevement service for those affected by the sudden loss of a loved one.
Our family now do all our charity runs/walks etc for CRY and have an account set up in memory of her husband (Dave Harrop) - once a certain amount is raised we can choose to have a mobile screening service go to the local schools in Dave's home town.
Carmens relatives should get checked out ASAP - it is now free for them on the NHS.
I have seen first hand how dreadful it is for a partner to lose somebody so young like this, I urge you to talk to CRY regarding their berevement service.
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01 October 2012, 09:42 PM
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i certainly do mate didnt want to mention my situation in my post as this thread is about you and your loss and i didnt want to detract from that in any way if you get what i mean
my son is still with us at the moment thank god i just wish you could say the same mate. the folks on here are absolutely amazing as i know from personal experience and if there is anything me or anyone else can do to make things easier for you please dont hesitate to ask 
so sorry again for your loss. scott
02 October 2012, 09:53 PM
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terrible news and so young.
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