Left hanging by her indifference
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Left hanging by her indifference
Why did I trust you and bare my soul to you. I told you everything and the rest about me and you abandon me without returning who you are.
You give me the come on. Flirt with me, go out of your way to spend time with me. Invite me to do stuff with you and ask me questions that lead me on and make statements like you are glad to hear that I am hetrosexual. Invite me to go clubbing, invite me back to yours...
attract me, ply me with drink and get me to lay down who I am and then leave me hanging with my soul hanging out of my *** for all to see.
Is this **** on page 1 or 2 of the 'how to be with men' manual of womanhood? I told you more than I have ever told anyone and you don't return it.
To top it all your ******** ***** come on here so I can't say how I feel for real.
You give me the come on. Flirt with me, go out of your way to spend time with me. Invite me to do stuff with you and ask me questions that lead me on and make statements like you are glad to hear that I am hetrosexual. Invite me to go clubbing, invite me back to yours...
attract me, ply me with drink and get me to lay down who I am and then leave me hanging with my soul hanging out of my *** for all to see.
Is this **** on page 1 or 2 of the 'how to be with men' manual of womanhood? I told you more than I have ever told anyone and you don't return it.
To top it all your ******** ***** come on here so I can't say how I feel for real.
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Look mate, you got to go clubbing with this bird, go back to hers, and no doubt sh4gged it too, I dont think you have anything to complain about!!
Key is to never get too attached too early, didnt anyone ever tell you that?!! If you do, you end up getting hurt, and writing wierd stuff on scoobynet, just move on, and this time wait a few weeks before developing feelings!!
Key is to never get too attached too early, didnt anyone ever tell you that?!! If you do, you end up getting hurt, and writing wierd stuff on scoobynet, just move on, and this time wait a few weeks before developing feelings!!
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Move on- nothing to see.
Come on Dad, go to bed now you're making a show of yourself.
Anyway I said it was the SAGA site you needed and not here!!
Anyway I said it was the SAGA site you needed and not here!!
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Okay, ill be sympathetic, after all, we've all been scr3wed over by a girl at some point, they are extremely decietful and self serving creatures, so you have to watch yourself with them, just try keep your mind occupied now, and buy yourself some nice gadgets, hi fi, XBOX, something to help get your mind off the girl.
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clearly, by your 1st post, you wasn't
But hey, don't get bitter and twisted - she obviously wasn't what you thought she was either. Personally, at a time like this I prefer a few boughts of casual sex before looking for the next relationship, helps focus the mind.
whatever you do, make sure you have a bucket close to hand. Markus will be along in a minute...
clearly, by your 1st post, you wasn't
But hey, don't get bitter and twisted - she obviously wasn't what you thought she was either. Personally, at a time like this I prefer a few boughts of casual sex before looking for the next relationship, helps focus the mind.
whatever you do, make sure you have a bucket close to hand. Markus will be along in a minute...
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Just remember she is part of a bad minority. Shame you were both heading in opposite directions instead of together.
Chances are, you will not come across anyone like her again.
Don't let your guard down so easily.
Maybe she will have read your post and may treat the next person better.
I think a group hug is needed to make someone feel better.
Chances are, you will not come across anyone like her again.
Don't let your guard down so easily.
Maybe she will have read your post and may treat the next person better.
I think a group hug is needed to make someone feel better.
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Originally Posted by Nicci
Just remember she is part of a bad minority. Shame you were both heading in opposite directions instead of together.
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Originally Posted by SideShowBob
Im only agreeing to a group hug if I get a fondle
the1, just try and get the pain out of your system. Talk to mates, talk to strangers online it all helps. Things don't change overnight though, but you will feel better and stronger soon.
Last edited by Nicci; 01 March 2004 at 11:27 PM. Reason: I am tired and can't quote
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Originally Posted by Nicci
With most here being men, should be interesting.
Its a misconception that women are weaker emotionally than men, ive always found woman handle break ups far better than blokes (in most cases).
Did she have someone to move onto The1? seems to be a common thing these days where women do the old monkey swing, dont let go of one branch till they've got a firm grip of another.
Dont get me wrong, I love woman, awesome things, best and worst things imaginable, just a few home truths, seems very few relationships last, its a lot more about getting what you want now, and its become almost impossible to settle down.
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On the surface It would look like I have been played fair and simple and that she said what she needed too, to make me think we had a connection on a different level. I didn't think this was the case so I responded as I tend to wear my Heart on my sleeve. I don't believe in not being yourself with someone and it would appear that she was at least honest enough to do the same in return. Trouble was I said one wrong sentence about me after about 12 Pints and she closed up to me Only wish I had said the sentence before I told her all of my embarrassing secrets and not heard any of hers.
The problem is that I now have to see her most of the time due to working the same office. It was cringingly embarrassing for me when we last bumped into each other. People have already started to smile at me in a funny way when they are huddled in a group at the coffee machine. I don't think she has betrayed my confidence in her, just word has got round that I have been a bit of a plonka. I think she has taken this distancing approach as I came very close to something that is still very emotionally raw for her and she would rather leave it buried in the past, just like where I should of left my past. You live and learn.
The problem is that I now have to see her most of the time due to working the same office. It was cringingly embarrassing for me when we last bumped into each other. People have already started to smile at me in a funny way when they are huddled in a group at the coffee machine. I don't think she has betrayed my confidence in her, just word has got round that I have been a bit of a plonka. I think she has taken this distancing approach as I came very close to something that is still very emotionally raw for her and she would rather leave it buried in the past, just like where I should of left my past. You live and learn.
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I told her all of my embarrassing secrets
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whatever you do, make sure you have a bucket close to hand. Markus will be along in a minute
Sorry big guy, had to be said!
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It sounds like you need some time on your own, to sort yourself out a bit. There's nothing wrong with being single for a while as it'll make you stronger. Just concentrate on yourself 100%. I know it's old advice but it's the best thing to do.
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Nasty lesson learned - NEVER DATE SOMONE YOU WORK WITH
A couple of years ago I started seeing the sweet nice quiet girl at work. Of course in reality she turned out to be a f**ing nutter. Big lesson learned!
The rumors and back-chat that happen when you're seeing someone at work always mean its doomed to failure.
Hope things work out ok for you
Tony
A couple of years ago I started seeing the sweet nice quiet girl at work. Of course in reality she turned out to be a f**ing nutter. Big lesson learned!
The rumors and back-chat that happen when you're seeing someone at work always mean its doomed to failure.
Hope things work out ok for you
Tony
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