dome

Hi guys, I need to get this off my chest or I'm gonna explode.

Until Friday my girlfriend and I worked together. Another girl at my work who was friendly with us was telling my girlfriend a load of bullsh!t about how I'd be glad when we didn't work together anymore so I could get some 'space', something I did not say. Then because I was late in getting to her leaving party the other night my girlfriend got a text from this other girl saying 'See? I told you so' My girlfriend was upset but we got things sorted that night.

Next day my g/f sent this girl an email (outwith work) saying what she thought of this girl, which I thought was spot on.

On Monday this girl turns up at work, reads the email(on a non work a/c remember) and runs off to the management to make a complaint. Management i believe told her they could do nothing at which point she storms out. Next thing my g/f texts me saying that she's had a phone call from this girl ' i know where u live and where u work, i'm gonna kick your cvnt in' She's also been sending messages nonstop to my girlfriend on a similar vein.

Worst thing is I've got to sit pretty much beside this girl at my work. My boss offered to move her but I don't want to twist things so that she becomes the victim. I've been ignoring her and acting normally, I'm determined not to let her know she's getting to me but I swear if my g/f's in tears once more I might snap. Not at work though, i'm not that stupid. Lets just say next time her car moves it will be on the back of a transporter to the breakers yard.

Brendan Hughes

So she fancies you and is jealous. Just turn to her when you sit next to her and say "Gosh, have you put on some weight recently?". She'll never speak to you again.

ProperCharlie

is she fit?

dome

Here's an email she sent to my girlfriend, with my girlfriends original email at the bottom.
[bitch]
you are gonna regret the day you sent this to me you daft ugly greasy wee cow i know to much about you , your infected with all sorts of **** because you are a tramp and a miden !, i dont know were this all came from but here was me thinking you were a mate but you are just a wee freak that dosent have any mates brian will get bored with you debbie all ready has you have no family that like you so tell me who looks to be the cow i think you were looking in the mirror when you sent me this message as you are scary ugly and a skinny dying freak i mean common you actually think people in here like you too you have lost the plot you should be in a home for people as ****ed up as you !

oh and one last thing! think linda is your mate she had a good old bitch about you the last time we were out drinking cause a 5 year old could handle more drink than you ya daft wee slapper !!!!!!!!!!! enjoy your job that pays you less but atleast you will get on alright their cause they are all kids just like you after all !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![/bitch]

wrote:
hi

unfortunaelty im leaving and will miss this place but i think before i go its about time someone told you that you should grow up and and act your age and stop making peoples life difficult and trying to cause trouble as thats all you ever do. You wonder why people never tell you anything its because your a vicious gossip who doesnt care about anyone apart from herself its a shame as you could be a really nice person when your not being a cow


pam

RichWalk

personally, I tell ur girlfriend to grow up and ignore the idiot. failing that she could always use some scare tactics- I am sure u have some large mates who could oblige if required- discretly of course.

dome

No she's not fit. Bulldog licking **** of a nettle springs to mind

ProperCharlie

oh. that's a pity.

p*ss in her tea, then.

Jay m A

iTrader: (2)

Tell your GF to do the usual response to her next abusive call.

Let the caller know that these abusive calls/texts are now being recorded and if it continues any more then the matter will be taken further with the appropriate authorities.

Register a complaint if needs be.

However being Friday afternoon there'll be some light hearted posts on this thread. I suggest the classic stapling of paper cups together to spell **** and to place them on her desk once she's gone home. Then fill with water.

fatherpierre

I'd simply confront her openly and loudly in front of the whole office or wherever it is you work.

It may not be an office as her command of English was terrible. LOL

Make her look a cvnt in front of everyone.

dome

Cheers guys. I'm glad I've still got the email she sent, it gives me proof. She's going round work as if nothing has happened, whilst i can imagine what she's saying when I'm not around.
My g/f and I aren't going to let her affect us in the long run but it's fecking annnoying right now.

dome

Tempting fatherpierre but she's good with the old waterworks and i'd be worried it'd make me look the cvnt instead. I'm senior to her so i don't want to risk things at work.

StickyMicky

what i would do

stop being a pansey and give the bird at work a wholeload of ****
whats all this "i dont want her to be the victim crap" ??

sort it out, your a man not a woman, sumbody stops on your toes, you stamp on there head until they get of your toes

never fails IMO

fatherpierre

I'd rip right into her, mate. Waterworks or not, I'd rip her fooking head off if she did that to me.

A short, sharp shock would probably do the trick and you'd not hear a peep from her again.

Either that or she'd carve you both up in your beds.............

grovesy

stickymicky spot on mate, dont let some dozy bint f*ck with your life get her slapped, but make sure you can't get done for anything.

ProperCharlie

we need more northerners on this thread - they know how to handle this situation.


"I go out and drink 10 pints and i get really plastered
when i get home i beat the wife, cos i'm a northern *******"

fatherpierre

10 pints?

*****

ProperCharlie

fp - that was just at lunchtine, apparently.

dome

i've just done a traceroute for the email that she sent my girlfriend and it came from her work computer. I'm sure the management will be interested in how she spends her day...

fatherpierre

Ooh you grass.

Why not get her alone and threaten her with the email.

That way you'll always have it over her.

grovesy

P C my bird get beaten that regular, that on the rare occation I forget she thinks she has done somthing wrong

ProperCharlie

right, i want to move to the north! will they let me in, do you think?

fatherpierre

I moved south from the north, so you can have my place.

Tis rough, mate.

Cheeky Jim

when she nips to the loo, quickly write down her credit card number and expiry date and that number on the back.

THEN, buy a copy of at least 3 sunday newspapers and using her credit card send off for every piece of sh1te you can find.....granny shoes, plates of Indian Warriors and aeroplanes, grey slacks, porcelain figurines etc.....

don't get mad................................stich her up...............

Tiggs

your GF was a bit daft to send the original message......she should have just walked. this is the email version of getting into a ruck in a pub over a spilt pint then finding out the bloke is a loon with a knife!!

grovesy

PC you will have to bring your own lemonade for Larger tops mate

tmo

Go round to her place and when she goes to work break in and phone the speaking clock in America and leave it off the hook.

Seriously, misuse of company equipment, gross misconduct = instant dismissal (as long as you are not surfing for **** all day!)
Aggravated messages = nuisance caller …. Call the old bill and report her

If all the above fails, throw her down the stairs, self defence …. Proof - threatening
e-mails to GF and behaviour consistent with a stalker.

Markus

If this girl is sending abusive messages then get your g/f to bar her number from her phone, personally I'd do this by phoning my mobile company and making a complaint about abusive/threatening calls. You could also, if you want to, report this to the police, doubt anything would be done, but at least its reported if anything nasty does occur.

dome

Cheers for all the advice guys, at the end of the day it's up to my G/F how she wants to do this, she's the one thats getting the threats against her.

I know it'd be a bit sneaky telling my bosses about the email but she's been in trouble before and i've got a feeling that this might just be enough to get her out.

grovesy

If she gets sacked because of you/your GF do you think this will make theings better or worse? I would go for worse.....

kick her head "a bit of violance never hurt anybody"

King RA

I think the dozy bint needs to be taught what a comma and fullstop are. Make some giant ones out of wood and whack her over the head with them!!!