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how come when your in a relationship you allways get loads of attention from the opposite sex? been seeing my lass for about 3 months now and pryor to that i'd been single for about a year, and not seen much action
now since i've been going out with her i've been getting the eye off lasses a hell of a lot more, even when i'm out with her
even my mates are noticing. is it a different body language i'm showing because i'm not interested in anyone else? or is because i was trying too hard when i was single?
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I think it is something to do with the fact that now you have a girlfriend you are much more confident around other girls, as you dont really care what they think of you.
Before you had a girlfreind you were probably a little nervous around girls (even if you didnt notice it), i think its all to do with confidence.
Before you had a girlfreind you were probably a little nervous around girls (even if you didnt notice it), i think its all to do with confidence.
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there is an invisible aura around you that only birds can see when you are single and desparate for a bag-empty. I had it once for about 5 minutes, terrible experience.
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Agreed on the confidence statement. Also could be you were trying too obviously before, if you're standing around eyeing everyone who moves up then others will notice and naturally be less interested.
Women are a lot more aware of body language than men are.
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Women are a lot more aware of body language than men are.
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Originally Posted by Chip Sengravy
there is an invisible aura around you that only birds can see when you are single and desparate for a bag-empty. I had it once for about 5 minutes, terrible experience.
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Reason is (female logic):
Bloke with girl is deemed as an OK guy as he has a partner. This partner has already vetted him out from the other guys around.
It cuts down on the likelyhood of getting a bad en.
(apparently)
Bloke with girl is deemed as an OK guy as he has a partner. This partner has already vetted him out from the other guys around.
It cuts down on the likelyhood of getting a bad en.
(apparently)
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Originally Posted by BlkKnight
Bloke with girl is deemed as an OK guy as he has a partner. This partner has already vetted him out from the other guys around.
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The ladies must have realised that you're not gay afterall...
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I always thought it was something to do with the fact that they (women) see that you're already attached and think he must be a goodun.
Either that or they can't be ar$ed to find one of their own so trying to nick someone elses is somewhat easier
Either that or they can't be ar$ed to find one of their own so trying to nick someone elses is somewhat easier
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Originally Posted by Chip Sengravy
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think its a combo of things, i seem to get it too
1) women always want something they cant have
2) your probaly a bit more confident and acting yourself
3) you know you cant pull so convince yourself 'if i was single i'd pull er' easy!'
1) women always want something they cant have
2) your probaly a bit more confident and acting yourself
3) you know you cant pull so convince yourself 'if i was single i'd pull er' easy!'
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identical 2 me been going with my blonde for 4 months had little luck 4 a year before that and now i seem to get offers every time im out without her life isn't fair ![Frown](https://www.scoobynet.com/images/smilies/frown.gif)
although get plenty but may be getting fed up as a change could be good what should i do? ?
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although get plenty but may be getting fed up as a change could be good what should i do? ?
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ninnybobs maybe its the lack washing now i've got a bird![Wink](https://www.scoobynet.com/images/smilies/wink.gif)
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, abby can have the waiter they'll have more in common seeing as they both have highlights![Wink](https://www.scoobynet.com/images/smilies/wink.gif)
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Originally Posted by FASTER MIKE!!
how come when your in a relationship you allways get loads of attention from the opposite sex? been seeing my lass for about 3 months now and pryor to that i'd been single for about a year, and not seen much action
now since i've been going out with her i've been getting the eye off lasses a hell of a lot more, even when i'm out with her
even my mates are noticing. is it a different body language i'm showing because i'm not interested in anyone else? or is because i was trying too hard when i was single?
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