ADP

Anyone else split up with someone and then found they wont leave you alone?

I went out with a girl who turned out to be incredibly needy, we split up got back together for a few weeks then properly split up. I didnt really want to see her again - but she wanted to be friends - problem was she kept texting emailing etc(like daily!) - and though Im not rude by nature I eventually had to ignore her to get rid of her for good. She sent me an email this a.m telling me her life story and how she was doing so well and how I was so wrong and rude - yeh like fck off love -cant you take a hint? the more you try the dumber you look.................jees


anyone else had this? some people just cant let go!

Paulo P

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Been there too and it wasn't nice I split up with her because she just wouldn't leave me alone and I was dreading it everytime my phone went. When we split up she started following me around and sitting in the corner of the pub on her own watching me This carried on for months 'til she got the picture after I slagged her off to a mate not realising she'd actually walked up behind me It did the trick though.

lawson101

Went out with a girl from my office, not a good idea I know, and had to split with her as she was doing my head in with about 10-15 texts a day.

After we split the texts continued for months after, even got texts from her when on hols with my new girlfriend.

Eventually lost the rag and called her when drunk to set her straight. Aint heard from her since!! lol

ADP

lol glad Im not the only one - its seems being rude is the only way to finally get rid of!

Milamber

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I "met" a girl while out one night. She wanted to come back to mine....I wasn't that keen but the girlfriend was away so thought "what the hell"? This was MILES away from where this girl lived so thought I would be safe as she would leave early to go to work the next day.

Got up in the morning and she had already been downstairs and made me a cup of tea. "Excellent" I thought.

I started to get worried when she wouldn't leave, even more worried when she followed me to work, panicked when she sat outside my workplace ALL DAY and resorted to swearing when she tried to follow me home again (girlfriend due home that night).

She eventually went off after I took her to the station and watched her get on the train.

How the hell was I to know she had been downstairs going through my phonebook writing down the numbers of my mates? I mean, who would do that?

Imagine my discomfort when she phoned my mates to say we had got engaged?
Imagine my face when I went to a local club and find her showing the "engagement" ring to my mates?
IMAGINE how I felt when she showed me her change of name deed and bank accounts in her married name!!!!

I don't have a rabbit but I was expecting to come home to see the stove choc-a-block with bunnies.

I must say that this was a long time ago before I met my present wife just in case she is reading this and I now realise what a siht I was to both my girlfriend and the bunny boiler but I honestly don't think I deserved all that...

ADP

Oh and to top it off - she said "Ive been kicked out of my flat with 2 weeks to get out"(she shares with the guy who owns it poor git) and "Ive just met this new guy who has agreed to put me up at his place lol" poor muppett, if only I could warn him what hes let himself in for.

pete1977

This happened to me also,i eventually just said to her "look ,Claudia i dont care if you are a famous supermodel and are absolutely loaded and want to worship me for the rest of your days,the problem is you smell funny and scare my mates.Its over love" Shes long gone now.What a loser!

scoobyvirgin

Went out with the lads on Saturday, had a few beers and bumped into a bunch of girls on a birthday night out. Yesterday whilst doing what I do best on a bank holiday Monday - sitting in the pub for eight hours - my phone was getting text after text from one of the girls from Saturday. Then my mate calls, he's taking one of them out and he's arranged for me to join him as his girl will be bringing the one who's been constantly texting me. So in around 6 hours time, yours truly will be putting the young lady to the "how needy are you test" test.

Question is - should I tell them I've invited all the lads from the pub too?

I shall let you know how it progresses

eClaire

ROFPMSL @ milamber How unfortunate!

SiPie

I don't want to go down the my stalker was madder than yours was

but

To cut a very long (approx 2 year long) story of serial stalking short

One evening to my delight I saw that the stalking problem may just be over as her house was up for sale .... (she lived only a few streets away and knew and watched my every movement)

She moved alright ....







......she'd bought the feckin house next door

No longer a problem but pretty unsettling when you find your very own bunny boiler

scoobyvirgin

PMSL at that one SiPie

sti-04!!

Please do

eClaire

Deary me!

ajm

Internet forum stalkers are the worst

Reality

How is your imaginary stalker

Diablo

Hello Alex.......................

scoobybitch

Split up with my x (going years back) and he saw me out one night with my mates, I'd met up with a lad I went school with not seen for ages so we were very chatty/friendly - the x comes over demanding to know who he was and was he my new man. One of the other lads we were out with walked over pretending to be the new b/friend (bouncer so v-big built) and the x and his mates ran off. Next week was in work, finished and went outside to get in my car to find his mates cars blocking me in, one in front reversed right to the bumper and the same at the back!! Refused to move until I told him why I'd finished it demanding that it must be another man and not his attitude - eventually got him to move by getting gang of lads from work outside and very kindly asking him to move.
Heard nothing for a few months and met a new bloke then starts getting texts again, the x's dad rang my dad to tell him his daughter was a tart and that it had ended because I'd ran off with someone else!! Eventually a few of my bouncer friends managed to persuade him to leave me alone.

Reality

You're Late

ajm

LOL!

Nicci

Yes,

and it is current.

my stalker is probably reading this too.

Diablo

LOL

Better late than never

Diablo

LOL

Yes you did

Turbohot

best way is to be blunt if ppl dont get the hint.Been there,tried to be matey matey but it dont work.One of you can **** another one off if not by following them then, by being possesive,being vigilent about what you are doing,by giving cutting remarks and sometimes by lying to others about things.It all becomes a real waste of time and stress for both the parties.
So you better p!ss that person off big style and cut the cr@p!
IMHO

astraboy

Last stalker I had was the one that stopped me rolling onto my front in bed this morning.
*runs away*
astraboy

MikeCardiff

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Wasnt a major stalker but had a slightly nutty girlfriend when I was younger - she once woke me up at 5 a.m. having a right go at me for 'ingoring her because she wasnt feeling well' - I WAS ASLEEP - how can you ignore someone if you arent even awake to ignore them ???

Milamber

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Yeah probably, but I'll never forget cubicle no 1 at the Hammersmith Palais, or Barking Tube station.....