Just wanna be friends..............
29 May 2006, 10:15 PM
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Just wanna be friends..............
Quite a few people I know have recently been told so by their potential female would-be's.
Although this has been discussed here before but,more up-to-date opinions
will be quite interesting to know whether women need educating( that they shouldn't lead men on) or,is it man's fault to start counting the chickens too soon?
Although this has been discussed here before but,more up-to-date opinions
will be quite interesting to know whether women need educating( that they shouldn't lead men on) or,is it man's fault to start counting the chickens too soon?
29 May 2006, 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted by ScoobywagonGl
as above, but not always the women saying they just want to be friends 
Do you reckon it is selfish to lead someone on?
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29 May 2006, 10:29 PM
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Originally Posted by Turbohot
Correct.So, do you reckon it's because someone got it wrong or,what?
Do you reckon it is selfish to lead someone on?
Do you reckon it is selfish to lead someone on?
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29 May 2006, 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted by unclebuck
'Would be' what, would be my question....??
Back on topic - I think if a guy acts too desparate then a woman won't fall for him even if she is physically attracted to him. "Treat them mean to keep them keen" springs to mind and used to always work for me.
Show a woman too much respect to begin with and they'll think you're a wimp.
29 May 2006, 10:31 PM
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Originally Posted by Suresh
Methinks you are out of your depth on this thread.
Back on topic - I think if a guy acts too desparate then a woman won't fall for him even if she is physically attracted to him. "Treat them mean to keep them keen" springs to mind and used to always work for me. Show a woman too much respect to begin with and they'll think you're a wimp.
Back on topic - I think if a guy acts too desparate then a woman won't fall for him even if she is physically attracted to him. "Treat them mean to keep them keen" springs to mind and used to always work for me.
Show a woman too much respect to begin with and they'll think you're a wimp.That is unfortunatly true
29 May 2006, 10:32 PM
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Men see all women as a potential mate. Tht's why straight men and women can't be friends.
Any man who comes on this thread and says I'm wrong because they have a female platonic friend is deluding themselves, is gay or she's a munter of the highest order.
Any man who comes on this thread and says I'm wrong because they have a female platonic friend is deluding themselves, is gay or she's a munter of the highest order.
29 May 2006, 10:40 PM
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Originally Posted by NotoriousREV
Any man who comes on this thread and says I'm wrong because they have a female platonic friend is deluding themselves, is gay or she's a munter of the highest order.
I have platonic male friends.Through work or,through social interaction.Neither me nor them are really munters
( well,I would like to think so about myself anyway!
)But It doesn't even cross my mind to be physically close to them in sexual way.That's because,I may be with someone else or,they may have partners or,there ain't that spark!<shrugs>
Platonic friendship is more from female side.Men usually do think the other way- so I have been told.
29 May 2006, 10:42 PM
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This may hurt more than a girl saying she wants to be friends...
http://www.nearlygood.com/video/worstwaytobedumped.html
http://www.nearlygood.com/video/worstwaytobedumped.html
29 May 2006, 10:44 PM
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maybe men read the signals wrong most of my male friends have but lucky i sorted it before it got any further. men really need to think about what a girl/woman is saying to them and the body language is really important too. so eyes and ears out fellas
29 May 2006, 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Stephb1986
men really need to think about what a girl/woman is saying to them and the body language is really important too. BTW scooter is HOT!!!!
. What r u doing tomorrow night
29 May 2006, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Turbohot
Correct.So, do you reckon it's because someone got it wrong or,what?
Do you reckon it is selfish to lead someone on?
Do you reckon it is selfish to lead someone on?
I think it is all down to the time being right but also what and where the people involved want the relationship to go.