the blokes only a workmate. Hell I don't give 2 ****s about some of the losers here. This thread means the poster does somewhat though. certainly doesn't sound like his 'best mate'. That would be a whole different story and I would tell him. His workmate may end up single and latch onto you. Is that something you want?

try reading the original question again :thumb:

As he is only a workmate I'd go the blackmail route and try to get a fcuk buddy.

Question - How often do you see this work mate??

Then how often do you see them as a couple - if you see them regularly could you face her without feeling guilty.

Maybe - ok maybe standing up for the female as I am one - if she does have a child she went out liked the idea being found attractive by some-one and as she was drunk she let her guard down. You guys can be rather persuasive when you want to be, especially if it is an easy target.

Seeing you maybe brought her to sense, and she saw the error of her way. How often does she get to go out. If she goes out every weekend maybe it isn't a one off and you should tell him, well actually make her tell him.

are you easy then :norty:

chop :D

Replace....

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with.....

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then, and........;)

:D

OK assuming your mate is in a serious relationship with her and you definately saw her snogging someone else:

As I said before, if she has snogged someone else then it SHOULD be HIS decision on whether to forgive her or not!

She is in the wrong. These things don't happen by accident; you don't fall and land on someone with your tongue down their throat!! IF you can't be trusted to stay faithful when you're drunk, then don't get drunk when you're dating FFS :brickwall It's your problem, not anyone else's fault!!

As for all this, "just a simple mistake, didn't mean anything BS", well that just makes it worse; so, you compromised a serious relationship for something that didn't mean anything then eh!! Thanks!!

Sounds like this guy has had enough of a hard time already, losers like her, he could well do without! He needs his mates to support him at the moment and supporting him means not letting someone take the p*ss out of him, even if revealing their true colours might hurt him in the short term.

Ns04

If there was "Nothing in it" She would have told him.

Get her to tell him about the innocent drunken kiss - then everybody's happy :).

We need more info!

How much of a mate is he?
How long have they been going out?
Do they live together?
Who owns the house?
Does he cheat on her?
Is she well known for cheating on blokes?
Any pics of her?

For this thread to snowball to 10 pages we need all the ammo we can to come to a typical SN conflict of opinionated rantings :thumb:

Nah, we don't need that!!

DEYTOOOOOKHISSSSBIRRRRRD!!!! :lol1:

Ns04

Just suresh the knob jockey. Dont ever buy anything from his store, when hes not serving people hes serving it up himself behind the counter with one of the porno mags :eek: :D

Well I dont know about you guys, but if my missus played tonsil tennis with some next guy **** would hit the fan and she'd be a goner.:nono:

Maybe that's why you don't have a missus ;):D

I know poor me.......I have two :D

Wouldn't that just turn you on?

Only if it wasnt my GF

wait that didnt come out right

Only two - no wonder you missus plays away - you must be :freak3: :D

You must be retarded if you actually believe what you've written there.

Does that mean he's bisoxual?

/me off in the direction of the cloakroom

John.

:lol: quality!

There are times when it is better to keep your mouth shut.

Les

Got some examples Les ;):D

Like when a Maniac with a gun says "next person to speak gets shot!" ???


Tell him, had a simular situation myself, had no hard feelings toward the person that told me at all.

sooner the better!

Tell him. Its not very nice when you find out your misses is slagging about, even worse when your mates come up to you and say "Yeah well, I did want to tell you....." etc

Only reason why I recently found out my misses had been texting and meeting some local lowlife scumbag waster was because the person who told me wanted to get my GF back for some un-related issue. Even worse to have your life shat on just to please some other useless bag of w8nk revenge.

I am over it - honest :)

Had this happen to me some years ago!!

Tell him and then give him the revenge solution in the same conversation.......................Shag her up the arris, video it and post it to her parents...............oh and steal his car and put it through the front wall of his house!!!

Its quite effective.............so I've been told!!!

'Arris ramming seems to fix everything on S'Net these days :rolleyes: Must try it on the MoT tester - he's been unfaithful to my car :eek: Ba5tard :D

grim reaper, have you told him yet?

A few years back I was single and sh@gging any lady that breathed.
My friend Mate A's girlfriend introduved me to a young lady who instantly fell for my charms. :thumb:

One night when I was at mine getting tiddly with Mate B, Mate A's lady phoned up and said would I like her mate and her to come over so I could spend "quality time" with this new lady. (shabba)

I said yes and made arrangements for them to be beamed over to my house...
Me and new lady went upstairs and spent many hours discussing politics and thermo nuclear fusion. Then we paused and downstairs could hear Mate B and Mate A's missus going at it like wabbits. :eek:

I returned to my interaction with new lady until I woke in the morning, gave her the wrong telephone number and moved on, quoting the highlights of our interaction in my little black book. :D

Now Mate A was living with this slutty bint, so it was a big deal and I mulled over what to do for a week or two. In the end I told Mate A (after a few sherberts). He confronted his missus who confessed all in the hope of a suspended sentence, but she was kicked ooot on her bum. :eek:

Mate B didnt mind me telling Mate A because he kept denying anything had happened. In the end A&B didnt speak for 5 years...My friendship with Mate A went onto be stronger because he knew he could trust me. Mate B wasnt that bothered when it all came out as he had a kind of "f@ck it" attitude to quite literally everything in life (except men) :lol1:
Anyhoo
Mate A went on to get married to a really lovely girl, they now have babies and live in gibralter where he fixes war planes...
Slutty Bint lives on a council estate with just her two little ones for company and dreams of meeting someone earning more than 30k a year, apparantly :lol1:

So in short, tell him goddamn it!!